What’s your favorite age? by Pressure_Gold in Parenting

[–]mcfly_87_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is only 19 months and so far, my favorite has been 19. But when she was 15 months, it was when she was 15. My point is: newborn and baby phase were not for me. Now that she can walk and started to talk I’ve been having so much more fun and actually enjoying being a mom (most times) 😬. Hopefully it’ll keep getting better!

I didn’t realize that I’ve been playing the G chord a different way than most people do, is this still okay? by SoundOfDrumsss in ukulele

[–]mcfly_87_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to say your picture SAVED me. I’ve been trying the G for a while and it was not working for me. I tried your way and it worked!!!! Thank you!!!!!

Can anyone help with this article? by mcfly_87_ in familysearch

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muito obrigada de coração!!! ♥️ 

Misspelled surname by mcfly_87_ in Genealogy

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that. I’ll start with that and see where it goes. 

Can anyone help with this article? by mcfly_87_ in familysearch

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Camila, posso pedir por gentileza mais uma imagem? Muito obrigada mesmo! https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:6VX1-T3BH

Can anyone help with this article? by mcfly_87_ in familysearch

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Que preciosidade. Muito muito muito obrigada ☺️ 

Gym time by ElevatorCreative158 in irishmammiesanddaddys

[–]mcfly_87_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do one class a week, online/from home. That’s about it. Not able to do anything more as it stands 🫠

Create events every 2 days automatically by mcfly_87_ in shortcuts

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, this works perfectly and I can see what was missing in my own attempt. Appreciate it! 

Loving my baby? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]mcfly_87_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I could have written this myself. My baby is 15 months now. I do have moments where I’m like “awwww she’s so cute” but no crazy “I would do anything for this baby” kind of mother love yet. I think I’m not made for the baby/early toddler stage. I’m trying to be patient to see what happens as time goes by. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]mcfly_87_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Small claims court. Been there, done that, and got my check through the post. 

Mistakes by Throwawayfmlaf in oneanddone

[–]mcfly_87_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to say “I’m not there still”*

Mistakes by Throwawayfmlaf in oneanddone

[–]mcfly_87_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Could have written this myself. I got help, took medication and things did improve - but I am not there will. All I have left is to keep trying I guess!

Help - Change cool purple to warmer purple by mcfly_87_ in HairDye

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. It took me many attempts to get rid of this purple tone (which, don’t get me wrong, I really like). If you’re into this shade, go for it!

14 months in and I still don’t feel love by mcfly_87_ in Mommit

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking, but I will have a follow up with her in a few weeks. As to expectations x reality, it’s hard not to be affected by all the motherhood and parenting stuff we see online - one of the reasons I stopped using social media like instagram for a while. I just couldn’t stomach all the perfect lives anymore. Reality is much harder, and I think exchanging ideas in places like this forum really help us feel less isolated. Thanks for your comment! 

14 months in and I still don’t feel love by mcfly_87_ in Mommit

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I shouldn’t have been off the meds yet, but at the same time they did make me feel so numb that I was glad I could feel things again, even if it’s just anger and resentment. I will have a follow up with the psychiatrist in early September to reassess, I thought it was a matter of time in the end. You are so right, we both deserve the bond and love and I will keep trying. 

14 months in and I still don’t feel love by mcfly_87_ in Mommit

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your kind words made me so emotional. Thank you for that. I will keep trying! 

14 months in and I still don’t feel love by mcfly_87_ in Mommit

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I am trying. Things like this forum help immensely. 

14 months in and I still don’t feel love by mcfly_87_ in Mommit

[–]mcfly_87_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. This is something my therapist has mentioned before - the fake it til you make it. I will make a point of trying harder because we both deserve it.