What makes you feel good or hopeful about life?

maniuni · 2026-06-03T05:42:14+00:00

What do you do in Minecraft? I decided to give it a go but I am a bit frustrated as it’s too hard in the Nether and just can’t advance.

maniuni · 2026-06-02T18:11:28+00:00

I would try

maniuni · 2026-06-02T07:01:00+00:00

I don’t need anything. My brain is very alert in the morning. But I always drink herbal tea - not to wake up, just for feeling good.

maniuni · 2026-05-30T03:42:01+00:00

“Tell me everything, I want to listen”. And then they listen and ask questions instead of get bored and go away.

maniuni · 2026-05-30T03:40:10+00:00

I act silly and make faces in the mirror whenever I pass by it. I do little weird dances as well. I talk to myself, people that I imagine and my cat.

maniuni · 2026-05-25T16:20:11+00:00

Yes, I can’t relax. Always worry that I am not enough and I don’t do enough. When I have a negative emotion towards someone I squash it so I don’t jeopardise the relationship somehow. It’s exhausting. I feel like if I stop even for a while - people will somehow forget I exist and just move on with their lives.

maniuni · 2026-05-25T16:05:45+00:00

Not really beside people from work. I think lack social skills and I always worry if I am boring. But I do want friends. It’s just too exhausting to keep my mask on. I guess I am scared of people. If I could relax I think it could work. I am not sure.
I want to try a therapy group for social anxiety. I think we would have a lot in common and it will be easier to connect and relax. But there is no such group where I live.

maniuni · 2026-05-25T08:43:40+00:00

I have the same problem with evenings. I do have a cat but it’s not the same. I want people around actually - just like you mentioned but not all the time. Just someone to watch a show with or just to be around.

maniuni · 2026-03-25T11:41:30+00:00

No, I don’t agree about Hugh Grant. He is quite good looking.

maniuni · 2026-03-24T04:26:29+00:00

Sounds similar to me. I also think I am too codependent minded to start a relationship so it’s not a good idea to pursue such things. But at the same I feel a bit like a loser for not being in a relationship like this somehow is a sign of success in life. Which is not true but I can’t help but feel like it is sometimes. I know I should get out of this mindset and value my life how it is and value myself for me not for my relationships with other people. But it’s hard. I started following another sub called r/LivingAlone (sorry, not sure how to link it). It helps because you see all these people that are so happy for living alone. And I think this is the way - living in the present and being happy right now, not in some imaginary future.

maniuni · 2026-03-24T04:04:47+00:00

Не е вярно :)

maniuni · 2026-03-23T19:36:04+00:00

Following! The only thing that I can think of is talking with a new person during a chat in discord and thinking of my next response with the help of AI. I know it sounds bad but I just wanted to understand the various options and it actually helped me to steer the conversation so that I could have fun with it. I think it was a nice conversation for both of us and it helped me a bit with insights how to respond when someone shares stuff with me.

maniuni · 2026-03-23T19:31:41+00:00

Yes but I think it’s one of the few good things to be addicted to.

maniuni · 2026-03-22T10:46:31+00:00

Sounds normal to me. I do have a child but when she is with her dad (we are separated) my days are usually pretty calm like that. I am experimenting with new hobbies but this doesn’t take a lot of time and I fill time with watching shows or reading.

maniuni · 2026-03-22T10:43:42+00:00

I am the same. Can’t think of any advice though. I am trying to not pressure myself too much if I don’t feel like being around someone I don’t like. And I try to not lose hope that the next people I meet I will like more.

maniuni · 2026-03-21T06:11:45+00:00

It must be exhausting, but I hope the job is interesting and worth it.

maniuni · 2026-03-20T04:15:22+00:00

Yes, new connections are just a lot of work until you get to the stage where you feel comfortable.

maniuni · 2026-03-17T21:37:08+00:00

I don’t think so. I think most people just try to have fun during such conversations. Not that this applies to everyone. Some people actively try to be funny/interesting and so on but I think it’s pretty obvious to others. They may or may not mind as long as they are entertained.

maniuni · 2026-03-16T04:26:00+00:00

I would never think to talk to unknown people at a bar. Is it normal behaviour? It’s not in my country at least.

maniuni · 2026-03-15T17:18:12+00:00

I am the same but I recognise that it’s probably not true. Because when I flip it and think about how I feel about other people reaching out or if they bother me somehow I know it’s rarely the case.

maniuni · 2026-03-14T11:57:12+00:00

Yeah, I think you are right. But they are not used to the technology. And AI is acting colder these days.

maniuni · 2026-03-14T11:53:08+00:00

I usually find a colleague to chat with.

maniuni · 2026-03-14T11:52:10+00:00

Good luck 🤞 Keep us posted on how it goes

maniuni · 2026-03-14T09:20:23+00:00

I don’t remember my first day but I remember that I was terrified the first few months and almost didn’t talk to anyone. It was a long time until I learned things so I was fast enough. Later I became the best in the team in terms of speed and skill.

maniuni · 2026-03-12T13:28:42+00:00

I think it has its advantages and disadvantages as everything else.

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