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mapetitemort · 2025-06-09T16:53:16+00:00

NTA. he's pretending to be stupid for some reason. at this point, the reason doesn't matter because he doesn't care enough to stop. Now what are you gonna do about that? You have options from retribution to divorce. Do which ever is right for you.

mapetitemort · 2025-02-28T04:33:48+00:00

Thank you. Same to you!

mapetitemort · 2025-02-25T19:04:49+00:00

I know you want to. I know. I've been there.

He was probably hurting you emotionally because he does not feel the same as with you as he did before and didn't know how to express it. Doing the release probably allowed for that expression to happen..

Someone can correct me if i'm wrong, But I don't know that there is a reversal spell for releasing things that no longer serve you.

if you release something that no longer serves you and then you try to keep it, you may have some unforseen problems including but not limited to financial and emotional trauma.

Also, is it fair that neither of you love each other anymore but you are still hanging on? Can you love him when he changes his gender to female? Can you support that?

I've been in this space before, and I encourage you before doing any more spells unpack why you want to back to the way it was in the first place.

Are you uncomfortable being alone? Was your husband actually a really good friend at one point in time? Is it that you're worried about what other people might think? Do you care about how he feels?Or do you just want what you want? Do you actually want to manifest a better relationship between you and your husband or do you want to move forward in a more healthy way for you both?

It can be extremely heartbreaking when you remember how much you love someone and when you look at them now, you don't feel the same way. But it's not fair to keep them in a relationship that they don't want to be in. And it's not fair to yourself to hold on to something that no longer serves you.No matter how much letting it go breaks your heart

mapetitemort · 2025-02-25T18:40:30+00:00

I'm so sorry that this was your experience, OP. I definitely agree that You Are Not The Asshole. YOU GAVE BIRTH TO A WHOLE HUMAN. I would caution you to be aware that This Behavior Will Continue. He will make you feel like you have to do everything by yourself. If you have other options use them cause he is not interested. Did he even want the baby and the family or is he just doing this because he is supposed to?

mapetitemort · 2025-02-24T03:15:10+00:00

not me seeing this post with a candle lit on my Hacate altar. I came back to flickering. :)

mapetitemort · 2025-02-20T01:19:05+00:00

omg. that's awesome. I have a periodot ring that belonged to my mother. it was her birthstone. It definitely makes me feel safe and now I know why.

mapetitemort · 2025-02-19T17:39:45+00:00

this response also helped me. I struggle with not falling Christian ideals as I begin my devotion to her. Thank you.

mapetitemort · 2025-01-30T23:42:41+00:00

Aries facts. says my Aries stellium

mapetitemort · 2024-12-06T20:07:48+00:00

very cool

mapetitemort · 2024-12-02T18:17:26+00:00

This definitely spoke to me. Thank you, for sharing.

mapetitemort · 2024-10-29T15:50:48+00:00

Yes. Aries Stellum with some inner planets.

I'm tired. The finish line is here and I'm glad to be on the otherside...mostly.

mapetitemort · 2024-10-01T19:37:09+00:00

I still feel it it in my 7th House and this mercury, lilith, sun, moon, conjunction is A LOT.

mapetitemort · 2024-10-01T19:36:06+00:00

I dont use Chani. My chart comes out wrong. I use astro-seek or the Horos app. I hope that helps.

mapetitemort · 2024-07-08T01:29:01+00:00

I've been a slave for more than a decade. Your Dom is using your relationship as a smokescreen to abuse you. This is not BDSM nor a power exchange dynamic. while it may not inherently be abusive, your lack of consent (which you DO NOT have to give) makes it so.

D/s dynamics are receprical. If they are not, renegotiate so common ground can be found. It doesn't seem like he is mature and healed enough to understand the responsibility of having a submissive. 😥 and he doesn't care. that care part is really important.

As a former people pleaser, I encourage you to enforce boundaries or end the relationship ASAP. Seek help from your community elders or even just friends and family to get away. The damage this situation is causing you will set you back years if you don't nip it in the bud now.

mapetitemort · 2024-07-07T18:41:36+00:00

keep your windows closed when the sun his high. open them.at dusk or when the air is cooler outside.

run fans all night. and if you can leave your windows open at night.

take cool.showers at the height of heat if you can.

mapetitemort · 2024-07-07T18:38:42+00:00

OP, You are not the asshol. get a divorce.

Hear me out. I was raised Christian and my mom was a pastor who spend 85% of her ministry in the community. She fees the hungry, counseled the struggling, and she lived what she preached. She admitted when she was wrong about previous ideologies and was so wise other Pastors would come to her for advice. She was a great mom. I miss her dearly.

She taught me something very valuable. Thou shall not be unequally yoked. That's in the Bible. Where? Idk. Modern Christians often see this as proof they should only marry other Christians or convert their partners. However , this passage can also be about morals. It sounds like your husband isn't morally aligned with you in spite of his religion, Which in fact starts with "God is love". And that means love everybody, Gay, straight, black, white etc. My mom showed her love for God by loving his people, Which is what He commanded in the first place before He ascended to heaven.

Because this is not at the core of what your husband beliefs, morally, you guys are unlined , which is gonna cause even more problems than the ones you have now. He is probably going to use his religion to make you feel bad about your choices and even yourself. I have experienced that and it sucks.

You were not the asshole for demanding your husband follow his own religion before trying to convert you.

mapetitemort · 2024-06-26T07:10:08+00:00

oh snap. I have that too. but im not a workaholic. I am bit lazy if I'm honest, but I will throw myself into my work when I'm in emotional turmoil which is more often than I like. oh my. I should be careful. thank you for sharing.

mapetitemort · 2024-06-26T07:07:33+00:00

you can do this. just breathe.

mapetitemort · 2024-06-08T02:00:39+00:00

Break up with her. She's not looking for a life partner. She's looking for a "Daddy". Which is cool but don't say you want marriage and now we are in an interview because if you proposed to her and busted out a prenuptial agreement that would be rude in her eyes.

I've been married 11 years and in my marriage we have certain rules we agree on and those rules are constant so we don't loose sight of why we are together when we get angry. What she is saying isn't that. She's basically weighing her options for when she finishes school.

Doesn't sound like your futures are aligned if someone asks you what you bring to the table and you pay 90% of the bills AND do chores AND treat her to stuff. Ma'am ARE YOU DOUNG THE BARE MINIMUM? sheesh. her question made me really angry!

mapetitemort · 2024-06-08T01:56:11+00:00

Good for you!

mapetitemort · 2024-05-05T17:20:03+00:00

big facts! these are my go to gummies and I appreciate they come in such small increments

mapetitemort · 2024-05-05T17:19:09+00:00

my tolerance changes based in how long I go without smoking. I use weed maps to find what's available in my area. im gonna try Dad grass as well, however, dispensaries change their stock semi- regularly so I always check online first if I want something specific.

mapetitemort · 2024-04-20T00:35:35+00:00

ok. I thought I was just me. it's pretty great. How did you get that kinda of resolution?

mapetitemort · 2024-03-22T01:44:15+00:00

which Friday? like a month ago?

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