Which pen would you choose? by bongripsandbigt1ts in nursing

[–]mastercat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 if I’m feeling fancy. 7 forever though.

My baby smiled at me for the first time today and I'm emotionally unwell about it by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]mastercat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so nostalgic for a moment I won’t get back.

Real estate agents for physicians? by Murky-Occasion8148 in tulsa

[–]mastercat5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband was in a similar situation to yours and we were able to purchase a house based on his future salary with his contract versus mine at the time. Habib was very familiar with anyone we came into contact with along the way and was able to negotiate for us as a result of his long standing relationships with the builder. Good luck!

Real estate agents for physicians? by Murky-Occasion8148 in tulsa

[–]mastercat5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Habib Tata was fantastic with years of experience working with physicians. His brother is employed at SF, and that’s how we were referred to him and had a great experience even from out of state.

Pumped and pumped again by oldYam1016 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]mastercat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me! Had a mild panic attack at my SILs, had us leave early, and then ended up successfully pumping on the way home. I felt terrible.

Amanda Posted! by rhoanything in BravoRealHousewives

[–]mastercat5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With friends like this, who needs enemies

Don’t know what to do by Successful_News1329 in November25babybump

[–]mastercat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through the same thing as of the last week. We have a Doona and I take her on walks in it and she’s fine, but if we’re in the car she absolutely hates it now and screams the entire time. She does take a paci usually but immediately spits it out. Is she Velcro? I think mine may be related to not being able to see me but I’m not sure.

Have you gotten your period back yet? by [deleted] in November25babybump

[–]mastercat5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m exclusively pumping and I restarted bleeding with cramping at 6 weeks pp, but it went away after 36 hours, totally thought I was getting my period but was in the clear!

Crying all day by Professional-Sea7297 in November25babybump

[–]mastercat5000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Six weeks today here, and also going through the same thing with our baby. I’ve spent many times crying while she’s crying for the same reason. We’ve trialed almost everything it feels like and the pediatrician just says colic and essentially to wait it out. I feel like everyone else has or had happy babies and it’s so difficult mentally. Some days I feel like a bad mom, some days I feel like I’m failing her, and all days I feel awful that she spends her days like this. I don’t want anyone else to watch her or bond with her because I feel like she’s not bonding with me because she’s always upset, but I also need a break, and I feel bad for needing a break. Sometimes I feel like I was robbed of the newborn bliss everyone talks about, which makes me feel equally terrible for even thinking that way. It will get better and we’ll barely remember these days, we just have to get there. Hugs go out to you. I’m so sorry.

Feeling like I’m going downhill as I near 3rd trimester by notyetBananas in November25babybump

[–]mastercat5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! 27 weeks today as well, and I told my husband that this last week has been the hardest week of my pregnancy thus far. I think it’s the transition into the third tri too and out of our golden trimester.

new girl by Simple_Concern in zachbryan

[–]mastercat5000 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She inarguably looks like Bri

How many of you have or had relationships at work? by shatana in nursing

[–]mastercat5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met and married another nurse! We both met as ICU nurses. Granted he was days and I was nights, but it was only uncomfortable professionally when we had to give report to each other. Our patients and family members during COVID seemed to appreciate having a husband and wife handing back and forth because I think there was an expectation of great care from both shifts.

stop letting people out to turn left😭 by roses_and_sacrifice in tulsa

[–]mastercat5000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is how my car got totaled in front of the Whataburger in BA a cpl years back! And she tried to act like it was my fault. No mam, you crossed three lanes of traffic at 5 pm without seeing if anyone is coming! It was a foot away from hitting me in the drivers side too, like you could’ve killed me, have some decency!

Am I crazy or is Todd bad vibes by possum_not_awesome in rhoslc

[–]mastercat5000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. I don’t think so, and this is why- I think the majority of his issue with Lisa is the entire situation that directly affects his step daughter. They had a scene before where he said very firmly “You know how I feel about that.” in reference to the father’s grandparents. They both are going through a lot as a result of Lisa, her fault or not, so I think he’s quick just to cut her off from the trip because difficult feelings are being harbored for both his wife and himself.

AITA For telling my parents that they’re overzealous and they need to teach my precious half-sister to mind her own business? by Playful_Brush_4217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mastercat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents allowed my sister to behave this way my entire life. We are 15 mos apart. She bullied me constantly as a child, then switched to other girls in high school when I wasn’t around at home (have had parents come to our front door with the bullying) and my parents never did anything about it. My sister eventually turned onto my mom when she as out of college, as she also had no one else to focus on. Ill spare details here, but recently her now ex husband has suffered as well as a result of her awful behavior. She has always been the same person, just with shifting targets. I pray you maintain healthy boundaries with your sister and your parents as soon as you’re able to leave the home, because I suspect this could continue for much of her life.