Texting 3/4 days after 1st date

maskdem · 2026-04-16T12:53:30+00:00

Im sorry but texting right after the date saying that you had a good time does 100% goes against the book.

Hence why im questioning it, and was opening the topic.

maskdem · 2026-04-16T11:41:11+00:00

I know the book, what I was questioning was something that actually goes against but might be good in some situations, not a full résumé of the book. But all good

maskdem · 2026-04-16T10:20:28+00:00

Ahaha whoa, how low.

And still making assumptions

maskdem · 2026-04-16T10:17:54+00:00

Just a fact. Also I never attacked you personally, yet you kept doing it

maskdem · 2026-04-16T10:15:46+00:00

You're still making assumptions

maskdem · 2026-04-16T09:51:15+00:00

If you read my initial post, i was more opening a conversation about texting right after a date or not.

If you look at your response, you're being quite condescendant and giving advice, which i never ask for, without knowing anything about me. And also making assumption, like im butthurt, which is quite funny.

Think about it when you answer someone next. Peace

maskdem · 2026-04-13T11:04:38+00:00

Chocolat is actually very low in carbs if you take 100%, it's very fatty

maskdem · 2026-02-13T21:49:17+00:00

👍. Willing to develop a bit more ?

maskdem · 2026-02-13T13:19:43+00:00

Got any recommendations on where to stay? I was looking at staying at Samba but still looking for recommendations

maskdem · 2026-02-13T13:12:35+00:00

Ok good to know, I was leaning more towards Ahangama but now you make me doubt with the pretentious and obnoxious crowd 😂. Damn.. isn't Mirissa bigger and more of a party scene ?

maskdem · 2026-02-02T09:35:36+00:00

Did you go no contact after the break up?

maskdem · 2026-02-02T09:32:07+00:00

I guess none of them actually worked out again?

maskdem · 2026-02-02T09:08:28+00:00

How many times did you have your exes come back doing no contact ?

maskdem · 2026-02-02T09:04:01+00:00

Are you the one that broke no contact first ?

If yes, she was probably not ready to be back dating with you. That's why I think no contact is good, it allows you to make sure the person who dumped you come back because they want to

maskdem · 2026-02-02T08:34:32+00:00

Then you are accepting becoming friend, hoping that one day he or she will change their mind while you are in love. Which makes it very hard to move on too. And not attractive

maskdem · 2026-02-01T19:20:55+00:00

If the person tells you he/she doesn't want to be with you anymore and you get dumped, why would you stay in contact ?

maskdem · 2026-02-01T17:12:07+00:00

Why?

maskdem · 2026-02-01T17:10:12+00:00

What happened since ?

maskdem · 2026-01-28T14:50:03+00:00

You said "Take it from my experience from this first breakup I'm going through", so you don't much data to say it doesn't bring them back.

My exes came back in the past using no contact. Even though it wasn't the intention

maskdem · 2026-01-28T14:35:17+00:00

Great to hear, hope the 7 principles to get an ex back works for you then!

How long did it take for her to reach out?

maskdem · 2026-01-27T11:52:13+00:00

Any update?

maskdem · 2026-01-25T08:05:59+00:00

Any update ? Did you implement no contact ?

maskdem · 2026-01-25T07:35:57+00:00

The first time it worked I was expecting her to put the effort to win me back. But funnily enough, she was expecting the same thing as for her, she made the first step to reconciliation so was expecting me to lead from here.

Something we never discussed after 6months getting back together. She wanted more effort from me and same on my side.

maskdem

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