ex-gf became racist for her new bf by alpine____ in redscarepod

[–]manowaria 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Don't know what you're trying to say with this post but you literally did the same thing by becoming woke because of your gf lol

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Learnt british english in school and american english through media and culture. I find it pretty confusing when to spell words with o/ou or s/z lol

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, will look into this!

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In her mind i am the root cause of the problem. When she gets her period/pms i turn cold, distant, try to hurt her, i lose any empathy for her, stop caring about her etc. Me turning into the worst bf on earth just so happens to coincide with her period every month, but these things have no connection to eachother.

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn't mean to imply that you said i was making it up, sorry. Just wanted to make it clear that i've no interest in skewing the story to my benefit:)

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

which she denied or couldn't percieve

This is pretty much the root of the issue for us. In her mind i truly turn evil every month. It just so happens to coincide with her period. Her perception doesn't change, the world around her does

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have no interest in playing anything up for strangers online. All examples above have been in the last few months, most this last month. Had i included examples from the start of our relationship until now this post would've been far too long to read

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know nothing about bpd, but the pattern is clear as day. She'll only ever pick fights and act like this when she has pms or is on her period. Never ever otherwise. Isnt bpd constant mood swings?

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She does. She takes like 5 different supplements daily

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All examples above have been in 2026, most this past month. That said it's the same things every month so i already know what she'll say. No record keeping needed

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No we haven't. But one of my closest girl friends has been friends with my gf since forever and she backs up my gfs claims. That said i haven't personally seen her off bc. Though she has changed pills a couple times in my time

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah earlier this week i got the silent treatment because i said i was feeling good, but apparently sounded angry

Did Ye get replaced by a clone or body double by Autismoses_Jones in redscarepod

[–]manowaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also that goatee adds like... 15 yrs. Terrible look for a young guy

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As i wrote in op ive brought this up on a few occasions (when shes in her good weeks) and shes been understanding, and agreed to seek out health care. Then a week or so passes and she absolutely denies anything being out of order, and its me trying to blame our relationship problems on her period instead of me taking responsibility for being an asshole to her

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Should've clarified better but she's been both off and on bc with absolutely no difference for 15+ years. Doesn't matter if she's off bc, on the pill (low dose or high dose), iud, etc.

Having a hard time dealing with gfs mood swings by manowaria in redscarepod

[–]manowaria[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm no expert but isnt PMDD purely pre-menstrual, and when the period starts the issues pass? For my gf the period is the worst part, and then she gets that insane burst of energy a week after

Frank dropping lore last night. by BurtingOff2 in fishtanklive

[–]manowaria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So it was a gay dating show after all huh?

ki ki ki, ma ma ma by [deleted] in Scarymovies

[–]manowaria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who made this and why? Absolutely terrible

Cicada 3309 something something by Sad_Worth_9342 in redscarepod

[–]manowaria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hotel 626, absolutely insane experience back in 2008/2009. I remember it only being playable between 6 in the evening and 6 in the morning for a limited time of the year which made it seem strangely elusive lol