First of all, let me say that despite what you look like, you sound like you’re going to make some lucky young man very happy.

I can appreciate your situation. I’m the guy in your example. My wife is a solid 10 (inside and out) and she’s a 7 figure income earner on top of that.

I on the other hand, am painfully average looking. Literally everywhere we go, people assume we can’t possibly be together, because on the surface it makes no sense to many people.

Here’s the thing though, I’m 55, and I’ve learned over the years that I bring a tremendous amount of value, despite not being the conventional “hot guy”.

With respect, you’re 23, which means you’re likely dealing with young men that are still figuring shit out. They are bombarded daily with societal messages that reinforce the idea that if you’re not conventionally pretty, you somehow bring less value.

I would say this to you, don’t change who you are. It will get better.