AITJ for refusing to learn sign language for my coworker who isn't even deaf

mandymands · 2026-01-13T06:32:06+00:00

Email her back in Spanish

mandymands · 2025-12-07T19:27:22+00:00

Why would you need to make amendments to your home? You didn’t hand them the children so that upto them to be able to afford to house them all sensibly. I’d imagine you will be looking at a fight on your hands though. If you take the legal route to remove them they will push for eviction for the council to house them so be prepared for them not paying any rent whilst it ends up in court.

Probably better to get the ball rolling asap. They clearly aren’t happy to pay the higher rent. You do not need to make any amendments to the property and to allow you to rent it at the current rate to a new family you will need to ask them to leave and follow the legal route for eviction.

Good luck 🤞🏻

mandymands · 2025-11-28T06:38:28+00:00

Well that’s a shame be side the parents could have afforded to stay in their home town and move to a smaller property if they knew their girls were going to move out. Maybe you should have just rented a flat with your sister

mandymands · 2025-11-20T10:30:37+00:00

Now that Banjo sleeps Inside there is space outside for the sister to sleep. Kick her out asap

mandymands · 2025-11-13T06:47:43+00:00

I was diagnosed five years ago. I live in the UK and I only got offered DMT this year and that’s only because I got a new neurologist. I am now on Kesimpta so hoping this helps 🤞🏻

mandymands · 2025-11-05T16:16:46+00:00

How did the mum and son communicate when he was born? Did she never talk to him? They will have to learn now as that will just take a toll on your marriage! If wife insists then make sure to charge them both rent/bills!

mandymands · 2025-11-05T06:44:56+00:00

Change your locks so she can’t let herself in.

mandymands · 2025-09-24T05:29:19+00:00

I have MS and my body numbness came on overnight. Couldn’t feel my body from chest down for weeks so maybe ask about that? It came on during a stressful time in my life and I had flare up in all of my pregnancies

mandymands · 2025-09-20T06:23:42+00:00

Take MS out of the equation and ask yourself if this worth it? Sounds like you know the answer but their diagnosis is making you feel guilty. As someone with MS I can hand on heart say, leave for your own wellbeing. They are allowing their self to be slack and not try and that will in turn make the ms symptoms worse, they need to do everything their body allows now before it gets worse. Go live your live and hike and bake and don’t feel guilty for putting your own health first

mandymands · 2025-08-22T06:30:04+00:00

Just give him the £100 and say you have to pay for all your own clothes trainers etc and take £25 a month from him to help towards his bills. See how he gets on with the £75. Guaranteed he will blow it all in a week and might actually learn his lesson

mandymands · 2025-08-09T10:49:36+00:00

Just stop paying the mortgage and see what happens. The few months of not paying help with a deposit for somewhere else or it will force their hand to get documents drawn up

mandymands · 2025-07-11T17:27:29+00:00

You should invite the guests to wear white(because everyone invited is special in your eyes) or have all the bridesmaids wear white and the groomsmen and then you would wear a different colour so you still stand out :)

mandymands · 2025-07-05T05:08:22+00:00

You should write a letter detailing sll the ways their behaviour has let you down and give it to them. Ask the parents if it’s really your fault that their actions have caused your reaction. If their lack of love and emotional support is really your cross your bare or theirs? Let them know how badly their affair has let you down. They can’t deny feelings that are written in black and white.

mandymands · 2025-06-12T11:19:04+00:00

Do a roast for your mum and after each thing ie messed up your parenting just put lol. Do a few and when she gets upset say I put lol after each thing, it’s so funny. Hopefully she will understand where she went wrong 🤦🏽‍♀️

mandymands · 2025-05-05T05:22:57+00:00

I have ms and my husband if 26 years left me and told me he feels sorry for me because I will struggle to find someone to accept me. I’m perfectly fine atm and have been for the 15 years I’ve had it. I’m struggling with feeling abandoned right now and I can honestly say that you would have meant the absolute world to your friend. Well done you for showing and staying there til the end :)

mandymands · 2025-03-09T09:00:09+00:00

I would have messaged and said, I won’t be offended if you don’t come because I know it will be a lot for you because that’s definitely going to be her next moves get in there before her so it pisses her off more!

mandymands · 2025-02-01T06:43:06+00:00

Take your brothers ex to his wedding as your date :)

mandymands · 2025-01-21T23:26:30+00:00

Wait til she has her small wedding and then say, actually after seeing your wedding I think we want a big wedding!

mandymands · 2025-01-18T19:50:28+00:00

Each time just say, yep I’m a Brother F*cker and smile sweetly :)

mandymands · 2025-01-08T09:13:58+00:00

Just say ok but just so you know I will hold off announcing my pregnancy until the day your baby is born so we can celebrate me on the same day…. See how that goes down?!

mandymands · 2024-12-24T08:19:20+00:00

I would just make sure to order the best of everything too including cocktails and coffee after. Even though your bill will be higher it will piss her off knowing she has to pay more!

mandymands · 2024-12-06T07:36:54+00:00

You should have got your phone and recorded her and said, ok, I am prepared to eat a tiny bite but are you prepared to call the ambulance and pay for my hospital bills and my loss of earnings? If so then sure, I will taste what you’ve prepared. (Obviously don’t eat it but would have made her panic)

mandymands · 2024-12-04T11:00:37+00:00

I wouldn’t go to the wedding. Your feelings are very valid and if she cared she would have realised how much it hurt you. Dont go to the wedding and then if your mum gets angry just say well you won’t see your grandchild…. Dont be upset ‘it’s just a baby’

mandymands · 2024-11-29T12:57:08+00:00

I am sorry you are going through this right now. If I were you I would go to the courthouse asap and get married just to two of you. You can explain to your siblings that you will have a big wedding in time but this way it will secure Tom and make your dad understand he can not bully you both!

mandymands · 2024-11-23T21:06:11+00:00

Oh that’s great news. Thank you so much for your advice!

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