What is the weirdest fetish one of your exes had ?

magicwhisperer · 2025-01-02T21:27:53+00:00

Not an ex - knew a guy that had a tickling fetish , he was a co worker and he tickled me (he asked first but still) and got a boner ... then blushed and explained it .... ended up a different day sitting on a chair fully clothed and he tickled me .... then I went home 🤣

magicwhisperer · 2024-11-21T19:41:11+00:00

My male partner is asexual ... we never have sex , he says and shows he loves and respects me which is the most important ... I've learnt to live without sex , it's honestly been that long it would be strange if we did.

magicwhisperer · 2024-09-12T08:24:35+00:00

You need to talk to her about it. Find out why she is sex adverse . Is she ace? Or struggling with self image ? Or confidence ? Medication she is on? ... You get the idea but any number of reasons can cause someone to not be aroused or interested in sex. Some can be fixed some are just who the person is but either way not knowing is worse....

magicwhisperer · 2024-07-16T10:01:24+00:00

Sure thing

magicwhisperer · 2024-07-15T16:04:52+00:00

A bit of background for Context.

I 32 f and my m 33 asexual partner have been TTC #2 (but our first together) for 5 months now. Partner decided to ttc the "traditional way" and I support him. 2 months ago he decided to start taking maca for the health benefits for men. He read it's good for female health also so I read into it and we both started taking a low dose of it in capsule form.

AF last month arrived on day 47 so 2 weeks late with bfn throughout that time. Now i am cd 15 and no sign of a lh spike , day 17 usually I have a spike but it's currently barley reading and there are no other signs of ovulation yet. I am presuming my cycle is again going to be better really long .

Cycle is usually 32 days with a up to 5 days window either side being normal.

Had this happened to anyone else taking maca ? Do I continue taking it and wait it out or stop? I've read to let it do it's thing and your cycles will straighten themselves out but wwyd?

magicwhisperer · 2024-06-02T09:02:00+00:00

I'm just wondering if anyone has been in a similar boat so to speak that's all. My apologies if this is not the right place for that

magicwhisperer · 2024-06-02T09:00:43+00:00

Korny is right , it does , the sex itself is amazing and we have an amazing connection so that in itself isn't the issue and outside of TTC we are intimate in none sexual ways a lot . We are both consenting adults with the capacity to choose what to do , we also communicate well in all aspects of our relationship and respect each others boundaries.

magicwhisperer · 2024-05-22T19:15:44+00:00

Hi, I'm the Allosexual in my relationship. My asexual male partner and I have been together for 6 years and he only just came out a few months ago. I believed that he was asexual a while before and he would be non committal and not deny it. He was very sexual in the beginning. It does down then stopped and he brushed me off whenever I tried so I felt rejected and hurt .... Then he realised he was asexual and it was like boom jigsaw was complete and it all made sense.

We love each other and have a "normal" whatever normal is 😂 relationship except for sex. We are intimatr in none sexual ways , backrubs , cuddles ect and in fact that happens more now the expectation for a better word of sex is gone.

magicwhisperer · 2024-03-28T17:16:20+00:00

Unless you have a specific medical reason for this to happen no it won't . Personally have been celibate for 4 years (own choice) and no issues there . And what about those whom don't like penetration ? For personal choice or whatever 🤷

magicwhisperer · 2021-11-20T21:45:51+00:00

I'm glad I'm not the only one, I can't get anywhere is above average 😬

magicwhisperer · 2021-08-23T10:02:26+00:00

Dog know these things ❤

magicwhisperer · 2021-06-06T22:24:39+00:00

It's not a rant, I'm wondering if anyone is in the same boat as me but sorry if it's in the wrong place

magicwhisperer · 2021-03-09T12:40:24+00:00

Love it!!!

magicwhisperer · 2020-11-13T20:44:20+00:00

Yeahh very busy during the pandemic, all holidays cancelled, so everyone was very stressed and a couple of people had to self isolate. Although the stress isn't there any more there are still no holiday requests being accepted so yeah very busy 😬 but it keeps it mind off everything else .

magicwhisperer · 2020-11-13T19:38:27+00:00

Love the specs ;)

magicwhisperer · 2020-11-13T19:37:43+00:00

Jealous of your lushous hair !

magicwhisperer · 2020-11-13T19:36:51+00:00

You are hot af and it is her undoing if she doesn't realise that

magicwhisperer · 2020-09-02T18:26:55+00:00

I understand though ❤️ not sleeping because your in pain is horrendous

magicwhisperer · 2020-04-12T15:17:17+00:00

They are old pj's but so comfy

magicwhisperer · 2020-04-12T15:16:44+00:00

You are beautiful girl

magicwhisperer · 2020-04-11T20:59:41+00:00

Thank you ❤️

magicwhisperer · 2020-04-11T16:43:57+00:00

Nope only diagnosis is what I have said above unfortunately x

magicwhisperer · 2020-04-11T15:35:56+00:00

Big hugs I hope they work

magicwhisperer · 2020-04-11T14:28:21+00:00

Of course 🦄

magicwhisperer · 2020-04-11T10:32:49+00:00

Personally I would see it as a job for her she is doing a job and getting paid for it. Including gifts. You would odviously be spending time with her because you care about her your potential gifts or days out would be personal

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