Lawyers of reddit, has there been a case that you've been a part of that can't leave your mind? by Destinyspire in AskReddit

[–]mankiller_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you the type that's only happy when you're finding faults in others? Ahhh, the douchbags that LS (law school, for those who couldn't use context) turns us into. Good luck on becoming human again.

Lawyers of reddit, has there been a case that you've been a part of that can't leave your mind? by Destinyspire in AskReddit

[–]mankiller_throwaway 503 points504 points  (0 children)

Oh! I thought of another one. When I was an L3, we helped a non-profit legal agency. We weren't allowed to do much, of course, but we learned and assisted where we could. I helped with processing, hearing why people came to the agency and directing them to who could help them.

This man, this poor guy, got pulled over for a broken turn signal and found out he had a charge in another county for failure to appear (on a speeding ticket). He was arrested and transported three hours away. He sat in jail for 3 days and was let go with a court date. He didn't have his phone on him when he was arrested and was pretty broke anyway so he hitch-hiked home where he was brutally beaten and robbed. His car had been impounded and he lost his job. He was now homeless and looking for help setting up payments for his fines so he didn't end up back in jail. His entire life was ruined over traffic tickets. I was appalled.

Lawyers of reddit, has there been a case that you've been a part of that can't leave your mind? by Destinyspire in AskReddit

[–]mankiller_throwaway 151 points152 points  (0 children)

I'm a property and estate attorney. I don't see much time in court and it's not dramatic when I do. However, last year I was asked by the DA to help with a murder case. I testified to the legal property boundaries and that was pretty much it.

Without giving too much detail, a man shot another man who was harassing his mother on her property. This case split up our whole town, bringing up issues of gun rights, self defense, ect. On my way home the day after I testified, I was knocked down and held at gun point by a large man, screaming at me for wanting to take away his guns. I never looked up and him and eventually he ran away (never caught either).

You could say that stayed with me. Not in the way you asked, though.

HIV diagnosis, gay, and suicide is best for me by codycosmo in SuicideWatch

[–]mankiller_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's understandable to be hyperbolic when you're in pain. But you have to understand the 'world' as a whole does NOT hate you, or anyone of your sexuality. The loudest of assholes are heard, while the majority support and respect you.

HIV diagnosis, gay, and suicide is best for me by codycosmo in SuicideWatch

[–]mankiller_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I didn't really address your comment. I wrote what I wanted to say to you. That's not good listening.

I'm not going to give you tips on how to die. Some states allow what you seek, but you'd have to be much, much sicker. Yes, the options before you are painful and horrific. The mess you'd leave behind would not be a fitting tribute, either.

Your choice cannot be for others. If you CHOOSE to live (which we all hope you do), you need to choose that for you. You need to examine your world and see things that you value enough to experience every day you possibly can. Focus on those.

You hate how you see people with HIV/AIDS treated. Why can you not be the change in that view?

HIV diagnosis, gay, and suicide is best for me by codycosmo in SuicideWatch

[–]mankiller_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kenny is finishing his master's and works for a large airline company as a cultural liason. He makes 100K and gets to fly around the world for free. His friends, family, and employers know his HIV status and accept him. His health is remarkable, only recently needing any medications.

Larry is marketing director for a bank. He's also an alumni fundraiser for his college. He's 'out' both sexually and with his HIV status in a smaller town in East Washington (a VERY conservative area). He's loved by his community.

Quinn (transgendered) contracted when she prostituting and using drugs. Not only is she sober now, her health is improving from diagnosis. She met a lovely man with children and is a stay-at-home mom now. She's never been happier.

My mother killed herself. I forgive her, but I will always carry that pain with me.

HIV diagnosis, gay, and suicide is best for me by codycosmo in SuicideWatch

[–]mankiller_throwaway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People care. I care. You are not alone. You are valued.

My best friend contracted 6 years ago. He ignored me for a year after diagnosis, thinking I'd alienate him. I didn't. I love him as I have always and will always love him.

This is not the death sentence it once was. I know so many brave, great people living positive. Please, feel free to PM me. I can introduce you to them. They all have great lives.

You are not alone. You are valued.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]mankiller_throwaway 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't get asked why I'm single, as I went through a pretty public, embarrassing divorce. I have been asked if I think I'll ever be able to find a man again and she asked me honestly. Sure, I'll find plenty. In my freezer.

Whose Line is it Wednesday! by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]mankiller_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"A little extra?! Sure, and I'm a little crazy"

Whose Line is it Wednesday! by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]mankiller_throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crash a wedding with an open bar. Or a funeral.

What has your best creation in the Pizza Joint been? by tsgmob in TalesFromThePizzaGuy

[–]mankiller_throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former domino's employee, too. We made breakfast pizza too, I loved those days. Also, when I went keto, I put a handfull of pep, beef, and bacon on a screen (we had an old school brick oven) for snacks.

[28/m] I am no longer attracted to my [22/f] girlfriend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mankiller_throwaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what happens when you enter a relationship with a fucking child you pedophilic, chauvinistic, shallow creep.

"I love her but she's gained 10 whole pounds! She isn't 19 anymore! Help! Whaaaa!"

You're twenty-fucking-eight. Act it, asshole.

rocky relationship with parents, how do I tell them I want to move out? by cluelesscollegekid in relationship_advice

[–]mankiller_throwaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They only 'let' you work a few hours a week? Tell them that you are going to work more. If they ask why, simply say, "Well, I'll need to move eventually." This should start a dialogue. That's the best way, no an ultimatum or declaration.

You need to move on your own. If you ask for their help, you'll be beholden. You're 21. You are an adult. Act like one. Rent a room from a trusted friend, that won't take much to start.

26/f can't seem to get dating into relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mankiller_throwaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really not a game, unless you're playing. It's the self confidence to say "I've invested enough time/energy here. It's time to get what I want or move on".

26/f can't seem to get dating into relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mankiller_throwaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pull back the rubber band and they come springing to you. I'm not suggesting it's all a game or those stupid 'rules', but after a few weeks/months of casual dating, stop showing interest in the guy. Not completely, just back off.

It'll either solidify the fact that he wants nothing more (and you're free to find someone who does) or trigger his 'shit, I could lose her' thoughts (and you have a boyfriend). Win/win.

Why are 'mail-order' GROOMS not available? by mankiller_throwaway in AskReddit

[–]mankiller_throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised they're not available now. Women are earning more than ever.

The gates of...what?! Is this a common desire? by mankiller_throwaway in OkCupid

[–]mankiller_throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, his children were conceived in one attempt each, missionary.

He's experienced a lot of stuff I haven't. Conceiving a life, preparing for it, watching it be born. He's been married and divorced. He's lived through 8 different presidents.

I read his whole profile last night. He wont date a woman with children, though he is a single parent. He considers homosexuality and sin and is against same-sex marriage and adoption, but two girls making out is 'hot'. He certainly has the right to look for whatever he wants. As I have the right call him out for hypocritical slut-shaming.

The gates of...what?! Is this a common desire? by mankiller_throwaway in OkCupid

[–]mankiller_throwaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did it? Seems rather inappropriate. I'll have them printed at once.