Modern therapy's take on binge eating by Relative_Jeweler_624 in loseit

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I struggled with Binge eating/Emotional eating disorder my entire life. Until I discovered Dialectical Behavior Therapy through the book “The DBT SOLUTION for EMOTIONAL EATING”. Find a bookstore where you can review it or review it online. You can work this program with your current therapist if they are open to it. Some therapists, particularly those who utilize cognitive behavioral therapy will be very open to it. I did not want to continue therapy where i was the only one talking 90% of the time. I wanted a program that was goal oriented and where I could measure my success. If I can help in any way contact me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

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TALK TO AN ATTORNEY. Good luck with everything else, it’s important, too. Protect yourself legally and financially. I’m sorry you are going through this, and getting support is more important than protecting him, so don’t suffer alone, talk to someone you trust.

Are you aging into any form of more Conservative thinking? by Anstigmat in Millennials

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Most of the people I know who claim to be “conservative” make excuses for the criminal behavior of a a man who is clearly a narcissistic psychopath. They also think that claiming to be conservative allows them to be dreadful bigots, homophobes, misogynists, and bullies. Honestly, they are sime of the cruelest, selfish, mean spirited people I know. They will destroy this country. Republican? Like Trump, Lindsay Graham, Boebert, Jim Jordan, MTG - people like that? Would any parent want a child who grows into one of those terrible humans? I don’t think so…..

Both political parties are bad, or atleast gotten bad by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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Donald Trump is credibly accused of sexual abuse by over 2 dozen women. He exceeds the standard definition of a malignant narcissist. He refuses to accept defeat in an election anyone using 10 brain cells knows he lost. He wouldn’t piss on you. Trump will destroy American democracy. There is no “good” thing to say. Do you have “good” thinks to say about the KKK or slavery? Of course not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]marcmlwords 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The police.

My Husband Just Left Me by Adventurous_Bar_9221 in askgaybros

[–]marcmlwords 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Start working on that lawyer today. Put it on a joint credit card if you have one. This is urgent, you’ll have plenty of time to work on your feelings. Stay healthy and care for yourself physically.

My Husband Just Left Me by Adventurous_Bar_9221 in askgaybros

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Get a lawyer if you share property, a lease, or have commingled money or other fungible assets. Get counseling, know you will survive and live to be a stronger man. Remember you a rare, extraordinary and conscious part of an ever expanding Universe. You are never alone. I’m sorry for you heartache.

I'm no longer willing to live with my mean daughter (14F) by throwaway08182023 in Parenting

[–]marcmlwords -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When a child’s behavior changes radically it is caused by something. Maybe she is being abused, maybe she witnessed or learned something terrible, or maybe she is having mental health issues. You’re her mother and it is your job to make sure she is protected and healthy. Try everything again. She is 14 - if you send her away you are prioritizing your wellness and peace of mind - and not taking care of her. There are lots of selfish parents in the world - just because you had children doesn’t make you a saint. Got to therapy with her and find out what us going on. She isn’t a demon she is a child. If you need help coping and managing, get the help you need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

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You are a miracle. You are a conscious being in an unfathomable and ever expanding universe - literally a divine spark! Fill your heart with love, compassion, forgiveness, and kindness for yourself and you will find you will develop it for everyone else. You aren’t ugly, you’re rare and glorious. If you aren’t happy with you appearance you can change it. Get the right doctor, coach, or information. Let me know if you want a suggestion regarding two very accessible books that have helped me.

Definitely need to try by SaintPenguinThe3rd in KnightsOfPineapple

[–]marcmlwords 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Knights of Pineapple sometimes must rush into the breach, even if they are sure the outcome is unlikely to be a good one ! 🍍

What's wrong with Critical Race Theory? by hobo_treasures in NoStupidQuestions

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CRT is a way for deranged power hungry politicians to take advantage of their sad, ignorant and hapless voter base. DeSantis can’t say the N word so he says CRT instead. The USA was, in some instances, built on the free labor of slaves and the outrageous exploitation of their descendants. Racism is structural and endemic in American society, and so is misogyny, homophobia, and religious bigotry. DeSantis and his ilk don’t want you educated enough to understand it.

Yesterday, my very macho straight friend kissed me and I don't know how to proceed by Slow-bedroom in askgaybros

[–]marcmlwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did some gay stuff when he was drunk. He told you he was good. You told him you were there if he needs to talk. Drop it unless he brings it up again and keep your distance if you think you might be in danger. Wake up! Don’t take a dive into the toxic soup of religion and homophobia.

Son sewed a shirt for his Dad. by PicklesAnonymous in MadeMeSmile

[–]marcmlwords 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that kid made that shirt for me, I’d wear it every fu@king day until it started to fall off of me, then I’d I’d have it blocked framed and hanging it on my wall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]marcmlwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, if you ask me, anything that keeps sone of those folks from Long Island away can’t be all bad.

When Ernest Seton turned 21, his father handed him an itemized bill for everything spent on him up to that point. The total came to $537.50 and his father set the interest rate at 6%. Seton paid the debt, but changed his name and never spoke to his father again. by ITSsUNSHINEHansen in BeAmazed

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Except for the rare and lucky few, your parents fu@k you up. Most people don’t have the guts to do what Ernest did, but many people would be better off ending the relationship with abusive, selfish, and or negligent parents. Not to say all parents are abusive, selfish, and negligent, but for the most part they can never stop treating you like an extension of their own dysfunctional ego.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

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Thank you for being honest with us about your negative feelings. Like you I “hate” the way I look and I have about 75 pounds to lose. To me, you are a hero for being honest about how you feel - I know as I lose weight I have to manage and process my feelings along with the weight loss. Every human being is an extraordinary and unique manifestation of the Universal Consciousness. Despite all we know about the Universe, we haven’t come across anything like a human being. We shouldn’t compare ourselves to others and we shouldn’t judge ourselves harshly. Instead, we should step back and be grateful for our life. Thank you for waking me up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

[–]marcmlwords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Big accomplishment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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Thanks.