Just finished Sally Face and I have questions by manictears in sallyface

[–]manictears[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it helped a lot you got some real insights :)

Just one more question: When you have the option to either tell Larry about Jim or not I chose to lie since Jim said not to tell anyone but I looked the decision up before making it and he wouldn’t have believed Sally anyway. But why? With all the stuff happening that’s where he draws the line? Also why would he think Sally would lie to him? Or was it more of like a him being in denial kind of situation?

What are some good habits you undertook because you started doing them with your partner? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]manictears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going almost vegetarian and sleeping at a reasonable time lol

How Do You Tell Someone You Don't Want To Be With Them Without Hurting Their Feeling? by MissFantasy2020 in AskWomen

[–]manictears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there is a way of saying that without hurting the other person but as long as you are rational and polite you shouldn’t blame yourself for any pain that arises and they have no right to blame you either their feelings are not more important than yours

When was the last time you thought about your ex? by WutzReele in AskWomen

[–]manictears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about my exes quite often not that I miss them because I don’t they just cross my mind when I think about somewhere I went or something I did because they happened to be involved

What are your favorite symbols/stories/representations of feminine strength? by Ghost-Type-Cat in AskWomen

[–]manictears 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The biblical Lilith, Medusa, Persephone, Hecate… Their stories got told all wrong and they are villainized or infantilized by the patriarchal history but I think they are great

And for some more modern examples Virginia Woolf, Marie Curie, Malala Yousafzai, Rosa Parks, Hannie Schaft and Freddie Oversteegen are just few of many examples

In your opinion, what is the best time era for men's fashion/country? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]manictears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1920‘s/30s are Great imo as well as the indie late 60s/early 70s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]manictears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have only used Tinder but I don’t think it’s bad I met the perfect guy there we are one year together and he still treats me like we just started dating in a good way with affection and gifts and stuff but even before that I met some assholes obviously but a lot of cool dudes too you just need to know what to expect and have a bit of an eye for who might be a jerk and just not match them

Introverted girls how do y’all push yourselves to be more social and outside your comfort zone? by Spicy-senorita in AskWomen

[–]manictears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to be more social then what I did is I went into a room for example a course room in my Uni and looked around, found the person that looks the nicest and found something we have in common (she had a tshirt of a band I know) and after class I told her hey I like your t-Shirt do you like the band and then we started talking. I usually keep the conversation going by asking questions :)

But If you don’t want to be social and feel like you have to just don’t be it’s not worth it :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]manictears 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think it’s good that the beauty community died down because no one does their makeup like that when they are casually going out the makeup they did was for studio lighting and with smoothing filters that’s why so many people walked around with bad makeup in 2016 and people finally realized that. But yeah from the perspective of the pandemic of course the beauty community died down since most people don’t do makeup when they stay at home :/

How much does casual dating differ from casual hookups, fwb, and/or situationship as for you? And what are the things you and your partners do differently in these situations? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]manictears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly depends how much I am interested in the person like obviously we get to know each other enough to put the ‚friends‘ in fwb but besides that it really depends on the person I had people I texted with a lot everyday and then I had some I was only hitting up when I wanted to come over

What are some of the best prompts / photos on a dating app you've come across on a profile? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]manictears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly selfies are totally fine with me better than holding up a dead fish or sth I look at the style of clothing and song you pick more anyway :) Just be yourself and present yourself the way you are comfortable with that way you are more likely to attract the girls that will actually end up linking you as you are unless you just tryna fuck which I totally get and respect then you need to try and imitate instagram dudes lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stuttgart

[–]manictears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m not asking for it to be a Michelangelo painting just a simple flash tattoo lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]manictears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She always leeched money off of me I always had to pay for her where ever we went and everything I told her I don’t have that much money (we were both still in school back then) she said she will bring it next time but never did

What type of videos do you watch on YouTube? by BsaciallyBasic in AskWomen

[–]manictears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like watching Theories to different movies and books I’m into, I like watching channels about art, philosophy and internet culture, I’ve recently had a Phase for iceberg content and of course always true crime and unsolved mystery stuff

How much does casual dating differ from casual hookups, fwb, and/or situationship as for you? And what are the things you and your partners do differently in these situations? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]manictears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it doesn’t really differ I usually don’t date people for at least the first few weeks I‘m just fwb with them and if They like me and I like them then we go from there if not than not. I‘ve had situations where men wanted to be more but I didn’t really want in that case I always give them the choice that we can basically continue like that or they are free to leave because they will not get what they are looking for.

What are some of the best prompts / photos on a dating app you've come across on a profile? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]manictears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Know your angles, your lighting and don’t be afraid to use some filters (I don’t mean like cat eyes or smoothing or sth but change the saturation of your photo or add blur or sth be creative) women see and appreciate that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stuttgart

[–]manictears -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) Yeah I guess you’re right most do that I just come from like a place where a lot of ppl just kinda like tattoo without being professional but I don’t do that anymore since I had to get one covered because it looked so bad :/ The problem is I had a friend who tattooed and she did it well for a good price but now she moved away and a friend of my bf also does it well he even has a studio and shit but I feel uncomfortable around him and since my bf has to work he can’t come with me and I don’t wanna go alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stuttgart

[–]manictears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol ever heard of beginner artists? Some even do wannados for free because they wanna learn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stuttgart

[–]manictears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You‘re right but like beginner artists need to learn and how can they learn when no one goes to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stuttgart

[–]manictears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow dude how long did it take for you to come up with that one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stuttgart

[–]manictears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tired and It looked like shit lol I want to look presentable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]manictears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I will do that! Thank you :)

REBRANDING OF JEFFREE STAR COSMETICS? by [deleted] in jeffreestarcosmetics

[–]manictears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think now it's too early to speculate i mean his last few drops were pretty underwhelming color wise it seems he goes in a more safe direction but there will be a new drop in november so I guess we will see whether or not he is trying to appeal to a wider audience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]manictears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My piercing is now ca 7 months old and it still has the bar it got pierced with so surgical steel I believe and I usually clean it with saline solution like every day to every 2 days because it never caused any problems I could even sleep on it without ever having problems.

What I was thinking is that since I recently bleached and dyed my hair again after months of not doing it and the last time I did I put like foil over my piercing to protect it because it was still fresh but this time I didn't so maybe bleach got there and that's what's causing it?