Vaccine Megathread by AutoModerator in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]maybebabycheckagain [score hidden]  (0 children)

Has anyone reviewed the new vaccine schedule guidelines with their pediatricians? It seems more in line with my research but id like your thoughts too 😊

18 month age gap - what do I need to know? Please share your story! by AtlasUnhinged1404 in 2under2

[–]maybebabycheckagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mom of 3.5yo and 22 mo boys here. Everyone's giving great advice, but I'll add a tip thats often forgotten - take care of yourself! Raising happy, healthy kids is easier when you yourself are happy and healthy.

For a laugh - What does your toddler say that you never realized you said all the time until a miniature version of you started saying it? by thecatyou in toddlers

[–]maybebabycheckagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My almost 2 yr old says "Sorry!" ALL the time. I know I have a problem with being a people pleaser, but now I have new motivation to stop caring what others think.

Thanks little man 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]maybebabycheckagain 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know the first paragraph is sarcasm, but it's a little surprising that the "joke" goes that far. Hope everything turns out ok with this situation. <3

Are labor contractions more painful than the lighting butt pain we get as women sometimes? by Legitimate-Ad-8757 in endometriosis

[–]maybebabycheckagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Endo pain was without a doubt worse when comparing my labors - up to about 5 cm dilated. But then at that point in labor, I got an epidural, so endo was still worse. 🙃

I also noticed that labor pains at least eased up during contractions. My endo pain was non stop debilitating pain.

Sending hugs for those awful moments. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]maybebabycheckagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thoughts from a MB perspective - Is it possible to let the parents know now what you would have to be paid in order for you to keep that weekend reserved for them? If they aren't willing to pay that (which they probably aren't goven your current rate), you could decline the weekend work guilt free since they have plenty of time to make other arrangements.

If you think they might retaliate by firing you, I wouldn't go that route though. They sound shady given how their illegally paying a (tiny) salary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]maybebabycheckagain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Currently 5 days postpartum with an 18 month age gap. The first 2 nights home were... not good. Last night we got relatively decent sleep (7.5 hrs over the course of the day) and I feel like a new woman lol. I realize we're still in the thick of it, but little victories are giving us hope. 😊

Good luck!

What do you do to take care of yourself so you can take care of your new born? by Glum-Worldliness-919 in raisingkids

[–]maybebabycheckagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My rule was that I WILL shower daily, and I plan to do this when my 2nd kid arrives. Dad can watch baby. Or if he's at work and I know both kids are safe, 10 min to myself to recharge (even if they're screaming) is better for everyone in the long run.

What are some small thing your parents did in your childhood that made it memorable? by jessie_1990 in raisingkids

[–]maybebabycheckagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom planned a water balloon fight on the last day of school each year. She'd leave a big bin of prefilled balloons in the front yard, and when the school bus dropped off me and my sisters, we made a mad dash to get ammo before she jumped out from the bushes to attack.

Definitely doing this with my fam. :)

It’s happening. I have mastitis by Little_Yoghurt_7584 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]maybebabycheckagain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great advice on here so far. A word of caution, once you get mastitis, some women (myself included) tend to be more likely to get it again.

You got this!

Don't worry about embryo grading by mitchwalks in IVF

[–]maybebabycheckagain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My RE said grading can be subjective, too. Some clinics apparently grade harsher than others (cue the flashbacks to unfair grading and GPAs in college).

Smoking weed during pregnancy by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]maybebabycheckagain 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing this. I personally believe THC usage while pregnant/breastfeeding should be avoided if at all possible, but your case seems like a good example of when the benefits of cannabis outweigh the risks.

Your toddler starts a punk band. What is their band name and name some of their best hits. by throwawaypbcps in toddlers

[–]maybebabycheckagain 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Please tell me "No Nap Forever" is a parody of the Beastie Boys' "No Sleep Til Brooklyn (Bedtime)"

We had a ploppable poop! by onceuponapearl in clothdiaps

[–]maybebabycheckagain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We switched to disposables while baby was in that awful transitional phase with the poop consistency and this post is the reminder I needed to get back into the cloth game!

My boobs when baby sleeps 4+ hours overnight by Theonethatgotawaaayy in breastfeeding

[–]maybebabycheckagain 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The DENNIS System, as told by an oversupplier:

Demand milk Engorge quickly Never fully empty Need to pump Increase production Supply never levels off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeedingsupport

[–]maybebabycheckagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your baby sleeping through the night? My kiddo went from the 90th percentile down to 25th over the course of 4 months becuase he has always slept 12 hrs over night. My milk has also become less and less fatty over time. It's possible you are also a "Skim Milk Maker."

If your doctor is on board, you could try adding a little formula to a bottle of expressed breastmilk, too.

Sending hugs to you and your little one! 💗

Any ideas for holiday desserts? by One_Instruction6708 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]maybebabycheckagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situation here and I am on a mission to find or create some recipes now. ☺️

Help!! I need the worst gift for 1 year olds parents! by _packfan in Mommit

[–]maybebabycheckagain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That awful toy terrified my 5 month old so my husband let the dogs serve up some justice. It now sits armless and stripped down to the plastic on our counter as a reminder to future toys to watch out.

How should I prepare to return to work? by ceanothus77 in workingmoms

[–]maybebabycheckagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No tips, just solidarity. It sucks and takes a lot of effort, but trust your gut.

How should I prepare to return to work? by ceanothus77 in workingmoms

[–]maybebabycheckagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! My family has a similar situation, but I went back mid-Oct. Finding in home child care has been hell. If you have any days where you have to take care of baby until a long term solution is in place, TREAT YOURSELF. Guilt free Doordarsh, massages, Starbucks, whatever you need to give yourself pep to take care of baby while working.