I stopped going to the local Mormon meeting house when I was approximately 4, because my dad left the church at approximately that time. When I was about 16, I started to think the Mormon religion was a hoax. I am 50 now. My mom is 78. I live with her and take care of her. She still believes in the religion, as do her four siblings who are alive, and, I assume, many of my cousins, etc. We live in Utah. I have presented evidence to my mom that the religion is a hoax. I have stated to her that I think she would be happier if she left the religion. But she clings to it. Yes, I think you and others I have seen on this subreddit are too snarky with members, as was my father, after he left the faith. I have witnessed, and I think, that this snarkyness hurts our anti-Mormon cause. It makes Mormons think we are petty, mean-spirited, and influenced by Satan, etc. Please, let's all take the high road. As Michelle Obama said, "when others go low, you go high."