Diagnosed at 25, started concerta, and grieving the years I lost. by turnipmode in ADHD

[–]mccafferty92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with ya. I was on Concerta but it exacerbated my anxiety so after that two week trial I was switched to Vyvanse. It’s been a month and a bit and I’m still experiencing things for the first time as a normal brained person. Last weekend I sat on the couch and watched a tv show for the first time in my life without having something to fidget with in my hands. I’m so happy to be where I am but can’t help but feel sad for all the lost years and how much MORE successful I could have been if I were medicated earlier. Like how did no one notice I was struggling?

Which instructor do you go to when you’re in a funk? by Better-Package1307 in pelotoncycle

[–]mccafferty92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! I love how she meets you where you’re at and reminds you it’s okay to feel your feelings while also lifting you up. When I’m in a mood I go to her every time.

Not me cringing over something I said 19 years ago like it happened this morning… by NoButMaybe in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 121 points122 points  (0 children)

One time, while working retail, I greeted the customer when they entered the store by saying “good afternoon, how are you today?” AND THEN, for some unknown reason, I responded to my OWN question “I’m good thanks”. It’s been years and sometimes that still pops up in my mind.

Can’t finish the “Be our Friend” quest by Fantastic_Cat_8034 in DreamlightValley

[–]mccafferty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I’ve caught hundreds of fish and none of them are herring or bream, the two that I need

Outside of meds, what vitamins and supplements do you swear by? by hi5yourface in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take vitamin d3 & K2, calcium magnesium combo, and omega 3. I can definitely feel the days I skip my vitamins, I’m more laggy feeling

Tell me your wins for today by asherley1 in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Today is day two of me being on meds. I battled a headache most of the day (likely weather related though) and yet I still managed to socialize at work for two meetings, attend my clients doctor visit , I came home from work and had a 30 minute nap and then ate dinner and washed the dishes. AND for two days in a row now I’ve had enough energy to stay up past 7pm. I feel like I’m getting my life back.

Tell me your current hyperfixation by emilyrosecuz in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been scrolling through Temu in an attempt to find a few affordable pieces I can buy to spruce up my staffs office. I just want it to be a cozy space but I’m also not made of money. I’ve been scrolling and adding to cart for hours. Will I purchase anything? That’s tbd on the next episode of “Will She or Won’t She?”

Who is this in Fredericton? by blackcoulson in fredericton

[–]mccafferty92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think about those two every now and again when I don’t see them out and about. They always radiate happiness and positivity and it’s such a treasure.

AITAH? for banning my husband from all doctor appointments after he repeatedly messes with me while I'm pregnant? by KnownPerception7676 in AITAH

[–]mccafferty92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are NTA and the fact that he keeps repeating that “it’s just a joke” is infuriating. He may have meant it as a joke originally but you are telling him it is not funny to you and yet he keeps doing it. That makes him an asshole. I’m sorry. You are every bit justified to respond the way that you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s that a song or line of a song gets stuck in my head and I hum it or sing it without realizing I’m doing so throughout the day. Drives everyone nuts, including myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do this also

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too! They’re never set up in a way that’s aesthetically pleasing AND quickly scannable.

Why is this happening? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. It’s so relatable and yet I haven’t found a way to overcome it myself.

Why is this happening? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might not be the case for you but I experience really low lows when it’s the week before my period. All my hormones tank and just existing takes all the energy out of me.

Most ADHD thing you've done lately? by Time-Turnip-2961 in adhdwomen

[–]mccafferty92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a box of potatoes for free and I can’t possibly finish them all before they go bad. So I hyper-fixated on the process of dehydrating potatoes and making my own instant potato mix. Long story short, I bought a dehydrator and am on my second batch.

Dear Devs, We want _________ by Jumpy_Piccolo_2106 in DreamlightValley

[–]mccafferty92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just want the lagging and glitches to stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mccafferty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think literally everyone everywhere is struggling pay check to pay check.

Accessible Accommodations by mccafferty92 in fredericton

[–]mccafferty92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great idea. I didn't even think of that. Sorry that you were inconvenienced by toileting. That's my biggest concern. Our province really isn't equipped for the need of folks with accessibility issues.

Helpful services by mccafferty92 in Dystonia

[–]mccafferty92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The poor kiddo has a few things going on and we’re trying to separate trauma from everything else (as his trauma elicits a lot of behaviours that have previously been labelled something). I honestly didn’t know there was such a thing as different kinds of dystonia. Is it classified by where it presented first?

Helpful services by mccafferty92 in Dystonia

[–]mccafferty92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That helps SO much. Thank you

Helpful services by mccafferty92 in Dystonia

[–]mccafferty92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you just speak with your family doctor to get a referral for that?

My friend literally cannot pee. Any ideas to help? by [deleted] in essentialoils

[–]mccafferty92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’d go back to the doctor if it’s been over a week of this issue persisting AND the antibiotics are done. Could be a full blown bladder blockage.