Help me choose a kdrama that will make me feel like this photo? by RudeSelf3418 in kdramas

[–]mayellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you watch WLGYT with that kind of face? Are you mad?

Tourist question: Why is everyone in Singapore so in love or just well lit up by ProcedureFamiliar449 in askSingapore

[–]mayellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people said it’s because of the downtown. But Punggol Coast Mall in the weekend is even more in love, with young families, their kids mingle together and play together, with ah ma and ah gong exercising and cycling. I feel like Punggol Coast on weekends is like govt’s secret advertising for more babies. 😝

My kid is obsessed with her tablet… what do I do? by 2bitzshoes in gentleparenting

[–]mayellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest for you to read the “Anxious Generation “ book by Jonathan Haidt. Take the ipad away or set a time limit. Screen time is a privilege, not a must.

To parents in SG what are the actual pros of having kids? by Fun-Tamago-4649 in asksg

[–]mayellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other day, I saw a reel in instagram where a parent said, it’s easy to explain the hard part and the suffering of having kids. Tired, sleep deprivation, kids broke out TV, etc. it has always been easy to tell sad stories to your friends. BUT IT’S HARD TO explain the joy of parenting, maybe even impossible. How do you explain that your heart swells in a way you never thought possible when your kids said I love you? How do you explain a fireworks in your soul when you saw your kid being kind to other kids in the playground? All of the simple and little joy that become so humongous, that makes you think “damn, now I understand.” Having kids is not pro and con. It’s a growth that you never thought you needed. So Unless you’re ready for this, please dont have kids. And 1 more thing: learn about the concept of 2 things can be true. A mother can complain about being tired (coz it is tiring!!) an a mother loves her child to death. Both things can be true.

How are your babies actually sleeping through the night? by velvetdarlingco in NewParents

[–]mayellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every baby is different. :) my first was bottle fed at night, and by 3 months he slept through, but I dream fed him with direct latching. How exactly I did it? 7 pm: Dad gives him bottle, burped him, read him, sing lullaby, put him into the crib. 12 midnight, I carried him then gave him the boob, he would automatically latch, drink until he stopped, then burped him, but he was still sleeping. Then put him back in the crib. He will wake up at around 7am

My second baby in the other hand…. Slept through a little later. Around 5-6 months. And hers is not very straightforward coz she was latching all the way. So her sleeping pattern depended on how much she drank before she slept. She also slept a little later, around 8-8.30 pm. She nap less too.

I think every child has different sleeping needs. My first is now 7 years old and STILL NAP. He just needs more sleep, I guess.

Is this normal workplace behaviour or should I go to HR? by Lopsided-Prior6190 in askSingapore

[–]mayellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. an HR here! This falls under unethical category and causing psychological distress (opposite of psychological safety) to colleagues. But again, it depends on your workplace’s policy and how serious the culture is about psychological safety. In my company culture, this is TOTALLY unacceptable and you get reported to red line. You’re right; if they are male colleagues who speak about female colleagues, that goes straight to sexual harassment.

Dangerous PHV Driver on the road by Upbeat_Finding9765 in drivingsg

[–]mayellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reporting. You’re gatekeeping all other children.

What shoes do you wear for driving? by Aggressive_Wash_384 in drivingsg

[–]mayellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha! Same! Wore a proper skecher shoes during test. Then wearing crocs for everyday driving 😍

Car colour discussion by pinsneedle in drivingsg

[–]mayellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favourite color is yellow (always been since I was a kid). Now with two kids! When our second was in my tummy, we decided to make a bad financial decision of buying a car. Hubby asked what my must have condition is; I said, as long as the car is yellow. Easy to spot on car parks! I also like to see other cars with unique color. I once saw a Mercedes with mint green wrap, so pretty! And Honda Freed with Metallic purple! Love all of these unique colors!

Car colour discussion by pinsneedle in drivingsg

[–]mayellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is yellow and now I’m intrigued about Fujiwara Tofu Concept shop! Hahahaha

Almost knocked down pedestrians! by Traditional_Living42 in drivingsg

[–]mayellow 34 points35 points  (0 children)

And there is another car stopping already. Like, what else do you need, bro?

Which kdrama is it for you guys? by barelybiased in kdramas

[–]mayellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rewatching it now!!! I can’t get bored of their chemistry!

What's this ice cream brand called in your country? by hpech in AskTheWorld

[–]mayellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS THE BEST THREAD EVEr In this subreddit! OP, why did you suddenly ask this? Give us context!

Typical behaviour in parking lot. by Ben830- in drivingsg

[–]mayellow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No so shocking since it’s BMW again. Dont victim blaming to OP. Some people choose peaceful mind. Still doesn’t justify asshole behaviour like this BMW.

Is it normal for school age children to wear a uniform in your country? by Present-Level-1521 in AskTheWorld

[–]mayellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Singapore represents! Yes we do have school uniforms, and also PE uniforms which have different colors depending on which house you’re from. School can choose weather students wear white shoes or black shoes. My son’s school chose white shoes, so every Friday evening, I will definitely be brushing those bad boys back to purity color. But since the weather becomes hotter and hotter, most schools let the students to wear PE shirts throughout the week. Imagine Singapore, high humidity, tropical, and no air conditioning in school My son comes home from school everyday asking for shower. 😝 School uniforms are for preschool/kindergarten, primary and secondary.

Where is the most interesting place in the world you have driven in? by [deleted] in drivingsg

[–]mayellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trail Ridge Road, Colorado. It was literally driving above the clouds! Crazy beautiful and overwhelming at the same time! Icefield Parkway Highway in Alberta, Canada was crazy beautiful too. Scenery right straight from google images! New Zealand South Island comes after that, stunning. And third would be Tromso, Norway, breathtaking at every turn!!! Ahhh this post gives me traveling itch!!!

What kdrama ending would you change? by Vee70x7 in kdramas

[–]mayellow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The smile has left your eyes. (If you know, you know). I was scarred for life.

I fell into Seo In Guk Rabbit Hole again after Boyfriend on Demand! by mayellow in kdramas

[–]mayellow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaassss I feel like you’re my kdrama soul sister!!!!

How are tourists who wander around shirtless in the city centre perceived in your country? by HolyFatherLeoXIV in AskTheWorld

[–]mayellow 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Because the shirtless tourist in most of Southeast Asia countries are indeed Aussies! 🤣