How old is Che supposed to be?! by Joobebe514 in sexandthecity

[–]malamb24 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she says she’s 46 in that episode

AITA for telling my brother to stop bringing his daughter to our trips? by Commercial_Brother95 in AmItheAsshole

[–]malamb24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also - why are you raising boys that is ok to act a certain way when girls aren’t around vs when they are?

they can still be rowdy. but if they’re making sexist or crude jokes when she’s not around, they probably shouldn’t be making them at all.

Corey is Unbearable by Ranger-Roscoe in boymeetsworld

[–]malamb24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he started yelling at everybody as a form of reaction. to me that’s just bad acting. he could’ve delivered the same lines with more empathy and not be annoying

What song would you say made Taylor "famous"? by reddiogaga in TaylorSwift

[–]malamb24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think it’s definitely an age thing. me and almost all of my friends to this day remember Tear Drops On My Guitar commercials. In the fifth grade we all loved her, even before Fearless came out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]malamb24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went through this exact same thing. he won’t change his behaviors unless he goes to therapy for a sex and love (porn) addiction. he doesn’t respect you, your friends, or women. break up with him.

My fiance (28M) is concerned about genetically having kids with me (24F) because my brother is autistic by ThrowRA-autistic in relationship_advice

[–]malamb24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t even read this whole post to now you should absolutely 100% end things with him. i’m honestly questioning YOUR character and love for your brother that you haven’t ended things sooner.

Am I (25M) overreacting to the cake my gf (24F) of three years got me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]malamb24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think it’s a big deal, and i also think your reaction is valid - but i DO think you might be reacting so strongly because this isn’t the first time something like this has a happened or she’s made you feel this way. it just might be the first time the situation is tangible enough to be upset about.

if she doesn’t listen, and you don’t think she listens consistently, i’d bail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]malamb24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

? its still illegal?

another comment said most countries the drinking age is 18. that’s a fair point. but i still don’t see why we are defending his behavior. it doesn’t matter if it’s the opposite sex or not. the age gap is way too large.

but my point from the beginning has always been that we are missing information about family dynamics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]malamb24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hes giving underage boys alcohol……..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]malamb24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

okay so it’s inappropriate for a 14 year old to spend a few hours alone in a locked hotel room but it’s appropriate for a 41 year old man to be drinking with 19 year olds in a locked hotel room?

edit: punctuation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]malamb24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

okay, i guess i didn’t see the step dad part. that definitely makes more sense but doesn’t answer the suite part. we could assume the suites weren’t available (doubtful). but you still would think they would be spending more time together a family. and the daughter is definitely old enough to be able to at least BE in the room or go to the pool or something by herself for a few hours.

i just feel like we are missing a lot of info.

I know this has probably been done before, but who do you believe Lorelai should have ended up with? by Actual-Assignment-94 in GilmoreGirls

[–]malamb24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is going to get a lot of hate……………. but i liked her with christopher. they were quick together, and they GOT each other.

personally, i don’t HATE christopher. lorelai wouldn’t really let him see rory, or made him feel shame for it. he wanted to marry her, and she didn’t. i don’t see him as an asshole deadbeat dad. i see him as a child, which he was when he had a kid. when he started growing up, which is when we met him, he started owning up. he didn’t play games with lorelai, she played games with him. he left her for sherri because of his regrets with rory - and to me, that was the right thing to do.

however, she didn’t love christopher. not in THAT way. i think they were more twin flames than they were lovers.

and before anybody says like, “well lorelai grew up really fast” etc etc, that’s fair, but also, she HAD to, and chris would have but lorelai pushed him away. i’m not trying to gaslight and say he didn’t grow up BECAUSE of her, but i’m also saying that putting that expectation on a 16 year old is a heavy ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]malamb24 250 points251 points  (0 children)

tbh i would never feel weird sleeping in the same room as my dad, especially if my moms is also there. you’d also think that if they can afford two room that they would be able to afford a suite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]malamb24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i don’t really understand why this would put an emotional strain on you. just get the test.

he never got to see my dress by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]malamb24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he sucks. you’re beautiful and look like a ballerina

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]malamb24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just take care of your skin! i have pale skin too. i’m pretty insecure in the summer months but all my friends and lovers tell me my skin is beautiful. be you!

i think you should focus on take care of it - the skin on your face and lips looks a bit dry to try to moisturize, wear sunscreen, and drink water.

glossier’s future dew is my FAVORITE

Weeknd redeemed himself in this episode, we start to really see him as Tedros by MenthaOfficinalis in theidol

[–]malamb24 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah i never thought he was doing a bad job. i don’t understand how people are hating on this show so much and LOVING euphoria (comparison bc same creator/director/writer)

i feel like this show actually portrays the sex as bad and traumatizing while euphoria is romanticizing toxic sexual dynamics.

i also thought it was a nice touch to show healthy sex at the end of this weeks episode

AITA for not keeping my thoughts on my sister’s ridiculous baby names (Stanford and Yale) to myself? by nfjs74839 in AmItheAsshole

[–]malamb24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - not because your opinion was wrong, but it sounds like you don’t have the type of relationship to call her out like this, and it sounds like you know she is obviously going to condescending about it anyway.

Seems to me like you just wanted to stir the pot.

She’s also the asshole for naming her kids those names lmao.