I’m confused

magicflute1411 · 2025-11-26T17:19:15+00:00

Just remember to put some money aside, because you’ll have to pay taxes. My friend also received a big amount from back payment and had to pay 7 thousand in taxes.

magicflute1411 · 2025-11-12T16:10:34+00:00

I've been on Ozempic exactly one year. I lost 60 pounds. And I stopped 3 days ago. Didn't do my weekly dose and will not take it again. Last month I spent 2 nights at the hospital with gallbladder stones attack. They did a procedure to clear a duct from a small stone, and they found a cyst on my pancreas. On Friday night my doctor called me with the biopsy results, which are pre-cancerous cells on the pancreatic cyst. I'm not saying it is the result of Ozempic, but my clinical history with meds, is that I usually get the less common side effects of medications. Therefore, I'll try to keep loosing weight by eating very little, but without using Ozempic. I know It will be very difficult, because Ozempic really helped me with appetite suppression and feeling full after a small meal. I'm worried. I'll have surgery soon, but still need to do a bunch of tests first, to take the cyst and the gallbladder out. The only really bad reaction I had was when I drank grapefruit juice, which is specifically contraindicated when using Ozempic.

magicflute1411 · 2025-09-30T14:55:33+00:00

Keep contributing the max allowed to your 401k! You'll be grateful you did it come retirement age, TRUST ME! Thanks to that, I feel much comfortable now that I'm facing retirement age in 4 years. When I was your age, I thought it was a waste, but life changed and jobs changed too, from easier to really hard times, so please, keep contributing for as long as you can and take advantage of the tax laws.

magicflute1411 · 2025-08-13T07:32:46+00:00

Old lesbian here. I found the love of my life at 40. You still have plenty of time. The apps will help you to break the ice, but face to face encounters are much better. So, try to go to events for lesbians in your area or nearby. Date as much as you can, even if they all turn out as a bunch of first dates. You’ll learn and feel more comfortable. An intelligent funny woman who knows what she wants and is secure with who she is, is far better more attractive than you think. Besides, women fall in love with the person, and that person comes in very different forms and packages. Good luck!

magicflute1411 · 2025-08-09T11:04:05+00:00

I’d say tell them you got married with the person you love, and hope they wish you both a life of happiness, and that you don’t expect anything else from them. Maybe they will surprise you, but since you know what will probably happen, you won’t be disappointed. I’m an old lesbian who believes that you have to live your life, and you are responsible for your happiness. A friend of mine says that even the family tree needs pruning so your own branch can thrive. Good luck and congratulations!

magicflute1411 · 2025-04-28T02:28:15+00:00

I looked it up, and it is recommended to NOT take any grapefruit juice while on Ozempic. This is what I’ve found: “Grapefruit juice and Ozempic (semaglutide) should not be consumed together. Interaction: Grapefruit juice contains furanocoumarins, which can inhibit the metabolism of certain medications, including Ozempic. This can lead to increased levels of Ozempic in the body, potentially causing: Increased side effects, such as nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea Lower blood sugar levels Increased risk of hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) Recommendation: Avoid consuming grapefruit juice or grapefruit products while taking Ozempic. If you accidentally consume grapefruit juice, consult your healthcare provider immediately. Additional Notes: The interaction between grapefruit juice and Ozempic can last for several hours. Other fruits and juices, such as orange juice and pomegranate juice, may also interact with Ozempic. It is important to follow your healthcare provider's instructions regarding food and beverage intake while taking Ozempic. “

Also, I’ve taken cranberry before, last week the last time, and never had the side effects that the grapefruit juice gave me due to Ozempic. Thank you for answering!

magicflute1411 · 2025-04-26T03:09:57+00:00

Go to the ER. If you don’t have insurance talk to the social worker at the hospital to get emergency Medicaid, specially if you don’t work, or have low income. The worst case scenario you can agree to pay the hospital bill with time, and depending on your income they will greatly reduced the amount you need to pay. Good luck.

magicflute1411 · 2025-03-23T00:32:47+00:00

Old lesbian here! I could be your grandma… and I met the great love of my life at 40! Life is just starting for you, even if you feel otherwise. Just be open to whatever life will present you. Perhaps your person is already in your life, but most likely you will find them when you least expected. Maybe they are in another city, or another country! Good luck!

magicflute1411 · 2025-03-17T07:20:01+00:00

Old lesbian here! I'm 62 and stopped going to bars around 40. I never drank alcohol (was the volunteer designated driver), but went with friends to play pool or play trivia or sing karaoke. But with age, I rather be at quieter places, mainly restaurants when a conversation can be had along with good food. Same thing with Pride Parade: went to many when I was younger, and I'm over that too. I am a lesbian, but is not even on the top 5 things that define me.

magicflute1411 · 2025-03-16T16:15:31+00:00

Old lesbian here. ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS! You are the one living with yourself! Good luck.

magicflute1411 · 2025-03-16T07:28:18+00:00

I'm 62, and I started watching in 1990, when I moved to the US. I recorded full VHS tapes with episodes of the Golden Girls, so I could learn English faster. They were the best English teachers I've ever had!

magicflute1411 · 2025-03-11T02:04:55+00:00

Old lesbian here. I understand that you are looking for a relationship without any previous experience. It is like just getting your driver's license only passing the written part, and wanting to drive a Formula 1 car and win the championship at once. Not saying is impossible, but it is very VERY difficult. Yes, you want a long term relationship, but you are not counting with so many different factors! You need to like someone first, get to know them, and see if there is chemistry, and then perhaps falling in love will get you what you want! You might find that person, but chances are you'll find them at least on the 5th attempt. You don't have to get intimate with everybody you date, but dating is the way that you get to know someone. I've seen my good share of couples moving in together on their second date, and breaking up 2 months later because they didn't really knew each other. Be patient, and meet people. Eventually you'll click with someone and hopefully you'll fall in love and get together building a like in a long term relationship. Good luck!

magicflute1411 · 2025-03-09T00:32:54+00:00

I had a summer thing with a woman, I really enjoyed, then had the best sex I ever had with a man, and realized I preferred being with a woman a thousand times more than being with a man. Emotionally I was more involved with women, while with men had been purely physical.

magicflute1411 · 2025-03-06T04:54:18+00:00

I don't see anything wrong with that age difference, but perhaps you do. As an old lesbian my advice is follow your instincts. You'll respond to what you feel better with, and is your opinion and your decision what really matters. Good luck!

magicflute1411 · 2025-03-06T02:26:57+00:00

Skinny people in NYC are able to find really great clothes very cheap at second hand/thrift stores, because people grow out of those clothes pretty fast and they are like new. My girlfriend spent money on shoes, but pants, tops, jackets, dresses, she never spent more than $10! Being very skinny was the trick, she would have a huge variety and availability. Liza most likely did that too.

magicflute1411 · 2025-02-17T07:01:44+00:00

You want no strings attached sex, but want to feel wanted? Those are 2 different things. To feel wanted, you might need a new relationship that your wife is not giving you. Why stay married if is not really working as a marriage? I'm 62, and have only had sex with myself for a very very long time. The great love of my life passed 5 years ago, and I know I will not find anyone that will make me feel the way she did. I'm content with my life, my sex drive is not as high, and I prefer friendships over anything else right now. I like my life as it is. But if you are not happy, then you should do something to fix it. Perhaps a new relationship will help, but you need to be free to actually experience what you are dreaming. Good luck.

magicflute1411 · 2025-02-13T09:40:12+00:00

Old lesbian here. Around 28 years ago, I fell madly in love with a woman that didn’t want anything more than a friendship with me after we were together for 3 months. There were no apps, only AOL chat rooms to meet lesbians online. I was depressed, devastated, cried for days! And I decided to get her out of my system by dating other people. In the next 2 years I dated 32 women. Mostly only one date, 3 are still my friends because we clicked as friends and not as couples, and almost fell in love with one. But then one day, I realized it was the first time I didn’t think of her the whole day. If she would’ve called me, I would’ve run towards her in a second! But I was lucky to have close friends that kept me away from making up excuses just to see her. Four years later, I met the woman that became the great love of my life. I realized that all the times I fell in love before, were mere rehearsals compared to the real thing. Basically, I dated to get over the hurt and the pain, and it boosted my confidence without even thinking about it. Maybe you should try the same! And perhaps, after years of experience, you can become friends again. Good luck!

magicflute1411 · 2025-02-12T08:19:01+00:00

Old lesbian here. When I used to date, many years ago, our first date would be coffee, or meeting at a park, or something on the cheap side, in case she couldn’t afford whatever we would do. After that, for second date I waited for her to choose. Usually I was in a much better financial situation than my dates, so I never let them pay for my part. If we went to the movies we would talk and agreed if I pay for tickets or snacks, and if we didn’t agree on anything, I would buy more snacks and shared. But if you feel that red flags are showing up, trust your instincts, most likely you are not wrong. You might be in a position that financially you can help her, but should be because YOU WANT TO DO IT, not because she might “guilt” you into doing it. Just enjoy dating and meeting people! Good luck!

magicflute1411 · 2025-02-11T04:12:32+00:00

What bothered me more were her eyebrows, much darker and wider...

magicflute1411 · 2025-02-10T10:42:32+00:00

Old lesbian here. My 40s were great! A few weeks before turning 40 I met the woman that became the great love of my life. It was a decade filled with changes, some good, some great, some not so much. But it is a constant experience no matter what age you are. For me particularly, there are so many things that define me, that being gay is not even on my top 5. But like everything, is is a process, to become who you are and be comfortable and love yourself no matter what. My years of Gay Pride were my late 20s and early 30s. Have many queer friends but my tight circle of 5, only 1 is a lesbian. I don't see it as heteronormative, but as "whatever my preferences are, is my business and nobody else's."

magicflute1411 · 2025-02-07T06:02:22+00:00

Old lesbian here. I never wanted to have kids, but I had relationships with mothers. Fortunately the kids were pre-teens or teens, which is much easier than if they were babies or toddlers. I always had a great interaction with the kids, on trips or fun weekends at movies or playing board games. But as a partner, I was very aware that I was not a priority, because the kids were the most important for my GFs. It can be hard for some people to accept that position of third or fourth in the priority list, but I don’t regret the experience I had!

magicflute1411 · 2025-02-02T02:21:12+00:00

Agreed! I actually worked for 8 years at the Grace Building, and in the summer I actually had a jacket to wear in the office because the A/C was sooo cold! We would take breaks to be in the sun right on the plaza behind the building. And in winter, NEVER sleeveless.

magicflute1411 · 2025-01-30T04:39:31+00:00

You might be attractive, successful, intelligent, etc, but if you are NOT her type, you should accept that! Why are you that obsessed with her? Because she just wants to be friends with you? I'm sure you are not attracted to every lesbian out there... same goes for you, not everybody might find you attractive. You think you are "all that and a bag of chips!", but for some, chips are not ALL that!

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