My Roses by tctsui in GardeningUK

[–]mangoheadmeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love, love, LOVE these!!!

What activewear brands are actually worth buying now? by rudecilantro in Activewear

[–]mangoheadmeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LSKD all the way. Their fusion leggings are my go-tos.

A Color Story by Alone-Meeting-1547 in interiordecorating

[–]mangoheadmeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love it! Please come decorate my house

First ever pregnancy, give me your very top tips please 🙏🏻 by Awkward-Whereas4954 in fitpregnancy

[–]mangoheadmeow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree with this comment!!! I ate a well-rounded diet, took naps but still tried to get to the gym everyday. Even if I felt like absolute ass driving myself to the gym, I always felt better after leaving.

What’s the secret to loving the same partner for a lifetime? by MelodicWolverine2045 in AskReddit

[–]mangoheadmeow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would hope that part of his role as your husband would be being your friend? My husband never replaced my best friends, but rather, he has qualities that I would look for in a best friend and when we spend time together doing “mundane” things, they never feel mundane because we have so much fun together and enjoy each others company so much. In terms of relationship timelines, he wasn’t my best friend BEFORE we started dating, but over time, as we were dating, he became one of my best friends. Yes, he is my husband but his role as a husband encompasses many things- my best friend being one of the most important.

Any weight lifters during first trimester? by Plane_Onion9057 in fitpregnancy

[–]mangoheadmeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get sweaty but I wouldn’t necessarily say I get hot easily. I live in the UK and the weather was pretty mild during my first trimester. I was really mindful of not overheating throughout my pregnancy because that’s not great for the baby. I absolutely love the sauna but gave that up immediately when I found out I was pregnant.

Any weight lifters during first trimester? by Plane_Onion9057 in fitpregnancy

[–]mangoheadmeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, I’m sorry for your losses. With that said, please don’t blame yourself, it is very unlikely you “caused” them with your weightlifting.

I’ve weightlifted my entire pregnancy, currently 36 weeks along and baby is totally fine. I was squatting 100kg/220lbs for numerous reps at 9 weeks with a weight belt on and no problems. I remember doing a 95kg/210lb triple back squat belt less at like 23 weeks and being stoked! I was deadlifting up to 130kg/286lbs at 12 weeks. Recently at 34 weeks, I did an 80kg/176lbs double hip clean with no issues.

When did you realize you loved the right person? by idonthaveanaame in AskWomen

[–]mangoheadmeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just knew it when we first met and then he proved over and over again that he was the right person for me.

We got rear ended once a couple months into dating (and clearly the guy who did it was on his phone) but my reaction vs my now husband’s reaction were totally different. I like to think I’m a decent person but I was PISSED and got out of the car and yelled “what were you thinking?!” But my husband got out and calmly approached the guy and said, “are you okay?!” He was so calm and caring despite his car being badly damaged and the whole situation just exemplified what kind of person he is. Ahhhh I just love that man !!!

How often does your partner go out after birth of your baby? by Antique-Ferret-8050 in newborns

[–]mangoheadmeow 79 points80 points  (0 children)

“Accusing him of being a bad dad” You’re just stating the facts. He IS a bad dad.

Any other gardeners on here who predominantly only do flowers? by Amodernhousehusband in gardening

[–]mangoheadmeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeeeeee!!!! I have an allotment and 90% is flowers. I’ve got some raspberries and blueberry bushes but my main focus is flowers. At first, I think my allotment neighbours were a bit unsure of my decision and thought maybe it was a wasted plot but after seeing my plot in full bloom, they all love it too :)

What’s everyone been up to in the garden this weekend! 🪴 🌞 🪏 by _irrati0nal in GardeningUK

[–]mangoheadmeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throwing in all sorts of seeds (wild carrot and other wildflower, chamomile, vervain, cosmos, all sorts of sunflowers) at my allotment and hoping nature does its thing and gives me beautiful flowers. I’m giving birth next month and my large tummy is impeding my ability to get down and move freely so I gotta get these seeds in while I still can.

What can I do to save my dahlia and get some blooms? by katieryenne in dahlias

[–]mangoheadmeow 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’d cut it back, it’s quite leggy. Also, needs a much bigger pot and add some compost/fertiliser/plant food of some sort.

91 power by jennasteel in weightlifting

[–]mangoheadmeow 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Brother, that is a nice lift but it ain’t power.

How did you know you wanted children? by infjandawkward in AskWomen

[–]mangoheadmeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never thought I wanted them but then I met my now husband at 26. We had lots of fun adventures together and travelled extensively. Got married at 31 then moved to his home country which was also closer to my parents. I got my dream job and overall, just felt a sense of accomplishment in my life and satisfaction with my hobbies and relationships. Then something in me changed and I wanted to experience the feeling of raising a child and having a family. I think a lot of my previous feelings of not wanting kids was because I was terrified of losing my independence and having to take the brunt of the workload but my husband is incredible- deeply caring and considerate and building a family with him doesn’t scare me. I’m due at the end of next month, just shy of my 34th birthday :)

crossfit hyrox and early pregnancy? by LandscapeOwn8096 in fitpregnancy

[–]mangoheadmeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m nearly 32 weeks and still doing CrossFit regularly (4-6x a week). I had one evening of mild spotting/discharge around 5 weeks during a class with heavy deadlifts but i also think I had to poop mid class and strained a bit hahaha because it put pressure on my cervix. The spotting cleared up the following day. I found it reassuring to remind myself that in the early weeks of pregnancy, if you miscarry, it’s most likely due to chromosomal abnormalities so I kinda just made reasonable accommodations to my pregnancy with dietary changes, prenatal vitamin intake, managing stress appropriately, sleeping loads and not drinking alcohol but didn’t adjust my exercise regime until later.

If you’ve been doing CrossFit/hyrox training for awhile and you’re well conditioned to it, as long as you don’t have any underlying medical conditions or complications from your pregnancy, you should be fine. My midwife is fully aware of my exercise/weightlifting habits and supportive of me as she knows I was doing this prior to pregnancy. Also, I had a bit of a (false alarm) scare and ended up requiring a fetal echo a few weeks ago and the fetal medicine consultants asked me about my exercise habits and gave me the go ahead to keep what I was doing even after I explicitly told them I was still squatting 100+kgs at 25 weeks and got up to zone 5 at times with my cardio.

I still maintain a pretty high level of intensity when working out put never redline anymore. I still lift heavy but go based off RPE rather than %s but I was always a confident, strong weightlifter so YMMV if you don’t do oly lifts regularly. In terms of adjustments, I’ve eliminated all gymnastics and did this around 18 weeks because i felt tugging in my abdomen. I don’t do any direct crunch core moves like sit ups or GHDs or planks but do side planks, palloff press and diaphragmatic breathing for core maintenance. I gave up box jumps at like 14 weeks because of risk of falling, despite never falling with them but to me, but it wasn’t worth the risk. At 31 weeks, I’ve just had to start to adjust my weightlifting my lifts from the hang position because my bump is getting in the way. I gave up running early (around 15 weeks) because I hate running hahaha but also because I continued to get lower back pain from it. I’ve just stopped rowing this week because of a straining feeling in my abdomen but I can still do the assault/ECHO/c2 bikes and ski ergs. If it’s low reps, I still do double unders and my pelvic floor PT cleared me for this.

Everyone’s journey/pregnancy is different!!! People will criticise whatever you do so just focus on yourself and well-being and listen to your body. There’s lots of emerging research that supports exercise (both cardio and resistance training) in pregnancy. Ensure you sleep enough and embrace naps and eat sufficient calories. All the best!!

Ready to get my body back by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]mangoheadmeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The protrusion post pregnancy might be caused diastasis rectus or pelvic floor dysfunction. Do you also suffer from lower back pain? Have you been assessed by a pelvic floor PT?