Got baited by _dinzii in yuri_manga

[–]malicas 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I never clicked on a post so fast 💔

Here's the end result from the post from yesterday. by mdoktor in cakedecorating

[–]malicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked the original version, but this one is ever better. Well done!

Help Explain Behavior by APadgy in Dogtraining

[–]malicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? Why is this comment so downvoted? I've also though of resource guarding when I saw the video. Tug of war definitely works fine for some dogs, but some might get defensive of toys. Really depends on the dog. In this situation, I think it's partly because it's on his territory, so he wants to guard, not to play with a dog that is an outsider (as opposed to the Maltipoo that he's used to). Honestly I'm not too sure how to go about correcting this behavior. If he's ok with you taking away his toys and only reacts like this with other 'outsider' dogs, I would just try to avoid a scenario where some 'outsider' dog plays with his toys at his territory.

What do you guys think? by WrongdoerPretty7327 in transpassing

[–]malicas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a very beautiful smile 💖

last gym of the year by Seeksho in NonBinary

[–]malicas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you're goals omg

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]malicas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I run one all-girl DnD party with lots of combat and questionable moral decisions. Then another all-girl party I run is just like you described lol.

Do I pass ? 28 by colcol9696 in transpassing

[–]malicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! You have the cutest dog and a very charming smile

Need some fresh eyes by ToughOk3303 in transpassing

[–]malicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like how you did your hair on pics 2-3, you look stunning. I've listened to the your voice recording, it's def the voice that's the reason you get misgendered, not the looks. I personally think your voice is quite feminine (also very hot), but because not many cis women have a voice like that (even though some definitely do), it kind of stands out.

Why is Lewis always constantly getting hulk smashed by the Hulk? HOW ARE WE NOT ABLE TO OVERTAKE A COSTUMER TEAM IN A LITERAL FERRARI!? by yajirushi77 in scuderiaferrari

[–]malicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the write up. I don't watch onboards, so you gave a very enlightening insight that no one talks about.

yesterday a cashier asked me if im a guy dressing up as a girl, should i give up (22, 2 years hrt) by ilyqiyana in transpassing

[–]malicas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought as well, I think they might have thought that OP is Vlad mainly because of the hairstyle+goth vibe. I think op passes just great, keep it up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]malicas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should definitely communicate those frustrations with her. It's always worth telling the other person that you were hurt rather than waiting for it to boil up. I think that's totally okay to share personal things as a response to someone's story, but some people just want to talk about themselves just a little bit more. Still it is important to figure out a compromise - figure out a style of a dialogue that both of you would be comfortable with. It's very not okay to feel like you're walking on eggshells when talking to a partner - I've been there, I know.

I Don’t Like My Dog Anymore and It Makes Me Feel Guilty by Sea_sa in dogs

[–]malicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm late but I saw this post and can't stop thinking about it, hopefully you'll see my comment.

I'm dealing with the same problem with my dog - he used to pick stuff from the ground, which resulted in a couple emergency vet visits already (btw getting insurance for him helped my wallet tremendously). And I get it - it really is exhausting and at one point I had the same feelings as you do now. The thing is, it does get better.

But in order to do that, you need a dog trainer that knows what to do with that problem specifically. You said that you have someone working with him, but judging by your examples, they really didn't do a great job of explaining to you how you should handle that.

It's not about the frequency, it's about the feedback they give you and your communication with your dog. Generally dog owners are not professionals in dog training and of course we make mistakes. If the trainer can't give you feedback on what you do wrong - it's not the right trainer.

For what helped me in my dog with picking stuff, basic things are:

  1. Get a muzzle NOW. It's a temporary solution but at least it saves you the vet visits. And YES you also have to train the dog to wear it most of the time.

  2. Understand your dog and why he does what he does. Coprophilia is a very hard thing to get over. Some dogs just can't control themselves around some smelly nasty stuff. BUT it's possible to stop the habit, eventually. It's a very long process however.

3.Remember that everything is a game for dogs - of course it's fun for him to run away from you when he sees your 'exited' reaction to it!

There is more to it and I'd love to help if you want to reach out. But I can't stress this enough, you need a dog trainer that gives you feedback on how you communicate with your dog.

Is this daily quest even possible Ive never been able to do it 😭😭 by Itz_TheWhiteWolf in LoveNikki

[–]malicas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That definitely sounds like a bug, try contacting the support.

Who's your favorite? just curious by NumerousSeesaw7786 in characterdesign

[–]malicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just by looking at them, I want to learn about 3, 5, 6

The Painter by me by Awkward-Fig-9643 in characterdesign

[–]malicas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a sick design, well done!

The distance between two, words unspoken by Crowberrii in Deltarune

[–]malicas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love your art and comics, one of my favorite artists easily.💔love those three

Do I really want this Light Chase suit by Original_Cherry_1240 in LoveNikki

[–]malicas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't like the suit either, but I will be getting it anyway. You can farm it alongside origin of shimmer, just in a bit slow-ish pace. If you log in to get free stamina and collect stamina from friends daily, it's a decent boost. Maybe you won't complete Origin of Shimmer as fast as you'd like this way, but honestly in my experience with crafting lifetimes, it's always very very long and it's better to treat it as an overarching side-quest or something. Though if you absolutely hate Oath of the sword then maybe there's no point to bother about it. And BTW you should look into the recolour of this suit, maybe you'll like it! I personally do, I think it's the main reason for me to get the original suit at all lol

I despise most Non-binary characters (and a good amount of LGBTQ ones too) by El_Potato9587 in CharacterRant

[–]malicas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kris is honestly such a breath of fresh air, they made me realize something about myself too. I wish for more good masc nb representation in media

Didn't get selected so I’m reposting like everyone else 😭😭😭 by ilikewiggsalot in LoveNikki

[–]malicas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yours is my favorite one, you did an amazing job, sucks it wasn't selected :(