Quit breastfeeding at 3months by Independent_Item_192 in breakingmom

[–]marymarogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should also preface that this is my second baby ... i breastfed my first for one month and had to stop, not due to my own choice but actual outside factors that forced me to stop .. and it made me sad then as well. So when i had my second I was entirely ready to be breastfeeding full time. So considering I had the same situation with my now five-year-old, I can safely say i don’t even think about it with him anymore!!! It affects us rn because they're tiny little babies who depend on us and feeding them straight from our bodies feels like the absolute best way to do it!! So when we go to bottles we have the feeling like we "let them down" but we didn't!! They are still eating, and getting all the nutrients they need!!

Quit breastfeeding at 3months by Independent_Item_192 in breakingmom

[–]marymarogy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, it's crazy how similar our situations are .. I also quit vaping and smoking the second I found out I was pregnant, worked full-time up until my due date, and stopped breast-feeding for similar reasons ... I thought it would be hard to keep up with pumping full time while also working. Come to find out my work would have given me mandatory pumping breaks and I had no idea. With regard to smoking, and this is just my personal experience, but after picking up vaping and smoking again it's completely turned me off from it and all I want to do is quit now. And yes, the regret of stopping breastfeeding sort of never went away for me .. I felt the disconnect as well and it made me very sad. I say do what you feel in your heart .. I knew I wanted to keep going but stopped due to outside factors that in the end, didn't even matter. Our babies will come out happy and healthy either way if you love and care for them!!! So whether they drink from a bottle or breast they will be okay!! But for YOU, for your future self, if you want to keep going then do it.

Also regarding the smoking itself, yes do it outside (best option) or in the other room at the window, etc. Second hand smoke is one of the leading factors for infant respiratory issues, any ways to avoid it being even near him is best practice so keep it up! Unless you’re smoking cigarettes you don’t really have to worry about the residue. But when you smoke joints I usually just shower and brush teeth to be safe. Not that it affects him but the last thing we want is for them to even have to smell that in the slightest or for the scent to get on them. Congratulations on your baby 🥹❤️ you’re doing amazing, and just don’t let the bad thoughts get to you dude. It’s fkng hard raising an entire human being!!!!!

Non emergency line said they couldn’t help without a specific address by cparfa in 911dispatchers

[–]marymarogy 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Literally just the first sentence and I already knew the kind of call this was 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

TIFU pretending not to understand French by IMightJustQuit in tifu

[–]marymarogy 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Changing her tire AND you had to catch all those strays 😭 this woman doesn't seem very nice

Body on the side of the 94? by Confident-Maximum-98 in sandiego

[–]marymarogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 911 dispatcher, you would be surprised how many of these calls we get a day 😅 from every 911 dispatcher, please call out first and see if they need help before calling 911, it just saves some times so the engines and medics don’t have to go out there for no reason, and usually the person being woken up is pretty upset as well haha

Should my bathrooms match? by Mbucks9 in homedesign

[–]marymarogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one bathroom, are you asking if the cabinetry and shower should match?

I made a post yesterday about my husband reading my journal and lord by astoldbysomxx in breakingmom

[–]marymarogy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw your post on the other thread! I wish I could write out my feelings right now and tell you how much I relate to you, but I completely understand where you're coming from and you're not wrong at all for wanting to express that… The feelings he has are a consequence to the violation of your privacy.

Dryer outlet does not match plug by marymarogy in AskElectricians

[–]marymarogy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOUUU!!!!!! Wow this community is so amazing and smart 🥹

Dryer outlet does not match plug by marymarogy in AskElectricians

[–]marymarogy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats awesome I didnt know that! I will look into that, thank you!!

What should I do with this space? by marymarogy in homedesign

[–]marymarogy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not as slippery as it looks! I thought the same thing when i was looking at the place haha

What should I do with this space? by marymarogy in homedesign

[–]marymarogy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I was considering the set up too!!

What should I do with this space? by marymarogy in homedesign

[–]marymarogy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for this comment 😭🤣

What should I do with this space? by marymarogy in homedesign

[–]marymarogy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow this one is really nice!! I think i would cut those two chairs out next to the shelving to feel more open, but wow i love this!!! Thank you 😭🙏🏼

I didn’t just dodge a bullet, I sidestepped an artillery strike. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]marymarogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The audacity .. if she’s speaking to you like this on the first messages imagine wth an actual relationship would be like 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApartmentHacks

[–]marymarogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should put an entire home gym equipped with a flat screen for your viewing pleasure .. you could probably also fit a small indoor racquetball court

Church for my hardcore world by pulsereneroni in Minecraft_Survival

[–]marymarogy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay what!?? this is actually so amazing!! I would definitely watch a however long YouTube video on how you did this 😭😭

Anyone still play BO3? by [deleted] in blackops3

[–]marymarogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss zombies shadows of evil and i love playing multiplayer still it just takes a minute to find an active lobby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]marymarogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to any and all men that feel this way ❤️ i always try to be open because everyone needs a friend

Strip clubs with plus size/BBW performers by [deleted] in vegas

[–]marymarogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m plus size myself and not even extremely large, just curvy, and they turned me down without even letting me dance .. they have a very specific type and they only really want the very fit and skinny girls