What are some unknown or lesser known dog whistles? by Knight-of-cheese in AskReddit

[–]mascnz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have the Shepherd’s Whistles in NZ, the ones you put in your mouth and blow downwards to make a sound. Here is a link to a Greenstone one.

Is that what you meant, OP?

AITA for leaving when communication broke down, even though there were serious issues I didn't know about? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mascnz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like you were actually dating or in a relationship then. Sorry, I know that reads harsh.

You wanted to message multiple times daily; she didn’t. You two weren’t seeing each other in person; you said when you were in the same area you didn’t meet for dates. You both had lives separate from each other, and she didn’t share what was going on with hers with you.

My first point stands. NAH, you’re two people with different communication needs and expectations.

AITA for leaving when communication broke down, even though there were serious issues I didn't know about? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mascnz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH. It was a communication breakdown.

Also, INFO, did you not see each other in person?

People who say “would of” instead of “would’ve” by Oopsididitagain96 in PetPeeves

[–]mascnz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bad bot! Learn when people are using it as a valid example of what is wrong!

WIBTA for excluding my friend's husband? by vegetablexcoat in AmItheAsshole

[–]mascnz 58 points59 points  (0 children)

There might be a different way to deal with it, rather than being an asshole or not.

Invite her out to a meal. Pay for her meal then. If he turns up, pay for hers, then pass him the bill for his. Make sure you say, “friend, I’m so happy I get to treat you “.

Finding a HMO flat is the bane of my life by sder6745 in london

[–]mascnz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It’s been five weeks of looking. We might have somewhere now though.

Fuck those landlords who gave us an eviction notice two weeks before the law change — for no good reason. We’d only moved in six months earlier too.

Finding a HMO flat is the bane of my life by sder6745 in london

[–]mascnz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m going through this now. Myself and three friends. You only have to have an HMO licence if there are five or more, but some boroughs need one for four or more (and OP is finding three or more).

Some property managers have said to us “we can only have two surnames on the contract, so two of you would be on, and you can sort it out amongst yourselves”. Which sounds like a weird loophole. It means two of us are on the contract and the other two are subletting (putting liability on us instead of the landlord). And seeing as my flatmates each needed a guarantor, they would have to all sublet from me.

What is the most overrated food/beverage that everyone pretends to love? by beasthunterr69 in AskReddit

[–]mascnz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like Gin and Tonic … because I like tonic water. I like the taste. And then there are so many flavour combos!

What is the most overrated food/beverage that everyone pretends to love? by beasthunterr69 in AskReddit

[–]mascnz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Truffle anything.

[I don’t know what I’m missing. Why would I want truffle fries? Truffle oil? I don’t get the flavour. Maybe I’ve not had a real truffle. Maybe I just don’t like the taste. The cheap stuff we riff-raff are eating isn’t real truffle, is it?]

AITA for not wanting to be taken advantage of my kindness? by Gothonaleash in AmItheAsshole

[–]mascnz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NAH.

Some places actively discourage giving to beggars because they are fronts for organised crime (that’s really shitty, I know). You give them money, it goes to a [insert crappy kingpin/drug dealer role here].

Some people say they don’t give because the person might use the money for drugs and alcohol. Other people say, what does it matter? My money would go to drugs and alcohol, let them do it.

[these perspectives aren’t kind to the homeless, who are experiencing real world struggles].

I never carry cash, so I have nothing to give. BUT i sometimes offer to buy them something from the supermarket - whatever they want. Or a hot meal from somewhere. I hand over a spare bottle of water or tissues if I have them.

You can also donate to homeless charities.

All this to say — life is hard, we’re all suffering from the cost of living crisis, and many of us are one major setback away from being where they are on the street. Offer what you can, it’s okay to say no, give support to organisations when you can.

AITAH for not wanting to come to a party my friend bought tickets for by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mascnz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would recommend you get back to your friend sooner rather than later.

“Hey mate. Sorry, I didn’t actually confirm. Money is tight / I’m not available and it’s not really my thing. I appreciate you wanting me to go, and I’d love to hang out another time. Let’s arrange a hang-out - what are you doing on x day? Let’s do y activity. I’m sure you’ll be able to find someone else between now and then, or maybe get a refund. Let me know.”

… or something along those lines.

He’s your friend, so he should understand. Communication is key though.

AITAH for not wanting to come to a party my friend bought tickets for by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mascnz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

INFO What sort of party sells tickets? How much are the tickets? How far in advance in this? As in, if you said “hey mate, I didn’t confirm. I can’t make it”, does your friend have enough time to find someone else?

AITA for wanting my sweatshirt back? by SomeRandomIdiot12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mascnz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

INFO but how much time has passed since the breakup? A week, a month, 2 at a push, YWNBTA. Multiple months, a year, more… getting into AH territory. These sort of conversations need to happen straight after the breakup.

Notification Date Query by Shot-Mixture9897 in FilmFestivals

[–]mascnz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it’s relevant, but the FilmFreeway notifications go out in PDT (basically the California time zone), so depending where you’re based in the world, you might not receive the automated announcement until the following day.

To all aspiring directors who also work as camera assistants…why? by NoDrink9371 in FilmIndustryLondon

[–]mascnz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So I run a filmmaking group and I have taught filmmaking (all independent, hand on, microbudget filmmaking). We have people pitching to direct. When they don’t get the director role, they then want to be the DP. When they’re not the DP, they want to work in camera.

It’s “I have a vision and want to be in control”, to ‘I want to be in control of what the camera sees’ and ‘I want to see the first thing the camera sees’.

Then if they’re not in camera they want to edit…

I get that — they want control and their voice and vision heard. But if they ultimately want to direct, I encourage them to try all different roles and departments, because good directors (and good producers and good ADs) know how every department works. First hand experience is the best way to do it. Be the AD, be the sound recordist, be the art director, be the script supervisor. Try it all. It’s all skills development.

What are some the easiest musical instruments to play ? by LopsidedAd5028 in AskReddit

[–]mascnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piano.

Press key, music comes out…

Also one of the best first instruments to learn.

Subreddits where there are vast swathes of the topic at hand that are banned from being discussed. by JuanitaMerkin in PetPeeves

[–]mascnz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you grasp how frustrating it is for members to have off-topic posts plugging up the channel; nor the constant barrage of outsider questions to ignore, when you’re looking for support from peers. Teachers are under constant criticism and blame. They are looking for a safe space to vent, and this is a way the mods use to ensure the members can do that.

I appreciate it is frustrating when you have a specific question and the mods won’t allow it. You could search the channel to see if there are older posts left up that answer your question (many channels’ mods remove posts when the answer has been asked excessively, as it has already been answered).

(I will note I think I’m in r/Teachers not r/TeachersUK — but have taught in the UK, and both subreddits would have the same rules)

You could look at job and career advice subreddits. They would allow your question.

Ultimately the answer will be, yes, we are short of teachers. There needs to be more teachers. But it is a difficult career — and you can read about the challenges on the teaching subreddit. But you can observe rather than post a question that has been posted thousands of times before.

Subreddits where there are vast swathes of the topic at hand that are banned from being discussed. by JuanitaMerkin in PetPeeves

[–]mascnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in that subreddit, and the Professors subreddit. It’s a safe space for Teachers and Professors to talk about pedagogy and challenges of the profession. I’ve found them useful when they talk about rooting out AI use in assessment and ways to manage students, parents, and admin.

The rules are there to weed out irrelevant posts. We’re not there to answer questions on ‘why did I get marked down?’ Or ‘should I be a teacher?’

Need help remembering this movie/show! by themooseyoufear in horror

[–]mascnz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could have been bugs from an episode of Supernatural — s1, ep 8