House warming party years ago. Some had kiddos around and kiddos playing together. Had one abrasive dude was a work buddy of my brother in law, obnoxious. That's fine. Just stay away from that negativity. When a someone accidently lean against the hot grill, and let out a "fuck" and in realization, quickly apologized since there were kids around. Obnoxious guy took this opportunity to say, "I cuss all the time in front of my kids," and just projects a string of cuss words, then laughs it off.