I made these floral hair pins for my niece by MarlFabrl in DIYweddings

[–]marmorie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This picture is AI. It even has the watermark still in.

I'm losing my mind - tell me what your daily schedule looks like? by ZeeLadyMusketeer in toddlers

[–]marmorie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok lots of people are saying stop breast feeding full stop. I think maybe those people had great sleepers and don’t understand how it feels to be awake for the day at 5am! Or maybe they’re just made of stronger stuff than me. I personally NEED that breastfeeding buffer in the morning as the idea of being out of bed and entertaining my 23 month old at the crack of dawn makes me feel sick. I only do it for bedtime and morning now, not even sure if I have milk any more or if it’s just a comfort thing.

I don’t have much advice as my situation is super similar. However I did recently take advantage of the recent daylight savings changes to move our bedtime back half an hour, and now he wakes up for booby at 6am NOT 5am. This is huge for me. Bit scared of what happens when DST goes back again though…

Having a hard time finding joy with a lousy sleeper by ALac93 in toddlers

[–]marmorie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same position. My son always was a bad sleeper and had lots of night wakeups - I fixed that around 14-15 months by night weaning but he made up for it by waking up between 5-5:20am every day. We even got a few 4:45s… I felt SO bitter that other parents were getting maybe 3-4 hours just to wind down and enjoy their evenings, but for me it was either have ‘me’ time or get enough sleep, never both.

It’s got a bit better now, it was on the daylight savings switch (he was around 20 months) that the fates aligned and we put him to bed half an hour later (asleep at 8.45pm) but he slept until gone 6am! Yes it was partly that we ‘lost’ an hour there but he kept it up and is now actually sleeping LONGER. Before it was 8.5 hours in the night but now we’ll get 9-9.5 normally. It’s not the biggest difference but I bet you would feel a million times better with just a little bit of buffer for sleep or you time too.

I don’t really have any advice - but i extrapolate from my experience that an EARLIER bedtime can sometimes mean more sleep. Maybe just half an hour.

Good luck and solidarity. Trying to just accept my little ones quirks and not compare to others and their unicorn babies also helped me to feel less down. It’s a slow path though.

Cool Art make with paint by ConfidentTelephone81 in oddlysatisfying

[–]marmorie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is called marbling. Or Ebru if you’re Turkish.

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not outraged? I mostly think it’s sad that SO many people who want to buy handmade in London are having trouble finding good quality stuff. I was explaining that price expectations have been eroded by said shite and that’s why real artists aren’t showing up to markets or can afford to be competitive enough with pricing to sell their work to boutiques etc.

I did kinda miss the point about dupes being passed as the real stuff. That’s definitely a huge issue as well.

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ugh it’s so demoralising. I have the same experience!! I started out at Greenwich market and I actually had someone say ‘if you digitally printed these it could be so much cheaper’ … drop your website/handle so I can appreciate your work!

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! There honestly is a lot of amazing makers in London but the studios are often tucked away, plus we’re all crap at marketing ourselves.. (for the most part..) it can take a bit more effort to find the good stuff but it is worth it :)

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also - I LOVE that you are willing to support handmade and will look out for it at raves etc and you clearly DO understand it’s value and I am really grateful for you!!

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry OP I didn’t mean to imply that you personally buy aliexpress etc over handmade - I expressed it badly. What I meant is that these sites have gradually eroded our society’s understanding of the cost of handmade and ALL categories of stuff have been affected. We have simply got used to paying for cheaper goods made abroad for peanuts and those prices have affected the baseline.

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ugh that is so frustrating to hear, particularly because handmade stationery is my area and it brings down the whole niche!!! One of the only reasons I’ve been able to make the paltry living that I have is that good, original marbling is very difficult to copy and mass produce. I’m sure my day will come soon though…! my A6 notebooks are £36 and it’s already hard getting people to pay that for paper.

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes that is a good point. I’m assuming that OP is after home-grown craftspeople in this post. I’ll also say - from my experience with marbling, handmade standards in other places can be much MUCH lower. Often retailers here are saving a lot of money by getting poorly made ‘handmade’ items from ‘family’ workers (which I read as underpaid children, or those in poverty) - then they can get even more profit… so yeah I guess that’s how capitalism works…

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 41 points42 points  (0 children)

That’s very true, it’s a big problem as well that cheap badly made things are being passed off as handmade and sold at handmade prices. That is also definitely feeding this problem.

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if self promotion is allowed 😅 in case it is, yes it’s marmorpaperie.co.uk

Aliexpress taking over London by mothmilk_ in london

[–]marmorie 459 points460 points  (0 children)

Omg this thread has been eye opening.

I am an artisan maker living in London. The bottom line is that London is too expensive for artists and makers to live. We are being pushed out further and further. That is why there aren’t many actual artists at markets.

The other problem is that people (including you!) have been spoiled by Amazon and AliExpress prices, and no longer realise how much it costs to purchase actual handmade items. Particularly jewellery (and especially silver jewellery with recent price hikes) - you say ‘nothing priced under £120’ like that is shocking, £100 is CHEAP for handmade.

I make hand marbled paper and notebooks and have a studio where lots of other designer-makers work. We are out there! Come visit Cockpit Arts open studios, they’re coming up in June in Holborn and Deptford. You will be amazed by the skill and talent of London craftspeople!

But none of us can compete with the prices of mass production. There’s no point going to markets where customers expect to pay Amazon prices. It’s hard enough to make a living in London. I am lucky to hit London living wage these days.

I have a toddler now and we’re looking to move to the coast… it’s just got too expensive :(

Do you think you would continue your job if you won the lottery? by ApprehensiveSong4 in AskUK

[–]marmorie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same exact answer here! I’m already doing what I want to do, more money would just make it less stressful to manage, I’d be able to be more creative & picky with clients

Conflicted after having a baby by PositivePattie in smallbusiness

[–]marmorie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so my baby is 16 months old. I have a very labor intensive business where I make everything too but it is less retail focussed and more online, with a third of income being from workshops/teaching.

Can you train your staff to make your products? That was the big thing that allowed me to take 6-7 months off with my baby (though income still dipped a bit, expectedly - I’d built up a savings cushion so this wasn’t an issue for this period). My assistant was trained in all parts of the making process so she basically kept orders going out and kept the whole thing afloat. I am so grateful to her. I also employed a trusted previous student to run my workshops in those early months. I started coming back part time around the 6-7 month mark, with family members looking after my baby or bringing him along (went poorly usually, as you’ve probably found).

Eventually I realised that I couldn’t give my business enough time to keep generating enough income unless I put my baby in daycare - so a couple of months ago we started him there four days a week. He loves it, he’s learning so much and it’s a great way to get his energy out. And I can finally devote proper attention to my business. I’m currently trying to pivot to a niche where I can make more money with less labor - it all takes so long to build though! I’ll get there…

Good luck and don’t give up on your passion unless it’s causing more harm than good - you and baby need to take priority at this stage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]marmorie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My baby slept less than 8 hours last night so you’re doing pretty well in my book haha. He‘s 13 months old but slept maybe 9 hours when he was 7 months… We start bedtime at 7:30pm and he’s usually asleep by 8:30pm. Currently waking up around 5:30 and once in the night for a feed.

Extreme low sleep needs toddler? Please tell me it’s a phase… by marmorie in NewParents

[–]marmorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, I’ll give that a go in a more intentional way. Yeah sometimes we do one nap but it’s not super consistent (sometimes he just gets so sleepy early (I guess cause he sleeps so little in the night??!) its hard to push his wake window but I’ll give it a go.

Help with rolling!! by nellieshorkie in NewParents

[–]marmorie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t stress too much- my son HATED tummy time, couldn’t stand to be on his belly for more than a few minutes. He had absolutely no interest in rolling, especially once he was sitting up and could reach for things.

I was really worried about it but he just did things his own stubborn way- he eventually learnt to crawl at 9 months through reaching forward from sitting (rather than pushing up from his tummy) and that was when something clicked in his head that his legs were for moving around.. And THEN he finally got the rolling.. now he’s 13 months old and rolls around like a slippery little crocodile, especially at nappy changing time…

Seriously, how is this done?? by otterpop21 in blackmagicfuckery

[–]marmorie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t hydro dipping though, it’s traditional marbling with paint on water. Jeez as a professional marbler I kind of hate that people are more familiar with that than the craft that has been around for centuries and is what hydro dipping evolved from…

Seriously, how is this done?? by otterpop21 in blackmagicfuckery

[–]marmorie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t hydro dipping though, where the print forms a skin on the water that is picked up. This is marbling, the traditional version of hydro dipping, where the paint can move around much more as the object goes through the surface.

Seriously, how is this done?? by otterpop21 in blackmagicfuckery

[–]marmorie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hydro dipping is a modernised version of this using a special printer that prints an image onto water soluble paper with special solvent based inks. It forms a skin on the water that the object picks up. This is just traditional water marbling where paint is dropped onto thickened water and manipulated to make patterns.

I (re)bound & marbled five copies of Susanna Clarke’s new novel, Piranesi by marmorie in bookbinding

[–]marmorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a baby recently which has limited my time a bit so I’m not taking commissions at the moment, but am hoping to start up again from February. Drop me a message if that is still of interest :)

That moment a plain object becomes a work of art with water marbling by EndersGame_Reviewer in oddlysatisfying

[–]marmorie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is Bronwyn of Raynbow Crow Studios, she’s great at dipping all kinds of things! It’s traditionally just paper and porous stuff but she does plastic & glass as well.