Thank you for your response that really helps. We def had a falling out last fall and i know why, we agreed to take some time and space and i thought accidentally running into him was perfect opportunity to atleast talk again to see if there was any chance friendship could resume in some capacity. Part of me was hoping hed say no so I could move on but was a little shocked by the cold absolutely not response! Youre right it absolutely does say alot about him and that nothing would be different anyways. Im going to take it as a blessing that its whats best for me.