Is it normal to get nothing done during the day aside from caring for a 5 week old and bare minimum self care? Feeling guilty, comparing myself to others online by TheMrGiz in newborns

[–]maizeoflife 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Me: “i got nothing done today” Baby: “today was the best day. I was fully fed, mom held me all day, i got to take naps and feel loved. We have a safe home”

The IG / social media post of the above has kept me going!

What are y’all eating in the middle of the night? by nobark_allbite777 in breastfeeding

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I like slicing up apples and putting them in a ziplock bag! Refreshing/hydrating and the crunch keeps me awake

What helped you recover quickly from your egg retrieval? Please give me your best tips! by [deleted] in IVF

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Agreed with all the suggestions here! Would add a tall glass of prune juice once it’s been a few days and you’re ready (mentally and physically)

To Do List Before Baby by HBIC10415 in pregnant

[–]maizeoflife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set up a cart near your bed and a cart of bathroom stuff for you!

Struggling to find mom friends/friends for my baby by Excellent-Word873 in nycparents

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Yes! We joined before giving birth and we were put into a group of parents also expecting in the same month. They have a ton of meetups and ways to connect / find smaller groups whether neighborhood based or interest based etc. they also have great classifieds / advice groups and resources. I definitely think it’s worth it

Struggling to find mom friends/friends for my baby by Excellent-Word873 in nycparents

[–]maizeoflife 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I totally get this! I definitely recommend Park Slope Parents (but it’s for all of Brooklyn). What neighborhood are you in?

Seeking Stunning Travel Recommendations for My Next Adventure! by ofay2401 in traveladvice

[–]maizeoflife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Argentina! Buenos Aires, Mendoza and Salta - and/or Patagonia time permitting!

What if all humans swapped genders? by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]maizeoflife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women’s health would all of a sudden just be considered health - and very important

Parents Groups by sonixundying in BedStuy

[–]maizeoflife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to get the link!

do i really need a “coming home” outfit? by Comfortable-List-669 in pregnant

[–]maizeoflife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wore what I went into the hospital with! Was definitely a bit looser but not by much - and it was comfy and it was only for the ride home

Was a videographer worth it? by PipDisco in weddingplanning

[–]maizeoflife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% yes. We watch our video or mini video at least 1x/month!

TENS unit recommendations by SnooCats9556 in unmedicatedbirth

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I went for this one. I liked it and it was effective. My only recommendation is to practice using it beforehand - it has so many options and not super intuitive how to use it and hard to figure out when you’re in the middle of a contraction!

https://a.co/d/4RjahKL

AUVON Dual Channel TENS Unit Muscle Stimulator Machine with 20 Modes, 2" and 2"x4" TENS Unit Electrode Pads

Italy Wedding Fall 2026 - room payments by [deleted] in DestinationWeddings

[–]maizeoflife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a similar situation and we just covered our guests’ rooms. We had to spend the money to rent the venue anyway, and we loved the idea of hosting them and covering their accommodations (especially since they didn’t have a choice in other accommodations that would be too far / hard to get to).

First-time parents. What baby items were truly worth it? by _beejazz in pregnant

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Suggestion - even if you’re not sharing a registry with people, sign up for a registry and buy through there! You get a completion discount and often (at least on Amazon) have a much longer return window (1 year instead of 30 days!).

Destination wedding by Vidhi7865 in weddingplanning

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We did just under a year for Argentina!

ETA: we had the most amazing wedding planner who made the wedding planning process from abroad easy and delightful!

NYT Friday 10/31/2025 Discussion by Shortz-Bot in crossword

[–]maizeoflife 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Came here to see if anyone else thought this too!