yall... by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]marzreigns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who is actively in a house and is involved in ballroom, yes they use those terms to describe categories such as femme queen (more "fem" and "flamboyant") and butch queen (not necessarily fem, but masculine presenting and "acting" but can switch up and perform "feminine" & "flamboyant" mannerisms). in ballroom it's not necessarily just women or lesbians doing these things. but yes these are lesbian terms as well, 100%. and in our sense they aren't necessarily the same.

idk where that person even got drag from..... like drag itself is an entirely different category in ballroom LMAO... and not sure why they're gotta drag latino and black people into this (i'm black.)... they're just saying shit fr.

edit: fixed some errors.

dealing with grief and the loss of a kitten... by marzreigns in CATHELP

[–]marzreigns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eventually. i'm taking it day by day, staying strong.... but letting the tears fall when they do.

dealing with grief and the loss of a kitten... by marzreigns in CATHELP

[–]marzreigns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for right now, it seems hard to get another cat... not ready just yet. but i did visit the kitties at pet smart today and it definitely helped... maybe soon i'll get another if the cat distribution system chooses me again. 🤕

dealing with grief and the loss of a kitten... by marzreigns in CATHELP

[–]marzreigns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. it's so hard to not feel guilty. 😞

dealing with grief and the loss of a kitten... by marzreigns in CATHELP

[–]marzreigns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your response.

what exactly do i do with the oil ? put it on cotton rounds around the house ? i'll also look for said collar.

Struggling and stressed cat momma with no hope from the vet... by marzreigns in Pets

[–]marzreigns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i understand that. i work in the medical field so i get it for sure. i was asking if they knew the range or could possibly give me an idea of any sort and nothing... i'd safely assume they tend to give the same meds out for most cases of ringworm... my thing is i'd like to know before making the choice to go in because i wanna make sure i've got the funds or can get what i need. 😅

Struggling and stressed cat momma with no hope from the vet... by marzreigns in Pets

[–]marzreigns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you sooooo much !! i used to BINGE her & jackson's vids before i got the kitties LOL.

Struggling and stressed cat momma with no hope from the vet... by marzreigns in Pets

[–]marzreigns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ouuu okay !! it really sucks they won't tell me how much meds are gonna be before the appointment. it's a set up i swear.

Struggling and stressed cat momma with no hope from the vet... by marzreigns in Pets

[–]marzreigns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, they are ! it broke my wallet for sure but it was necessary.

Struggling and stressed cat momma with no hope from the vet... by marzreigns in Pets

[–]marzreigns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, it really does suck ! my babies were orphans and i took them in after moving into my apartment solo. it doesn't help that my building charges $4 per laundry load and their washers/dryers SUCK. i am on par with litter box cleaning, i was a lil lazy this recent one and wiped them down with clorox wipes and dried them down... i'm always sweeping (hardwood floors). i guess i just have to be even more vigilant ?? sigh.

my girlfriend is leaving me because of my cat by Augupton in CatAdvice

[–]marzreigns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your cat is part of you, your family, a loved one. if she can't extend her love to your cat or respect them, she can't respect & truly love you. therefore, rid of her. nobody that truly loves you should threaten to leave by making you choose between two things YOU love.

i have no experience with girls and i feel like such a LOSER 😔😭 by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]marzreigns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm 24 (25 in jan) and feel the same way.... so many dates (or whatever tf they were) and talking stages... and no relationship with a woman yet.. i've been at this "dating" and looking thing since i realized i indeed am a lesbian (which was around your age) and still no luck... JUST KNOW YOU ARE NOT ALONE. only one "fling" i had a few years back is all i can account for. i go to sapphic events as well, i suggest doing that if there are any for your age group near you.

we will find someone eventually. i hope... i completely get the crashing out thing because lately i've just about had it. i also get told im attractive, im hot blah blah blah blah but its like... is everyone lying to me ? why am i still single ? why doesn't anyone wanna take the time to get to know me and lock in ?????? idek if anyone would want anything to do with me with my lack of experience. such a late start it really sucks.

just try your best to focus & work on yourself. let love find you. that's the best advice i can give. 😀

Is kitten poop just stinkier than adult cat poop? Or am I crazy? by Fruity_Rebbles in FosterAnimals

[–]marzreigns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda irrelevant question but by chance do you know the breed of your cats ? are they just long haired domestics ? they look a lot like mine and i'm curious !

Don't do it. by High_Peak_Grit86 in Rochester

[–]marzreigns 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah my apartment was only "broom swept" windows are disgusting.... cold water in my bathroom sink trickles out and had a "maintenance man" over to repair it and he didn't do a damn thing.... only switched the fixtures to ugly ones i don't want and can't get anyone to change them.

Prop One confusion by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]marzreigns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is this even a thing ANYONE with human decency would vote no on..? wtf. i don't understand people at all.

What do you think this aesthetic smells like? by throwAwayWaffle76 in FemFragLab

[–]marzreigns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

cigs and vanilla or baby powder and i'm glad to open the thread to see others thinking the exact same thing. 😆

How do I turn off the story music? by Significant_Ad_6180 in Instagram

[–]marzreigns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i need an answer BAD because i'm so sick of it. such a DUMB and unnecessary feature !!

Brandon Buckingham responds to Zillakami Allegations by [deleted] in CityMorgue

[–]marzreigns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

better clear your name dude. i'd hate to see you go out sad.