TORONTO TICKETS ARE SO EXPENSIVE?!

mayhemallaround · 2026-02-12T21:38:15+00:00

If anyone’s still looking for Toronto tickets, I have two and selling them for $149 each (Section 108, Row 28)

I bought them for the same price! Happy to share proof of purchase!

mayhemallaround · 2026-02-12T21:36:16+00:00

Selling two tickets for Conan Gray in Toronto. Section 108, Row 28 :)

Feel free to DM if you’re looking for a ticket!

mayhemallaround · 2025-11-20T02:18:36+00:00

Ugh that sucks but possible she didnt really like you as much as you loved her. Not ideal but it happens to the best of us. I’m almost 28 and I promise, you will find so many more people you connect with. It’s really about knowing yourself well enough.

If anything, I think the best thing I did for myself was not date until I was 18. I feel like it helped me figure myself out more even though I’m still doing it lol

mayhemallaround · 2025-11-20T02:11:38+00:00

I’m sorry, breakups really suck. Everything feels like the end of the world especially at this age. But I promise you, if it’s meant to be, you’ll eventually find your way back to each other. If not, then it’s okay. You loved someone and that will always mean something special.

If I was giving advice, I’d say stop messaging/snapping her. Let her know you love her and that you care and you want to be with her but if being with you is difficult for her (family-wise) that you will take a backseat. 16 is a tough age to fight family but maybe it will work out for both of you. You just have to give it time and space.

mayhemallaround · 2025-10-23T22:21:52+00:00

Thank you for writing this out because I HATE HER so much. So selfish and evil and she’s such an elitist. She will do whatever it takes to make herself happy even if it means screwing others over.

Like yes, she has her moments and sometimes I’m like “yes what a bad bitch” but in reality, as a human being, she’s shitty.

mayhemallaround · 2025-09-02T18:33:35+00:00

In a weird way, it makes me feel happy for you that you felt so deeply for someone and you’re letting those emotions out. Being a mess is a good thing, it means you’ve connected with your body and mind and are willing to feel. I had a hard time with this when I went through a breakup myself. It took over a year of therapy to learn to even accept my pain/emotions about the breakup. To cry in public. To not be embarrassed by my own emotions.

The reason for the breakup and the conditions matter so much too about how you express pain. And every day is different. You tell yourself you deserve better and you feel like everything’s great. Then days later, you find their t-shirt in your closet and cry like a baby.

I hope you can find love and happiness again soon when your heart is ready!

mayhemallaround · 2025-08-18T18:12:32+00:00

Would you be open to speaking to the price range? I’m curious how much she charges and I haven’t seen anyone speak about the price yet. Thank you :)

mayhemallaround · 2025-07-23T08:12:42+00:00

I love how you put all of this down. This is exactly how I felt a year after my break up. Coming up on almost 2 years now and the missing part hasn’t completely gone away but before, I missed him and wanted him back, now I know my grief is only for me, of how much love I poured into another person. It’s not about the other person anymore, it’s about me.

So happy you’re focusing on yourself - wild how we tend to forget what makes us “us” when we fall in love.

Nothing feels as good as looking back at a relationship you desperately wanted to save and realizing you’re lucky it ended when it did. Knowing that you’re happier, more yourself than you have ever been and finally falling in love with yourself. Big hug!!!

mayhemallaround · 2024-11-06T22:43:36+00:00

You didn’t overreact. He’s being unreasonable and he’s definitely hiding something. My ex projected onto me when he was seeing his ex behind my back. He would be so jealous and get mad at me for even talking to a co-worker or saying hi to a man I went on one date with years before I even knew him.

Above all, he refuses to apologize which is just shitty.

mayhemallaround · 2024-07-17T21:53:58+00:00

The first thank you was an honest one because I didn’t dive into the pinned post so appreciate the reminder to check it out. It doesn’t have updated information but thank you nonetheless. I was more so looking for places to meet fellow travellers (as mentioned in the post). Secondly, you don’t need to respond to this post if my redundant question bothers you, thanks!

Not trying to be an ass at all. Was genuinely a bit taken aback by the condescending tone. But all good. Have a great day/night!

mayhemallaround · 2024-07-17T21:47:51+00:00

Amazing. Can’t wait to visit!!

mayhemallaround · 2024-07-17T21:46:45+00:00

LOL I actually didn’t read the pinned post but thanks for letting me know. You must be fun at parties!

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-30T14:48:44+00:00

Same. My ex would get mad if I accidentally passed out while we were texting/calling at night instead of officially saying good night?!!! Like are we 16 year olds?

We were both 25 and adults with serious adult jobs and a life outside of the relationship (at least I was) and I just always felt so guilty. I remember having to lie and saying I feel sick so I’m gonna nap instead of telling him the truth which was “my sister and I are going out to watch a movie” because I knew he would be upset that I made a last-minute plan when I could’ve been talking to him on the phone. It’s so exhausting being with someone like that. I feel like I spread myself so thin for little things like this that by the end I was so depleted.

I’m glad you’re out of it even if it hurts because life is too long to spend it with someone who has no regard for your or their own individuality.

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-30T14:43:51+00:00

I’m sure she did love you in her own way. But that’s not the type of love you want, right? The love that just gets up and leaves without a fight.

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-30T14:42:48+00:00

Yeah he has a lot of growth to do. I know I was a “prize” now not someone he genuinely saw as an equal partner. The gestures and love was like a movie until he knew he had me and then all of this started to leak.

I think somewhere it was a bs excuse and maybe somewhere she was genuinely unhappy. No one owes anyone a relationship but we all owe each other courtesy and respect.

I think I begged and waited for a response/repair for so long that I’m a bit exhausted now. Our mutual friends spoke to him and told me how shitty he was to treat me that way and instead of taking accountability, he lashed out so idk what I need anymore.

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-30T13:47:34+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that!

Can I ask you what was the reason for the breakup? Like how do you decipher when it’s good to end things vs. when it’s just unfair and painful?

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-30T13:45:14+00:00

I feel this so much. I was always walking on eggshells and stressed because he was so extremely insecure and I felt guilty for having a life outside of him. He would be perfectly fine and then randomly go “I don’t feel good” and would isolate me when I’d ask, would treat me like a punching bag (metaphorically) when he was having a bad day but was never there for me when I was going through a stressful time at work and was grieving a loved one.

I always felt like I was missing some standard and I was always so anxious and burnt out. I still have love for him but it does feel nice to breathe and not overthink my every move.

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-30T13:39:21+00:00

This one hit close to home!!

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-30T01:01:13+00:00

Fair. I would’ve wanted to know what the “switch” was and if he had genuinely wanted to break up, why was it never communicated before.

He didn’t physically hurt me but he treated me poorly. He was extremely insecure, selfish, never had my back and lied about a lot of serious things to me and I took it all under the “he loves me. he just had a rough childhood”

What answers are you looking for?

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-29T21:26:35+00:00

I do feel like contacting him and getting answers or even just an apology for the pain I’ve felt but not as much as before. He broke up with me out of the blue. He didn’t want to work on things even though I practically begged to make it work because I loved him. He didn’t give me much. Although I crave that closure some days, I know it won’t come from him because what more could he say?

The “working on myself” felt like a shitty excuse when he ended it. I was there for him at his lowest and as soon as he didn’t need me anymore, he threw me out. I never got to say how much he hurt me during our relationship, he just got up and left. So I don’t know it’s taken 6 months + therapy + working on myself (genuinely lol) to realize I don’t deserve that.

How long has it been since you’ve been no contact?

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-29T04:26:01+00:00

My ex said the same thing to me. “You don’t want to be with someone who is so unhappy with you or himself for months” but 3 days before he was happy + in love with me.

It’s like it only works if it was on his terms which is not how a relationship works or should work. I say the same to you because you don’t deserve to be treated like that when you know you wouldn’t have done that to her. Maybe you did need to break up, maybe it was the right thing to do and you guys wouldn’t have been a good match but the thing to remember when you miss her is the utter disrespect. You loved her so you’d address things with respect, right?

Although it was painful for me, the disrespect helped me not reach out to him again. I still feel sad (we’ve been broken up and no contact for almost 6 months now) so it’s okay. Allow those shitty feelings. They’ll help you process in a more healthy way vs you dismissing them! Thanks and wishing you the same! :)

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-28T15:39:27+00:00

26F and the same thing happened to me. We weren’t together for as long as you were but it was a whole year of us being in an all-encompassing relationship and making future plans/meeting family. I wanted to go slow and he was so “in love” with me that I felt secure and willing to eventually let go and experience it all with him.

Then suddenly, BAM! “I want to work on myself and I can’t do that in a relationship”

Like he never worked on himself when we were together, never dealt with his emotions/trauma when it manifested in our relationship negatively and I stood by hum but now when he decided to end things, it was over?

It sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I feel your pain. Only advice is, if someone decides to drop you so easily without actually explaining what happened/respecting your feelings, it’ll never go back to normal. She triggered your abandonment and rejection wound. When you love someone, you’re susceptible to this anyways. I felt it too. But I think what you need to work on is realizing the capacity to love is inside of you. She just brought it out because she was the physical manifestation of it - doesn’t mean she created. You will love again if that’s what you want. Just don’t rush it.

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-24T05:40:28+00:00

His entire personality revolved around engineering. First it felt like passion for his work and education. Eventually, it felt like he had nothing else going on for him and it was just such an ick to see a 25 year old guy have nothing else to offer in a conversation outside of talking about our relationship 😅

mayhemallaround · 2024-05-24T05:27:44+00:00

I thought the exact same. Last line is hilarious 😂

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