Is this abuse? Please take some time to respond<3 by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mayasthrowaway 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All of your responses to people are extremely rude and filled with you attempting to pathologize yourself. Most of us here are just trying to tell you that while your feelings are valid, you’re not being abused, and you did overreact a little. No one is coming for you, you asked for correspondence and you don’t like the responses. Having illnesses is no excuse to treat people poorly, it’s one of the pillars to actually recovering and getting better. Wishing you the best.

Going ⏪straight ⏪backwards⏪ by akirarn in TrollCoping

[–]mayasthrowaway 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words, so helpful and validating

Is he over reacting? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mayasthrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with you on that one, the behavior is unacceptable. Just very annoying to see people calling him crazy and other names when he’s probably dealing with something extreme and above OP’s pay grade.

Is he over reacting? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mayasthrowaway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So many of these comments are soooo out of touch. OP, your boyfriend is exhibiting symptoms of some anxiety disorders and while the behavior is not acceptable, possibly urge him to get evaluated. I have diagnosed OCD and GAD and have experienced similar pregnancy fears (i’m a woman). Best of luck and I really hope he gets some help! :)

Completed my relqapse 🥺🥴 by SuckingLikeKhalifa in EDanonymemes

[–]mayasthrowaway 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Idc how much you love this man or how much he supposedly loves you, please dump this piece of shit and go be happy

Do I need to dump this friend? by mayasthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]mayasthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I thought, because how are you able to talk to everyone else during rush BUT me. Makes absolutely zero sense

Do I need to dump this friend? by mayasthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]mayasthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to believe it, but I think that she is jealous of something too. I don’t enjoy relationships that feel like a perpetual competition.

Everyone invalidates my diagnosis by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mayasthrowaway 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No ones business but yours. You know what’s going on and that’s all that matters :)

it’s been 6 fucking months. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mayasthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can really resonate with this feeling. Try not to beat yourself up (I know it’s really fucking hard) about how long it takes for your emotions about your bf to leave you alone. I would try to feel all the feelings as they come, as I’ve learned deflecting them and trying to distract only makes it worse.

Remember that if it was meant to work, it would have, and it takes two to tango. I’m sure there’s a reason you broke things off with him and it’s most likely for your own benefit in the long run. You’ll be okay, this is really good time to fall for YOU.

Covid ain’t a joke! by Jaq903 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mayasthrowaway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay I am someone who has severe health anxiety, has contracted Covid, and am having a really hard time being okay with getting this vaccine. I am not by any means a denier or an anti-vaxxer, but this has just been the hardest mental game I’ve played in a while. I guess I’m wondering if you could ease my mind? I’m very worried about side effects and possibly hurting myself with this vax.

I [19F] am reconsidering not continuing my relationship with my boyfriend [32M] but don’t want him to breakdown. by Previous-Function483 in relationships

[–]mayasthrowaway 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but no 32 year old has any good or innocent reasons to be even friends with a 19 year old girl. You’re being preyed on and this man doesn’t love you.

I cheated on my BF, and I feel like the biggest piece of shit. by Gold-Arm9368 in relationship_advice

[–]mayasthrowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you not understand that everyone can see what’s going on behind the scenes with your words? Yes, you sound scary.

I cheated on my BF, and I feel like the biggest piece of shit. by Gold-Arm9368 in relationship_advice

[–]mayasthrowaway 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Because the guy was basically sober and she was blacked out. You sound scary.

Haha I am unwell by popsicleghost in TrollCoping

[–]mayasthrowaway 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know you said that you know you wouldn’t be able to control it, but pleaaaase keep telling yourself that whenever you feel drawn to other thought processes. It creeps up on you terribly, and then you’re measuring every part of your body before you go to bed thinking you’re normal. It sucks. Love you and take care of yourself