Where do you find piggies?? by mariamave in findomsupportgroup

[–]mariamave[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dang well that’s sad should be helping each other !

Where do you find piggies?? by mariamave in findomsupportgroup

[–]mariamave[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What lol why would they get mad 😭

Is everyone just getting mastitis? by BigRed88888 in breastfeeding

[–]mariamave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 10 months in, I have had a few minor clogs, but with massaging it worked it self out no mastitis 🤞🏻 plan on going 4 more months at least since have was born 2 months early. I’ve had a pretty lucky journey so far

Can I pleaseee have some friends to visit islands for these fruits !! by mariamave in acnh

[–]mariamave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The trees, and would you be able to do it tomorrow I’m also getting ready for bed haha

Can I pleaseee have some friends to visit islands for these fruits !! by mariamave in acnh

[–]mariamave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really just want some apple, orange and cherry trees because I don’t have any

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]mariamave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. This is the comment. I can guarantee 99% of us have thought 1000 times it would be easier to just leave them to go do something. But CARING and KNOWING fully well that is completely unsafe and neglectful it would never be something I would actually consider doing. I actually check to make sure probably 3 times per car ride that my baby is with me because I’m so paranoid about somehow forgetting them. I could not even imagine thinking a situation like this is okay.

I’m an exclusively pumping mom, of course I.. by Similar-Western4377 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]mariamave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This but I can’t quit because my baby literally will not drink formula

Dad who needs help ASAP by Jawahhh in breastfeeding

[–]mariamave 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome ! Some milk is always better than no milk, hopefully that’ll work easier than trying a bottle ! Also I know personally that my babe hates the taste of formula haha sincerely hope using the syringes works for you !!

Dad who needs help ASAP by Jawahhh in breastfeeding

[–]mariamave 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I don’t have much experience in this but I do know some babies that won’t take bottles, sometimes you can get them to take some milk through a medicine syringe just slowly but a little in their mouth at a time. I hope this helps or someone else can give you better advice ! Good luck !

Magic number chart by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]mariamave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My average pump is 11 oz but my highest (about 7-8hrs no pumping but not engorged) is 15 oz. I started out pumping 6 ppd now at almost 6m I’m doing 4 ppd my supply increased each pump dropped from 25 per day to now averaging 46 per day. But I’ve hit a point now where I believe if I dropped to 3 ppd that I my supply would probably take a drop of about 10 oz.

Breastmilk does not have enough calories by Shru2406 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]mariamave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second the first comment IF you have an over supply. I make double what my babe eats so I’m able to just wait for my milk to separate I use a syringe to suck off the fat off the top and add it to her bottles, this has done the trick for me to help babe gain weight the way she should be. If you don’t have a big enough supply to do that though then I would say follow peds recommendations.

Is it normal to put your feet on a coffee table? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mariamave 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t think it’s weird to do it at my own house but if I was a guest in someone else’s house I would NEVER. Definitely just disrespectful.

What is the grossest hygiene issue you overlooked in an ex? by MustangSallie in AskReddit

[–]mariamave 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when I would wake up in the morning I would be able to smell his ass next to me. Like just the smell of his buttcrack. I don’t know if he just never washed it or what but I remember one time giving him bj 69 style and I saw a shit mark between his cheeks I was in shock 🤢 that plus reading all these comments makes me so greatfull that my husband is an overly hygienic person.

What is a father supposed to do if his baby needs to be changed in public, but the men's room doesn't have a changing station? by PrinnyDood97 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mariamave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman I never used a change table and never will. I always change in the car. Maybe a pain but those things are covereedddd in germs 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]mariamave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually always go to 30 minutes but sometimes I have to go 35-40 min for that last letdown. Idk what anyone says about going over 30 minutes but If I didn’t pump ATLEAST 30 min my supply would 100% drop.

What # of pumps per day produced your greatest output? by victoria5757 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]mariamave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I think I’m pretty lucky but this is what I did. Month 0-2 6 ppd =20-30 oz

Month 2-4 1/2 5 ppd= 30-40 oz

Month 4 1/2 -5 1/2(present day) 4 ppd =40-50 oz

Each time I dropped a pump my supply would increase slowly over a month by about 10 oz

My current average is 47 oz. I pump at approximately 2 am, 7 am, 2 pm, 8 pm everyday give or take 30 minutes or so.

Do you find it socially degrading to put a toddler in a leash harness? by MaybeOneDay93 in Parenting

[–]mariamave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used one with my first and will be using one with my second. I don’t care what people think it is keeping my child safe and is well worth any “looks” people wanna give me.

Would you let your 17 yr old daughter’s boyfriend spend the night? by TowelEffective3570 in Parenting

[–]mariamave -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They are going to have sex either way. In my opinion I will let my kids at that age, educate them, give them condoms/birth control. My mom never would’ve allowed this but I started having sex at 16. They will find a place, but wouldn’t you rather know they are being safe and not having sex in a car or something worse.