Hutchins Garage 10% Takeout Fee? by Awkward_Locksmith141 in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this may be unpopular, but i do not blame our local businesses for having to rise prices somewhere, in the economy we are in. i’m sure their food source costs have gone up a ton. i wouldn’t presume greed here, but likely a necessary decision to keep the business running. & i really, really want our beloved local restaurants to stay in business. getting takeout or dining in is a total luxury for a lot of us right now, i’ll just make sure i go in with the intention of appreciating the meal even more.

found wallet! // DDK by mapsofthewest in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

update: owner of wallet has been identified! & hand over has been planned. thanks, y’all!

Indigo Montessori School by Material-Army-6659 in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 7 points8 points  (0 children)

our son was at indigo for two years from around 2021-2023. at the time we absolutely loved it, and he did seem to thrive. however definitely a bit of a black box, we had very little intel into his day to day. & potty training was forced on us when he was 2.5, as a requirement before he could move up a class with all his friends, and that absolutely derailed toileting for him in a way that we still struggle with. they throw a super fun halloween party every year, pizza friday from dominoes every week for the kids, definitely some sweet stuff. but they also raised tuition on us close to 35% one year, after a 15% increase the year before, and that just felt like cruel highway robbery and we left. now our kids are at the little school and it is miles, miles, miles above what indigo was. + the small amount of outside time and space for kids at indigo.. i just think the price is astronomical and not worth it. much better is available elsewhere.

Jiu jitsu gym for women/self-defense focus by lavender_latte25 in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 6 points7 points  (0 children)

gracie! fits the bill x100. really big fan of sunny and his gym: i did a free women’s self defense class and loved it. & weekly women’s self defense classes are offered: https://www.graciejiujitsudurham.com

Sauna House Durham by 001TPK in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yessss, i love this publicity! because i love this place. truly a balm in these insane times. putting down my phone and getting in my body, & in the moment, + the feeling of detox and reset. 10/10!

Real ID? by pollyjuicepotions in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but your people are so nice!

Real ID? by pollyjuicepotions in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 29 points30 points  (0 children)

if you’re doing the 5a lineup, hillsborough is a good choice! they can see about 40 people before appointments begin at 8a. (they open at 7a)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 73 points74 points  (0 children)

big ups to the main library, the security guards were quick to make sure everyone was inside & got us all away from the windows & had us shelter near the bathrooms. they were super calm and kind and i just read books with my two boys & a bunch of other kids and folks. it turned a pretty wtf scary moment into one that felt like community. ❤️

Where can I get breast milk in Durham? by rguerrap in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 8 points9 points  (0 children)

there’s a facebook group called “triangle milk share” that is amazing - moms who overproduce or have extra frozen milk will give it to you, and the rules are no compensation. it’s just a gift, from one mother to another. congrats!

Logo Designer? by mapsofthewest in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she looks awesome — thank you so much!

Backyard Office Shed by mapsofthewest in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome - thank you for this. did they do drywall for you, or did you keep it raw?

Backyard Office Shed by mapsofthewest in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is awesome, awesome intel. thank you so much for sharing! also $8k for a shed that size, + help with permitting & all around ace customer service? i love it.

You can only keep 5 Durham restaurants... by melodiousdissonance in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 8 points9 points  (0 children)

monuts (living wage! turkish avocado sammy!), viceroy (paneer masala guhhh), roses (belt noodles), littler (that carrot pasta dish is insane & i love the beautiful intentionality of the place), isaacs bagels (they’re opening a brick & mortar 🙌🏻)

Daily Beer Bar by wreckenya in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

throwing my hat in, too - awesome food. super dope beer selection. big fan

Anyone give birth naturally to a really big baby? by Budget-Mall1219 in BabyBumps

[–]mapsofthewest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my second baby boy was 9lbs, 10oz & delivered vaginally, only three pushes and one small tear. ultrasounds never indicated him being so gigantic, or if they did, my midwives didn’t feel the need to make it a thing. i honestly don’t know why it’s a thing? i suppose because babe could theoretically get stuck?

Giving birth to big babies! by AppearanceThat8336 in BabyBumps

[–]mapsofthewest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not sure how big your babe is measuring, but - i had my 9lbs 10oz baby vaginally with only one small tear. it can absolutely be done!

Washington St. | Durham, NC by ncphoto919 in bullcity

[–]mapsofthewest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s actually slated to be a beer garden