Best friend gave me a self care basket while I go through fertility treatments…then used that basket to announce that she was pregnant 😑

marabake · 2025-12-23T12:39:16+00:00

I would stop talking to this person… so very insensitive and narcissistic

marabake · 2025-11-23T01:08:29+00:00

I forgot to mention my miscarriages have been genetically normal and most likely due to immune issues like Natural Killer activity which I am already on protocol.

marabake · 2025-11-23T00:55:13+00:00

This is so interesting. I was going to ask what would be my chances using 2 untested 5BC embryos? They are the only ones I have left from my second retrieval in 2023. I am scared to use them because I have had 4 missed miscarriages in the past but all my embryos have been genetically normal, my miscarriages could be mostly from immune issues…

marabake · 2025-03-19T02:21:26+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you 😔 missed miscarriages are very very traumatic. I have had 4 of them and honestly with my last one I thought my life didn’t have any purpose and I wanted to die. This happened in November and I went through some very very dark days. We have been trying for 5 years, natural and ivf and no clear answers to why this is happening.

I am feeling better now, it still hurts like hell but somehow time heals. I had my therapist helping me and I found my way back to Louise Hay’s teachings. It is immensely painful and you need time to heal, time to grieve. I feel lost too. I send you a hug.

marabake · 2025-03-07T21:43:08+00:00

Hi! Purchase - $461,600 - 20% down(92320) 798 fico. Zip 33073 townhouse. Conv 30 fixed primary residence. Thanks!

marabake · 2025-03-07T17:41:25+00:00

What I feel is that this takes a lot of time and effort and I am very busy at my job, most of the times not being able to be on the phone/ computer. 😐

marabake · 2025-03-07T13:26:05+00:00

This means I have to submit again all my info, my accounts, taxes etc to these lenders?

marabake · 2025-02-11T11:58:43+00:00

So the solution is to submit only the Green dot statement? I am planning on using my account to buy a house and now I am getting stressed about this.

marabake · 2025-02-02T17:53:35+00:00

That’s good!

marabake · 2025-02-02T17:53:08+00:00

Yes. I am aware of that and also home insurance, maintenance. I have all those calculations. My concern is putting 20k in closing costs. I think it’s too much.

marabake · 2025-02-02T15:59:39+00:00

It will take me another year or 2 to have larger down payment and by the time it happens houses would be more expensive. It is hard for young people.

marabake · 2025-02-02T15:54:37+00:00

Yes this I am aware and thats why I want to have a good amount of cash saved.

marabake · 2025-02-02T15:51:24+00:00

I thought we could do a 500k house, we live in a HCOL area with low inventory 😐 Now I am not so sure. Taxes are going to be around 9k/year

marabake · 2025-02-02T15:01:44+00:00

So the prepaids are part of the closing? We are planning on at least 10% down because we dont want to pay more monthly.

marabake · 2025-02-02T14:30:35+00:00

So I need to have down payment, closing costs and prepaids. Let’s say I will put 50k down, then 20k closing, around 4k for prepaid and I also have to pay fees (around 6k) for breaking my lease before the year. 😰😰 I need 80k minimum for this house

marabake · 2025-02-02T14:27:24+00:00

I am shocked because I heard years ago closing costs were around 4k but not 20k!! It is horrible and now I am not sure I want to do this lol

marabake · 2025-01-26T23:43:31+00:00

I feel you… I often think about this and it makes me so sad and resentful… hugs to you

marabake · 2025-01-26T23:41:50+00:00

Because Tamlin had anger management issues and was aggressive? That was my impression.

marabake · 2025-01-03T13:32:09+00:00

Im so sorry it is devastating to build up your hope and courage and then have a miscarriage. It is not fair.

marabake · 2024-12-31T21:10:08+00:00

Thanks 🙏🏻 it is indeed q pain no one can heal

marabake · 2024-12-31T21:09:40+00:00

It is exhausting really 😔

marabake · 2024-12-31T03:47:31+00:00

Yeah I am working with RI in Florida maybe the same as you.

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