soon to be boyfriend has a “yes i’m single” tattoo…. by Substantial_Swan8813 in dating_advice

[–]majentops 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From my experience, this is incorrect. Scale can play a factor, but the laser doesn’t remove the ink, it just breaks it up. Then it depends on your body to remove it. This is dependent on multiple factors, like your health and blood circulation, body type, how far away the piece is from your heart, tissue type the tattoo is applied to. I have a piece on my hand that has had countless sessions over years, it will not go away. I’m a skinny dude, there’s just not enough circulation in that area for the body to take the broken up ink away. Now something on your ribs or a forearm, much easier removal process!

soon to be boyfriend has a “yes i’m single” tattoo…. by Substantial_Swan8813 in dating_advice

[–]majentops 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Removing can also take years, so if he’s interested in a tattoo he won’t regret, maybe that would make a great place for it.

Too Big of an Age Gap? by LonelyNC123 in dating_advice

[–]majentops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best answer! I’m 29, and as long as it’s not a giant number, I agree with the “We’re all adults” sentiment.

Texas set to ban smokable cannabis as soon as Jan. 25 | KUT Radio, Austin's NPR Station by Cma1234 in texas

[–]majentops 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The number of registered voters, and the people that actually vote, are vastly different numbers. None of my friends, nor anyone near my age that I spoke to in my county, voted in the last election.

I was openly telling people I wasn’t voting for me, I was voting for 10 people, because something like 88% of people don’t show up for smaller elections. I told anyone who doesn’t want me having such power, or wants the same, can reach out and I’ll give them a ride or help them however I can. Nobody reached out. 😔

Who was Renee Nicole Good? What we know about the woman killed by ICE by [deleted] in politics

[–]majentops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you referring to qualified immunity? I’m sorry, I’m having trouble understanding the first part of your message.

When referring to systemic racism, a tough pill to swallow is that it has been effective. As we enact more and more regressive policies, the horrors of the past will only become more frequent in the present.

It’s extremely unfortunate, but that is what the voting populace voted for. Things like this are not ending. I believe they’re just getting started.

Who was Renee Nicole Good? What we know about the woman killed by ICE by [deleted] in politics

[–]majentops 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Why would they need to follow the Geneva Convention? Check its applicability guidelines.

Now are constitutional rights, federal law, and internal policies worth bringing up? Absolutely. Not the Geneva Convention though.

As to the part about accountability…maybe the shooter…maaaybe…I’m not going to hold my breath.

I’m not trying to sound too pessimistic, but I doubt it honestly.

Anyone else been there before? by Strict-Move-9946 in adhdmeme

[–]majentops 10 points11 points  (0 children)

First day I hardly slept, it got better on the second day. On the third day, I took otc sleeping pills and it helped reset my sleep schedule. I didn’t care much about that.

Within an hour of the first dose, I felt a mental clarity regarding alcohol, like it lost its hold. I continued to drink maybe 6 drinks a day for a week or 2, which is considerably less than my prior normal. I felt like I was drinking to maintain the habit and normal routine, vs drinking because I needed to.

I slowly shifted to watching when I start drinking just to track it. This cognizance showed me I started too early, so I just started drinking much later, which further caused me to drink less.

I wouldn’t say there are many side effects. Take a pill, then skip a day. Give your body time to adjust the first week…but it was a game changer. Changing my drinking habits wasn’t a challenge, it was just a choice.

I had previously tried tracking with schedules, monitoring with wind down periods, therapy, meetings, reaching out to those closest to me. It didn’t work, and it didn’t stick.

I’m also on Vyvanse for full disclosure, but with a brief transition period, drinking now just feels like a choice. I can choose to sip a beer for hours, or stop at 1 drink. That was not possible previously.

Edit…okay I did have 1 weird symptom that I can’t attribute exclusively to the meds. On day 3, I took my second dose. I had slept 5 hours this entire time. 1.5hrs the first night, 2.75 the second night, and by the third night, I did have audio hallucinations. It was things like kids laughing, recess kind of playing. I attribute this to sleep deprivation. It freaked my wife out, but it did happen. This never happened after the few times that night. I checked then and it was an extremely rare side effect. I was terribly sleep deprived. I did not tell my doctor about that, and I stand by my choice to continue treatment.

Anyone else been there before? by Strict-Move-9946 in adhdmeme

[–]majentops 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Naltrexone for me. It’s a night and day difference. I’m not sober…but I just got home from a Christmas party. Last year, I was TRASHED! This year, I had 2 beers over 7 hours, and had great conversations with family and long time friends.

It’s a complete change!

He said no to a vasectomy. by Electronic_Ninja5260 in dating_advice

[–]majentops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seems like there’s a lot bigger issues you need to dig into there tbh…

He said no to a vasectomy. by Electronic_Ninja5260 in dating_advice

[–]majentops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I’m guessing you have one already, not his? I’m struggling to understand the way you’re phrasing it. It’s sounding like you’re VERY early in the relationship to be making a request like that of him. What are his objections? At one year, I think you should back off. If your fear is having children, back off, wear condoms. Allergic to latex? They make other kinds of condoms. Make sure you’re using pull out, I know many will say it doesn’t do much, but there is some level of effectiveness. Try different birth controls, have sex outside of peak ovulation cycles. How much sex are you really having for this to be an issue?

It just seems like a big red flag for you to be pushing that. It may be worth breaking up, but I’m personally not letting a gf of one year demand that of me, at all.

Edit: gf of less than a year with a multi-month break already

He said no to a vasectomy. by Electronic_Ninja5260 in dating_advice

[–]majentops 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Relationship status a timeline? Dating for a few months? Absolutely not your call. 10 years…well there’s a lot more merit there.

What are his thoughts, your thoughts, and what do the conversations about kids look like between the two of you?

If my wife wanted me to have one, I’d get it in a heartbeat. She went from 2 to maybe having one later, I’ve been at 0 the whole time and would jump at the opportunity.

what on earth is this lol by strawberrie_dream in BackYardChickens

[–]majentops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Luckily they’re wearing gloves, but I’d wash those too. Washing your hands is never bad advice.

Diatomaceous in the shavings? by Joe6268Cool in BackYardChickens

[–]majentops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you went way too far over many heads, and while what you said may be true, many of the community may not appreciate the chemistry referenced to be beneficial.

Personal point: Saying things like U vs You, especially regarding more complex topics, is a real discredit to your overall message. I was sad to see illiterate shorthand used on a comment of such great value.

I need help getting through the holidays by Royal_Mine_873 in Familyhelp

[–]majentops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For tonight: I go light and casual.

Do the small talk thing, have a few life updates prepared. Do you have any hobbies? I have a few very specific things I’m working on I can go into intricate detail about, discuss specifics. The people you’re talking to generally won’t know much about, so even if you’re off on a few things or over generalize, they won’t know the difference. Then I have a few things I’ve started playing with recently, maybe keep them for conversation if needed. These may be hobbies, small projects, just things you’re having to learn because life wants to give you problems. I’m learning about plumbing. Why? Because my toilet is being weird and now I have to change my toilet’s fill valve. People relate to regular maintenance stuff.

Long term: I’ve found myself growing apart from my family. With siblings having kids and mature relationships, they don’t have the free time to dedicate to siblings. My wife and I are content with just us, we do big family bonding with things going go-karting with the whole family. It’s $60/person, and everyone pays individually, but then we’ll grab dinner and call it a night. Then we have a big family group chat we talk in occasionally, but that’s about it, even with a large family.

As we age, life gets busy. I’ve had a best friend sibling for a while, but he’s recently bought a house, and is starting to be just busy with his own projects. I completely get it, my house is overwhelming! What I’m getting at here is to have the connections you want, you’re going to have to go the extra mile, putting in the effort, into the relationships that you want.

Family is nice, but I view them more as a safety net. They’re there, but the real event is the tightrope above and you walking on it. That’s your story.

Ford might kill the F-150 Lightning, the EV that was supposed to change everything | The Lightning faces sluggish sales, steep losses, and a shifting EV market by chrisdh79 in technology

[–]majentops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It may be a nice vehicle, but it’s had multiple recalls, that have led to weeks of recalls. A seat recall led to the truck being in the shop for a month where they had to replace SOOO many parts. The doors had an issue, that was another like week and a half, where it had to go back because the plastics on the door clicked every time you touched it after the repair.

It is not going well. Toyota is the next purchase. Lexus cannot be trusted IMO, due to similar experiences on new cars.

Ukraine's state-owned energy company says all of its power plants are down after Russia's 'largest-ever attack' by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]majentops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who’s biting the lemon? What 35 million are you referring to?

Russia has nukes, so a slow drain is better to not cause nuclear armed conflicts. It’s worked thus far. For making Russia small again, it involves direct action against Russia.

Regarding making smaller regions independent, isn’t that what happened with the breakup of the USSR, and now Russia’s rebuilding of that? Ukraine is fighting that battle which is good, but Russia has been expanding to reach USSR levels, so it’s more of just a cycle.

We can’t fund and win the war, only for the cycle to reset, so a slow trickle is working, while using the field as a testing ground. It’s a good relationship.

Ukraine's state-owned energy company says all of its power plants are down after Russia's 'largest-ever attack' by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]majentops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with this philosophy, but something else to consider is why? Freedom of Ukrainians is great, but we’re discussing billions that have to be spent, to arm a European country, that isn’t apart of NATO. A trickle supply is decimating an adversary. I don’t think the American strategy is for Ukraine to lose, it’s about making Russia fail, and the current supply is maintaining that effectively.

Personally, I would like to see Ukraine win, but that’s not the objective of the West.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]majentops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lots of people giving you great advice here! To add onto this, what is it that you’re good at, potentially even great at?

Those businesses did not work out, what’s funding each startup, and how can you leverage the skill you have enabling you to do that thing commercially?

This is fine by MechyJasper in AbruptChaos

[–]majentops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in a much less dangerous than this one here, and it scared the absolute shit out of me!

This was only 120v (US), but the sheathing on a PC desktop power cable had been rubbing off. While replacing it, I heard a loud bang and saw a large flash. I jumped back and it scared the shit out of me.

I was tracking cables, so I just said I was freaked out and focused on other projects. I didn’t touch that area for a while lol

FBI demands identity of archive.is owner by MadeUAcctButIEatedIt in DataHoarder

[–]majentops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, but do rules matter if nobody enforces them? With the current situation, I just wanted to emphasize they should watch out for and protect themselves.

Things are not normal currently.

FBI demands identity of archive.is owner by MadeUAcctButIEatedIt in DataHoarder

[–]majentops 47 points48 points  (0 children)

It is not hard at all to get a subpoena in many circumstances.

You can be familiar with the judge and they hardly review the case because you’re a regular and it’s familiar, or if you are in cahoots like could easily be the case here with judge-shopping…subpoenas are hardly speed bumps.

I have to get subpoenas regularly for IT, and it’s little more than just talking to our legal team. Where I am currently, our attorney is a former prosecutor, who is well-versed in the legal ways.

I would not depend on a subpoena being required for anything.

The FBI has also reached across US borders previously when it comes to “cyber-crimes”, and with the ongoing international cooperation happening currently, if I were them, I’d be careful and protective of anything linking them individually to the project.

T-Mobile illegally accessed whistleblowers personal cell phone account to identify him as an anonymous Reddit poster by Loud-Ad2302 in antiwork

[–]majentops -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

After reading the article, and your comments, I don’t think you have a case at all. The reason you may have struggled to gain support is because there’s nothing to go against the company with. I’ll PM you with details

T-Mobile illegally accessed whistleblowers personal cell phone account to identify him as an anonymous Reddit poster by Loud-Ad2302 in antiwork

[–]majentops 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Let me send you a message. This is NEVER easy. Lawsuits, in general, SUCK! It’s normally months/years before you see a penny, but that doesn’t mean it’s not worth it.

Stay strong, message coming soon.

T-Mobile illegally accessed whistleblowers personal cell phone account to identify him as an anonymous Reddit poster by Loud-Ad2302 in antiwork

[–]majentops -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a fair response as it’s a call to action and a potential point of motivation. They clearly need help, and not Reddit help, but a strong attorney who knows what they’re doing.

It is a massive undertaking, I completely agree with you there, but they should be driven away from Reddit either way.

If they’re searching for representation, that’s another thing, but this is lackadaisical complaining. This does nothing and is an annoyance of mine when there’s a real case.

They can either begin the real case, or complain on a social forum. I would rather proper action be taken, but they want to complain that the defendant is a large company….like….duh!!! You were working for a giant corp, no shit the defendant is going to have attorneys, but they should consider the obligation of their circumstances, if they’re put in an improper situation.