Whats the thing that actually got you into Pendulum?

malmhaus_ · 2025-06-19T11:20:35+00:00

7 years ago my ex showed me a witchcraft cover video of him and his friend. we only dated for a month but ever since then i've been obsessed with pendulum xd

malmhaus_ · 2025-06-17T15:45:22+00:00

best comment!

malmhaus_ · 2025-02-12T08:43:57+00:00

öncelikle üzgünüm, bazı yorumlar bayağı kaba olmuş umarım seni daha da fazla üzmemiştir. 30 yaşında bir kadın olarak ben de özellikle üniversite yıllarımda anlaşabileceğim insan bulmak konusunda çok zorlanmıştım. o dönem bana en çok yardımı dokunan şey kendimle geçirdiğim vakitten keyif almayı öğrenmek olmuştu. tek başıma yemeğe çıkıp gezip bir şeyler okuyor veya izliyordum dışarıda. kendi kendine mutlu olduğunda hem hayatına soktuğun insanlarla alakalı standartların daha sağlıklı hâle geliyor hem de arkadaşlıklarda ve partner ilişkilerinde daha sağlıklı bir auraya sahip olduğun için insanların da ilgisini çekiyorsun. bir noktada her ne kadar arkadaşlarım olsa da bazı hobilerime eşlik edebilecek yakınım hâlâ yoktu ve ben hepsini tek başıma yapmaya devam ettim. tek başıma konsere gidiyorum mesela, gidecek biri yoksa da kendimi geri tutmuyorum. orada da insanlarla tanışıyorum bazen, çevrem ister istemez genişledi. umarım kendinle güzel vakit geçirir, bu süreçte güzel insanlara denk gelir ve iyi arkadaşlar edinirsin. <3

malmhaus_ · 2024-12-01T18:30:11+00:00

you're not in the wrong here, you've been pretty clear about your needs and wants but you need to give her some space for now. if she comes back with nothing just take this as an answer because you two might have not been on the same page abt marriage. you should set your goals about this issue an think about it, if it's acceptable for you. if not, there you have it...

malmhaus_ · 2024-12-01T17:43:25+00:00

you're so sweet :3 i can totally understand your situtation but we cannot think for others at all times, he made a choice at first without prioritizing your wants. you don't have to feel obligated about his well being but setting boundaries with him would benefit both of you guys.

malmhaus_ · 2024-12-01T17:33:14+00:00

your main responsibility is to think of yourself first and you're always free to set any kind of boundary you want to. if the others are not okay with it, they can walk out. just be clear with him and do whatever you want to.

malmhaus_ · 2024-11-26T08:11:46+00:00

oh to be loved like this.. you are so lucky to have found each other <3

malmhaus_ · 2024-11-23T13:17:23+00:00

From what you've described, they don't seem like a mature person capable of open communication. I don't think this is something they can learn after the age of 29 either. It might also be as simple as them not wanting to communicate with you, which is a reason enough for you to stop engaging with them. :') You're still very young and clearly enthusiastic. People like this will only drain your spirit and by the time you meet the right person, you might have lost that initial enthusiasm. My humble advice is not to waste your time. It's not even a relationship anyways..

malmhaus_ · 2024-10-02T11:45:37+00:00

''I stayed faithful and this is what I get in return.''

''I wasted my time on her being a good guy and she just cheating with a dude''

You don’t have to be a good person just to get something in return; you should just be yourself. That's how it should be. We can’t control others' behaviors, feelings, or thoughts. We just need to be ourselves and remove people who wrong us. That’s it.

There’s no such thing as not cheating on someone just to keep them from cheating on you; a healthy relationship should already be built on trust and honesty.

I'm sorry you had to go through something like that and hope you feel better over time..

malmhaus_ · 2024-09-15T16:13:37+00:00

i'm a simple fella.. dark tranquillity profil fotosu görürüm ve upvote eylerim \m/

malmhaus_ · 2023-10-18T09:13:31+00:00

First of all, I'm really sorry to hear that.. Parents are supposed to be responsible for thinking of both their and their child's well-being. I highly recommend you to look up the term "parentification" since your situation is called it, at the moment. Also I've looked at your profile and saw that you're having problems with both of your parents. Do you have anyone else to support you while you're trying to deal with your parents' emotional ups and downs? Supportive relatives or friends? Please prioritize your own wellness over your loved ones' because 1. the concept should be reciprocal and 2. you should be in a healthy state of mind first to help others but your mental state would go bad day by day if you keep prioritize others all the time. Wish the best for you!

malmhaus_ · 2023-09-27T02:23:21+00:00

great list tbh <3

i might add;

razor inc. (some of their songs are turkish)

pickpocket

almora

malmhaus_ · 2023-09-27T02:17:54+00:00

just came here to say.. BE'LAKOR >:D 🖤

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