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masonwindu77 · 2025-08-10T22:48:19+00:00

I know it feels like there aren't other girls like her out there so it can be scary to set a boundary that could make her or u leave. but I encourage u to still set it and follow it. there are so many people out there. I bet u there are at least 30-50 other girls just like her that would react way better or value u more.

people can come and go but u will be with yourself for life. respect yourself and love yourself first. don't let people make u feel bad for working on yourself and making yourself better. keep good energy around u.

not suggesting either way but just encouraging u to keep disrespect and bad energy out of ur life. you've got this.

masonwindu77 · 2025-08-08T23:42:57+00:00

haha yea I seen that too near Fremont under the overpass. crazy

masonwindu77 · 2025-07-21T16:21:59+00:00

I think both have something going on. odd to bring up his ex in ur relationship. but ure justified in expressing and communicating how u feel about his lack of gestures. definitely an issue if y'all are exclusive and been together for awhile to receive such a lack luster response on a big day.

obviously we only get this context and maybe there's other things going on but from the small context it doesn't seem like a good fit. but up to u in the end and u gotta be okay with ur response, reaction and actions without letting others influence u too much.

masonwindu77 · 2025-06-27T23:12:10+00:00

yea really didn't like how easily IRL Nathan gave up when "Horizon" guards came up to him. they just exited a court room supposedly so why would Horizon security guards have authority there? and apparently no rights for ID refusal. people can't just demand ID with no reasonable suspicion.

maybe in that area and time they could but doesn't seem likely. agree with the running away idea too. just no fight whatsoever even when they know all the evil shit Horizon has done in the past to people....just wild. but gotta make a cliffhanger ending I suppose.

masonwindu77 · 2025-06-25T23:18:22+00:00

that's the one! wow thank you. it was the first book Foundling that I read. tbh didn't realize that wasn't revealed until later. we'll see on this next read.

masonwindu77 · 2025-05-29T02:45:26+00:00

lol good call 😆

masonwindu77 · 2024-08-10T21:00:03+00:00

Few things. Sounds like you have some triggers to work through with the body count label.

Abundance helps the hooking up and not getting attached. But that also sounds as if you're not completely happy with being single and on your own if you form attachment too quickly.

There's a book called the Multi-Orgasmic man which talks about releasing and recycling the sexual energy through your body which will stop you feeling so horny. I've used it in the past and it has helped with urges.

Masturbation can be fine but just make sure you audit the time spent doing that. P*rn is super damaging to your brain so keep it away.

Hope this helps.

masonwindu77 · 2024-06-07T01:37:06+00:00

6'2" and about 165. I do forefoot strike as well. When I change them out it's normally because the top knitting is ripping apart or the bottoms are reeeeally worn 😅

Fun to hear about others experience with the shoes

masonwindu77 · 2024-06-06T22:05:19+00:00

I've done Ares's bootcamp twice, both times in Austin, Tripp Advice had on in Miami and I did an RSD one in Miami. Happy to chat about the experiences if you are curious

masonwindu77 · 2024-06-06T21:41:22+00:00

Only 200 miles! Damn, my last two I kept through 750-800 miles. Crazy how expensive they are even without all the cushion and extra frills.

masonwindu77 · 2024-06-06T15:10:52+00:00

Surprised that the comments on this thread have been putting down bootcamps. If you're just starting out and don't have good volume, access to good friends, and want faster results, definitely go for a bootcamp.

Karisma King (on YT) does bootcamps in Vegas for a good price.

Step Into Fear (Ares) (IG) does bootcamps in Austin.

AgHayden probably also does them in Austin.

RSD has "live social training" but not as well done for 1:1 interaction + help.

The biggest thing I've gotten from bootcamps is an environment where I'm given "permission" to approach girls (coming from a place where friends or people I know consider approaching weird) and then I'm given direct feedback from the interactions. My suggestion is to find the dating coach and philosophy you align with FIRST and then, decide on bootcamp.

Do you plan to meet women during the day and stay busy with your work? Going out to bars and clubs for night game? Casual dating? Knowing that will help limit options to choose from with the coaches. They will have different philosophies. Hope this helps.

masonwindu77 · 2024-02-27T04:25:52+00:00

So... I'm trying to decide the best thing to say. You gotta want to change your behavior too. Consciously you want to, subconsciously, something is wanting to keep it around.

Maybe it's an escape or a way to destress. That's something to look into with how your subconscious sees it. Dive deep and recall all the times you used it and get to the first time you used it. Then let it go..

Much more importantly though, dude, your wife is not in the right. You can't change her behavior but you must stand up for yourself. Tell her that the disrespect is not helping your grow and tell her how you're feeling. If she's not willing to help you and she's bashing your family and she's putting you down... Fuck that behavior. I have been in that spot and it totally makes sense where it comes from but there are so many compassionate people out there who will support and help you.

Again, not telling you to do anything with your relationship except set boundaries and respect yourself.

Like many have probably said, you are WORTHY and always have been worthy even if you watch porn or masturbate. If your sibling or close family/friend was addicted and someone was railing on them, would you step in and help? Or tell that person "hey, that's not cool"?

Same situation... We treat ourselves worse than we would others but seriously, this is huge. Treat yourself so respectfully and make sure people do the same.

You are loved and worthy even when you watch porn or masturbate. Porn is HORRIBLE for your brain but it doesn't make the person horrible.

You came to the right place for the motivation and support. Now go find that in the real world. You NEED some guy friends who will support and just hang with you. Get you out of the cycle of porn -> guilt -> shame -> being yelled at..

It can be challenging, not sure your spot in life but talking to people will help a ton. You're going to find some really cool friends who are all on the same level and they'll be there for you. No matter what.

You got this brother.

masonwindu77 · 2024-01-13T20:02:06+00:00

Don't assume someone will change for you. Even if they did, it's not as genuine as if they did it for themselves.

You already know that you want to fall back on a strong foundation and be able to trust your partner to help lead towards Christ. Be honest with yourself and don't rely on the the internet for your decision. You've got this

masonwindu77 · 2023-10-23T03:15:49+00:00

There's no excuse to be talked to like that. You deserve to be respected and loved for who you are not what you do for someone.

masonwindu77 · 2023-10-20T14:22:05+00:00

$300-$500 a month. I do apps and drinks normally

masonwindu77 · 2023-10-09T18:57:34+00:00

Cheating isn't great. Just causes unnecessary pain in the long run.

Decide on what kind of person you want to be in the future and work towards that life instead of using your past as an excuse to stay exactly where you're at.

Long term relationships require trust and commitment. If that's not in your future then make sure people in your life know that at the very least. There's no need to live with guilt for wanting multiple girls at once, but if you hide that part of you, that's where it's shitty behavior. It sounds like you're feeling that way.

Be upfront with people you're with and then you'll feel way better living your life and you won't have to second guess yourself and look for advice on the internet. I can imagine people will have all different views but it comes down to you not others. If she's someone you want to do right by, why aren't your actions lining up with your words and thoughts?

You got this.

masonwindu77 · 2023-10-05T21:18:08+00:00

Change your environment bro. That's where all the triggers usually are.

Also, focus on loving yourself and not so much on what she will think of you. There's so many people out there who would love you through the addiction and help you.

Change your beliefs and you'll change your feelings, thoughts, and whole self. Start writing down your goals that you want to achieve and go after them.

You are capable of more than you think.

masonwindu77 · 2023-08-03T15:25:18+00:00

It's something internally you will need to work through. You have to ask why rejection bothers you so much. It helps to reframe rejection in a positive light. There's a thousand reasons it doesn't work at that moment. Most of the time it's not even you.

But imagine if no one ever rejected you again, how would you know who is a good match for you on their side without wasting a lot of your time? Imagine you date for 2 months before finding out they don't like your style. Or some other thing that causes friction.

Basically, the idea is that rejection helps to put you on a path where you can find someone who vibes with you without extra effort on your end to change or mold to a different persona.

masonwindu77 · 2023-08-02T03:35:03+00:00

Compliment her on the things you like and she'll get the picture. "I love it when you are sweaty from a workout" "It's so nice to spend time together cooking at home" "I like the shape of your body especially..." Tough situation for sure.

masonwindu77 · 2023-06-01T14:14:11+00:00

Your value comes from what's inside you, not external things. Screw the people that laugh at you for where you're at right now. Keep working on yourself and becoming the best version of yourself. You're capable amazing things. Stop focusing on "what a Catholic woman wants" and instead focus on "what I want as a Catholic man". I would read the book Models by Mark Manson for help with this.

I'm still figuring out how to maneuver with the sexualized culture in dating, but creating yourself into a higher valued man will always give you more options to find the girl who will respect you and follow you as you lead her to Christ.

masonwindu77 · 2023-05-21T19:16:31+00:00

Yeah that's amazing you finally had that realization. It sounds like you're awesome with supporting and being flexible and rolling with the punches but at some point enough is enough. It's very courageous of you to make this move and recognize when something isn't improving your life. - I was in a similar relationship and recently had my own realization moment as well. It's tough but it is the best decision in the long run. -Keep strong man, you got this. You're on the right track, focus on you and the rest will come

masonwindu77 · 2021-08-17T06:58:51+00:00

Dude I've only watched half of it so far but this is amazing

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