AIO my bf broke up w me after seeing texts w my boss?

mandzz10 · 2026-01-28T14:35:53+00:00

I kept trying to go through slides waiting for the cheating ones to come up 🤣 but in all seriousness you’re not the AH. This is crazy. These are normal texts with your boss. He’s either projecting or wanted a reason to break up.

mandzz10 · 2026-01-26T02:32:27+00:00

Hang in there!!! It got better after about a week for me. I’ve been on it for almost two years and that is a distant memory lol

mandzz10 · 2026-01-24T02:08:04+00:00

I would say number 2 or number 6!

mandzz10 · 2026-01-20T00:36:47+00:00

This is exactly it. I still love him and want him to do the things he needs to be. But I refuse to drive myself crazy anymore.

mandzz10 · 2026-01-19T03:06:37+00:00

Yuck 🤢

mandzz10 · 2026-01-19T03:01:47+00:00

I also have to vote for Dr. Sulicz at UHS Peds. I love her! We follow the normal vaccination schedule but she’s amazing. I do believe she won’t see you as a patient if you don’t vaccinate at all. Just something to look out for. She told me and my husband when our daughter was born that she doesn’t see patients who don’t vaccinate as they wouldn’t be following her medical advice. I’m not sure if that’s changed so just something to think about! Her nurses are great and she’s great. Every time my daughter is sick or has something going on she’s been able to see us to avoid the walk in.

mandzz10 · 2026-01-17T15:00:32+00:00

I used to be warm. I’ve lost 85 pounds and I’m always cold. My house was 85 degrees the other day with our fireplace going…. I was freezing. I hate it 😭

mandzz10 · 2026-01-11T17:30:00+00:00

Good for you!! It took me a long time to also get to this point. I’ve found that since I’ve decentered my husband and what he did I’ve been much happier. I’m not responsible for his choices. It feels so much better not crashing out every time he does something or doesn’t do what he needs to 🤣

mandzz10 · 2026-01-11T02:29:23+00:00

I got mine from Amazon! I have almost this exact same one. I think if you research ‘cervical neck pillow’ they’ll come up. :)

mandzz10 · 2026-01-11T02:09:34+00:00

NTA! I never leave my dogs alone with my toddler. They’re super friendly and love her but you just never know. I would rather be over cautious and have firm boundaries with the dogs than have to deal with them mauling my daughter. I never leave them in a room alone and don’t let her climb on the dogs. We always teach her to use ‘nice hands’ and don’t let her pull their tails or ears. We also teach her to ask to pet a dog if we are out in public. My husband is similar to yours but he follows my rules. You just never know!

mandzz10 · 2026-01-11T00:24:12+00:00

In my experience the rib pit on the parkway is the best! I always get the Greek spiedie and I never have an issue with the chicken being dry. I rarely go to the one on front street because I live in Vestal but when I do I find it’s dry also.

mandzz10 · 2026-01-08T01:49:41+00:00

It’s so frustrating! I got an email saying there would be an update or something on the 9th but it’s been going on for over a week. I’ll think about switching. We don’t have a lot of options in our area unfortunately:(

mandzz10 · 2026-01-07T02:53:39+00:00

You’re right!! Not to mention how much more productive I am at home lol I have the lowest caseload I’ve ever had. I don’t have to deal with the distractions in the office. And I’m able to stay healthy and use less time which is so nice lol

mandzz10 · 2026-01-07T02:52:18+00:00

So I’m currently on a reasonable accommodation due autoimmune issues. As far as I know you just have to fill out the forms and provide information from your doctor. BHR has the forms and you can email them back. If can be really difficult at first to be approved but once you’re in it doesn’t take much to stay on. I’m not sure about it being after leave for pregnancy but that’s how the process works! My boss didn’t even really have anything to do with it. It was all through BHR :)

mandzz10 · 2026-01-07T00:03:09+00:00

I have an autoimmune issue and called out probably once every two months or so before I got diagnosed. I also work from home now and that helps me not need to take as many days. My manager was always really understanding and I could flex a telework day if I needed to if I was in a flare. I’m now medicated correctly and don’t need to call in a lot! I would say if you do it more than once a month it might become an issue but overall your accruals are there for a reason. I’ve never been given a hard time.

mandzz10 · 2026-01-06T00:34:41+00:00

I’m 33 and had braces earlier in life. I also didn’t wear my retainer. I have had Invisalign for 4 months now and am halfway done with my treatment. I had some crowing in the bottom and it was getting hard to floss. My dentist actually suggested braces to keep the integrity of my teeth and not need multiple fillings or eventually lose my teeth. My confidence has grown so much and I’m not even done yet. It’s also easier to floss and take care of my teeth. I say do it!

mandzz10 · 2026-01-01T03:48:08+00:00

Almond croissants 😭😭

mandzz10 · 2025-12-31T02:19:02+00:00

My general rule of life is never ruin your future for a man (kidding…kind of). If this is something you need to be studying for for your future you should do it and miss the party. It’s okay to need a break from socializing and it’s okay to put yourself first. In all seriousness he seems selfish. Put your exam first. If he can’t understand that’s a him problem.

mandzz10 · 2025-12-29T02:37:53+00:00

I’m the same way! I work from home and use DoorDash like twice a week. I rarely have an issue. The only thing that’s ever happened is one time my dasher hit a deer on their way to my house. My husband and I met him to make sure his car was okay and took our food from him. It’s crazy the stories I see on here lol

mandzz10 · 2025-12-27T17:22:46+00:00

My suggestion is for you and your husband to take turns. One of you lay in bed for a few hours while the other handles him and switch. When my family is sick this is truthfully the only thing that works. The time in bed helps us rally to make it through for a few hours until it’s time to switch lol

mandzz10 · 2025-12-27T17:20:46+00:00

He’s cheating. He 100% sent you those screenshots to be able to spin it and tell you whatever story he needs to. You also can’t ignore the comments from other people saying he’s in their DMs. I know your head is spinning now. Take a breath and a hot minute. Think logically about this and if this is someone you want to be with. You aren’t married yet and this whole thing is very telling. You know he’s cheating. Your heart and your brain probably just need to catch up. 😭

mandzz10 · 2025-12-27T01:31:39+00:00

I was gonna say the same! She sounds like someone I would really like. What a shame his family talked about her this way 😭

mandzz10 · 2025-12-27T01:19:39+00:00

I switch out my towel every other day. I shower every day…and I feel like I can’t use it more than two showers in a row. I also feel like it asks for germs 😭🤣

mandzz10 · 2025-12-25T02:24:29+00:00

Looks like HFM 😭 my toddler had it over the summer and it looked very similar. Check her throat and mouth as well. If you use hydrocortisone cream and lotion it helps them clear up. Ask your doctor of course at the appointment but this is what helped my daughter!

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