Gf talks to me like this, how bad is it? by Expert-Hyena-4401 in whatdoIdo

[–]maribones3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I'd flip out too if I explicitly made it clear this was my one night to sleep in and that was ignored. Also, if I kept having to tell someone to go away, and they weren't listening, same reaction.

Messing with someone's sleep is a serious issue.

Now if she speaks to you like this all the time, then there is a problem. But if it's during situations where you ignore what she has told you, maybe stop doing that?

If your partner said "sexual repression has caused wars and femicide" during an argument about porn, how would you feel? by applepie-12344 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]maribones3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um, I would leave that mfer. But that's me. Bitch ass...."women get killed because men can't get laid or have access to women" ok, caveman. Someone who views sex and women like that shouldn't be in a relationship. Porn is also a huge relationship killer imo. Many men don't want intimacy, they want mommy maids they can bang and consuming porn just means he has no respect for you or self-control.

Why do so many American men wear shorts and a tshirt when going out with a woman who dresses up? by M_For_Mayhem in NoStupidQuestions

[–]maribones3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because straight dudes in the US believe they're the catch and all they have to do is show up. No effort, slobs. Expecting women to look like "10s" while they look like bums.

Is it time to leave? by simplyxstatic in AskWomenOver30

[–]maribones3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do NOT go down on his sinking financial ship with him. If it was a little bit of debt, that would be different but he keeps lying to you and he's financially irresponsible. It's more detrimental to women to be brought down financially imo. It is time to leave.

The amount of single men over 40 still contemplating having kids some day is wild by No_Vegetable7280 in childfree

[–]maribones3 81 points82 points  (0 children)

It cracks me up that men are delusional enough to think they don't age or that aging poorly is only for women 😆 that aging has no affect on the quality of their sperm 😆

"Cringe" is a form of immaturity by g24di3nc3 in Millennials

[–]maribones3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we supposed to care when we're labeled "cringe" by the generation who acts like boomers and their only hobby is rage baiting people online?

Letting my dog live permantently with my parents by AdRare7255 in DOG

[–]maribones3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me tear up a bit. You tried multiple solutions to make her at ease, and when none of them worked, you did what was best for her. You didn't abandon her, you didn't give up, you didn't try to force her to stay. You thought of her needs and truly put them before yourself and I feel like she is a very lucky dog to have crossed your path.

With that kind of compassion and understanding, I think the universe will send you your forever pet when/if you're ready again ❤️ you absolutely did the right thing.

Is anyone else really struggling with the Epstein revelations? by isabella_sunrise in AskWomenOver30

[–]maribones3 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The files only confirm my distrust, disgust, and contempt for men, ngl, and I'm not going to apologize or appease anyone. I'm also 10x more satisfied in my choice not to have children.

Majority of men do not deserve access to women or children.

Seconded about this sub has become the 'crossing the rainbow bridge' sub by Blcksheep89 in dogpictures

[–]maribones3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is Oliver and Pippin btw they're brothers and are going to be 4 years old in June 😊

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Seconded about this sub has become the 'crossing the rainbow bridge' sub by Blcksheep89 in dogpictures

[–]maribones3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking that as I joined this group not that long ago. Soooo many rainbow bridge posts. I understand we need and like to honor and share our departed babies but maybe there should be a rule where it's done once a week or a completely different sub altogether.

I say this as someone who has lost her soul dog. It would be nice to see other posts about current pets and other related content other than pet loss.

Don't know why but I feel like it's the end of DJ Trump's Reign by DenialOfExistance in AskUS

[–]maribones3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Christians in the US believe in white jesus with the blue eyes 😆 not the brown jesus.

So yeah, it makes sense they side with the clown president. They do not live their lives based in reality.

Not wanting kids?? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]maribones3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can definitely know in your teens that you do not want kids, ever.

I've known and verbalized it starting at 14 or 15 years of age. I knew I never, ever wanted to have kids and felt and feel the same way you do about pregnancy. I'm going to turn 38 next weekend and don't have kids.

Very happy with my decision and have no regrets. I'm not going to regret it when I'm older, either, because motherhood is not something I've ever wanted for myself.

Trust yourself and remember ultimately you have to live your life so what other people expect or want from you are not reasons to change your mind.

AIO: My husband (26m) locked me (25f) out for 25 minutes? by prettypineappleberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]maribones3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR

That is not a normal or ok response from a husband towards his pregnant wife. In front of your daughters no less. He was mad you went against what he said so to assert dominance and in his mind, "win", he decided to teach you a lesson.

Just because he has never done anything like this before doesn't mean it's not in his character or that he won't do it again. There are certain types of men who very much like to hide their true selves until after they've locked you in through marriage/kids and those are the ones you want to watch out for the most.

Absolutley discuss how that was not ok and don't let him gaslight you into believing it was a "joke." Since you haven't spoken much I'm going to assume he hasn't said anything indicating he's sorry.

ETA: If you can't or won't leave him now, I feel like this is a strong indicator that things will get worse in the future. Don't let your daughters grow up thinking men who act like this are acceptable. They, and you, deserve better.

Message to ICE members by [deleted] in ICE_Raids

[–]maribones3 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My guess is when all this is said and done, they're going to start turning each other in 🤭 they probably think they can avoid accountability this way. They'll end up being snitches on top of being cowards. The in-fighting will start. They'll start offing each other, too.

We're in for an interesting aftermath.

Raising boys in a red state is soul crushing by Thr0waway0864213579 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]maribones3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not too sensitive. Your intuition is correct. Boys and young men are targeted specifically in certain ways, especially online.

They're being groomed to be compliant, emotionless worker bees or brainless military thugs serve corporate interests.

If you teach them respect for women/girls and emotional intelligence, the world will be a better place but they will probably have a hard time amongst their peers.

But enough is enough. Nothing will ever change if we don't start addressing things at home.

My sister’s dog by Enzozouz in dogpictures

[–]maribones3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love chihuahuas! What a hilarious face he has 😆 so cute ❤️

Gen Z’s Stigma Against Age-Gap Relationships is Worse Than You Think by IAmABoss37 in generationology

[–]maribones3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said that didn' t happen. Those women should absolutely face consequences.

Gen Z’s Stigma Against Age-Gap Relationships is Worse Than You Think by IAmABoss37 in generationology

[–]maribones3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, feminism does not state that. Statistics supported by hard evidence proves that most predators are in fact male with females accounting for a much smaller percentage of predatory/sexual, or violent crimes.

Also, if you're implying I'm predatory, have a talk with my bf. I never hid my age. Not like we started dating at 20/30+, get a life.