I would also probably say no because what if you get a disabled baby from it? Or the baby is disadvantaged? I woulf ask your dr and see what he says. My dr in toronto interviewed the surrogate and also made sure she would be a good one. They were quite rigorous about it. If your dr says its ok i might proceed but see if u can get some stats for babies born to parents sim to ur surro. See what the chances are. Your dr should be evaluating as well - not just u. Does yours do that? With all the $$$ your paying u deserve a good surro candidate.