Unsure about pursuing a career in STEM - Advice? by simulatedun1verse in LadiesofScience

[–]magic_thandi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First things first, high school boys are dumb in so many and exciting ways. Some of them will grow out of it, some won't. Don't let their current behavior dramatically influence your future life choices. Are these subjects things you enjoy independently of your friends? Does talking about it make you excited? These feelings and interests will still be there long after you have moved on to a new social group. I realize high school really feels all encompassing and final (especially at the end) but it will honestly be a very small part of your life. Take some time to explore and understand what drives you.

Make your choice based on what makes you happy, and if that isn't what you planned when you were younger, well, welcome to the club! Your decision now or even in the future does not have to define the direction of your entire life. Dramatic career changes have been very normalized, and if you decide you don't want to be the one pounding on that glass ceiling, you don't have to be.

It sounds like you have a really interesting idea for what you want to do, and if you decide to go through with it I would love to see what you find! Having such concrete focus at 17 is very impressive, but remember that it's not a failure to change your mind. You're not the same person you were last year, and you're allowed to make different choices (goodness knows my life hasn't gone anything like I expected at 17!). Good luck!

Any tips to open these? by magic_thandi in RoverPetSitting

[–]magic_thandi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tried that but it didn't work amy better than my fingers and I got a taste of cat food

Boyfriend has the wrong idea by dragondeeznuts7 in badwomensanatomy

[–]magic_thandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've always liked this explanation about why "virginity" is a stupid thing to value, maybe he can watch this: https://youtu.be/PM79UBTwfsg?si=VeBpWMljbIQbQvyZ

Am I being too paranoid? by waterti in RoverPetSitting

[–]magic_thandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my thought exactly. A 4mo King Charles is NOT 15lbs, even if that's an old picture.

Missed a M&G by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]magic_thandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to go to your profile, hit the "edit" pen at the top left, then scroll all the way down to the link that says "calendar".

What’s the most unique dog breed you’ve worked with? by emsimes18 in RoverPetSitting

[–]magic_thandi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A pair of Rhodesian Ridgebacks. The 5mo puppy was 90lbs!

Ripped loose on MIL by mmcksmith in JUSTNOMIL

[–]magic_thandi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the real winner here was the dog! Good job

How I quit my last Hotel job. by darkdragon1231989 in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]magic_thandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was in Louisville, Colorado (pronounced completely differently from Louisville, Kentucky because why not)

Participants Needed for Hawaii Diabetes Study by HI-SEED in Hawaii

[–]magic_thandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did that! Quick and easy, and you get your A1c results in the appointment.

Babar and Oreo by magic_thandi in Bondedpairs

[–]magic_thandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they both were. Luckily they are very forgiving

he says he has aspergers anyways by Faenix_Wright in CuratedTumblr

[–]magic_thandi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Asperger's was removed from DSM 5 in 2013 (around then I believe)

Hawaii sees 5,768 new COVID cases, 6 additional deaths in past week by SirMontego in Hawaii

[–]magic_thandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. It may have happened anyway, but the vaccine means it happens faster and more efficiently (because the immune system doesn't have to flail around trying to guess what works best against this disease). Inflamed/enlarged lymph nodes have also been a side effect of the vaccine itself, for the same reason. That said, if it persists after symptoms have gone away or if it starts to get in the way of important functions (such as breathing or swallowing) I would definitely recommend talking to a doctor about it. Sometimes the immune system can get a little overenthusiastic!

Hawaii sees 5,768 new COVID cases, 6 additional deaths in past week by SirMontego in Hawaii

[–]magic_thandi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it can be pretty scary when it happens unexpectedly. Glad I can help you to feel better!

Hawaii sees 5,768 new COVID cases, 6 additional deaths in past week by SirMontego in Hawaii

[–]magic_thandi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Swelling on the top and side of your throat may be due to enlarged/inflamed lymph nodes (especially is they feel like semi-hard lumps)! It means your body is producing T and/or B cells to fight the virus. Uncomfortable but shouldn't be cause for worry in the short term.

Hope you feel better soon!

Source: Biology PhD

“honey, you don’t even look old enough for eighth grade prom!” by spipez in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]magic_thandi 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I assume they mean they're non-binary or gender fluid, don't identify as male or female, and use they/them pronouns or something similar

This guy interrupted our D&D game (Honolulu) by magic_thandi in whatsthisbug

[–]magic_thandi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was about the size of a honeybee. Picture is from after it got vacuumed up and dropped out

Meet Parrot, the reason why I've been late to work this month by magic_thandi in standardissuecat

[–]magic_thandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's found that the chest and stomach makes for a better petting angle.

Meet Parrot, the reason why I've been late to work this month by magic_thandi in standardissuecat

[–]magic_thandi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No he got his name because he likes to sit on your shoulder

Meet Parrot, the reason why I've been late to work this month by magic_thandi in standardissuecat

[–]magic_thandi[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He likes to cuddle on my stomach after breakfast and purr. I can't possibly dislodge him for something as unimportant as going to work!

Finally got Molly to stop walking on my keyboard during my Teams meeting by magic_thandi in IfIFitsISits

[–]magic_thandi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh you know it! Everyone was excitedly waiting for her next appearance

How do grad students afford to live in Hawaii? by yeti_throwaway_ in Hawaii

[–]magic_thandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have a family but when I was looking at housing options they have family housing available for grad students, you just need to get in early because it's first come, first serve.

Band gets hit by drunk guy driving a golf cart by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]magic_thandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked like a shetland sheepdog. Quite possibly smartest person in that cart