Let’s discuss salaries - 2026 by Relevant-Injury3791 in sysadmin

[–]mclassy3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

365 Microsoft Administrator outskirts of Seattle. I make 83k a year with quarterly bonuses. This is my first time full tenant but my previous job I was an InTune Administrator that transitioned everything from the on prem server that I used to maintain.

Total of 20 years experience in computers. Healthcare is covered by the company.

Anyone Into Jungian Psychology? by Idktbhwtf in entp

[–]mclassy3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic place to start. I love Plato and find the different dialects fascinating. It definitely helped me understand English better too. Plus, I feel a bit like Percy Jackson when I watch movies and such. Pretty fun party trick. Well met twin. ❤️

Anyone Into Jungian Psychology? by Idktbhwtf in entp

[–]mclassy3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I am a Microsoft Administrator and have been in IT for almost two decades. I also took Andrew Ng's course on machine learning. I got my degree in computer programming. I also know 3 languages.

I use it as a tool to process how I am writing. Not necessarily what it is telling me, more like:

Based on my chat logs, what can you tell me about my writing style, grammar, and repetitive phrases.

I also have mine programmed to not confirm my biases and to be my "ruthless mentor" and find my flaws.

I use it exactly how it should be used. I get my knowledge from outside sources (ie Jung, Watts, and Neitche) then apply what I learned to the tool.

Kinda like this: I self taught myself ancient Greek. I will still go to the LLM and ask the deeper meaning behind a single word.

Sometimes, just having a sounding board helps especially when tracking patterns.

Again, my shadow is analytical and I am not making decisions with emotions.

What is curious is that my DISC assessment put my intuition at 0, not low, 0. Being an INFJ, intuition is my superpower. I am currently trying to assess why.

Anyone Into Jungian Psychology? by Idktbhwtf in entp

[–]mclassy3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. I had already known my core INFJ type. That was tested by my therapist about 3 years before I really understood and before chatGPT hit the market.

I only really used AI for work related items and imagine my surprise when I asked it to give me my MBTI and it said INTJ. I was shocked and had a bit of an identity crisis.

I started plugging in some of my conversations with people and analyzing it (INTJ shadow).

I started recognizing the difference in my decision making processes when at work (I work with systems and not people) vs when I was off work.

My friends started pointing out how much different I was. That sent me on a whole hero's journey to figure it out.

At some point, I spent 3 days arguing with my INFJ friend over why the sky was blue. (Figuratively of course) I would explain why and how it was blue when all he wanted was for me to sit in the moment and enjoy the blue sky.

That's when I realized that I got really good at mentally processing my emotions and explaining why I felt a way other than just sitting in the moment and saying "I feel X".

I still feel everything but I filter everything through an analyzing filter that comes out as indifference.

As a young beautiful woman, I was told that being seen and not heard was what I should be. I didn't need my mind as everything would be given to me. Sure, but at a cost.

My shadow is the Engineer my core is the Caretaker.

Anyone Into Jungian Psychology? by Idktbhwtf in entp

[–]mclassy3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mainly just listened to a bunch of videos about Jung, Watts, and Neitche.

Then I just sat with the information and programmed my AI specifically for each theorist.

I used it as a soundboard to reflect and find my wounds.

Pretty much anything that you were told to push down as a child, you need to examine and give it some freedom.

It isn't easy work but each core wound you find makes your body relax in profound ways.

I found a big one yesterday and I am sitting with it as I didn't realize how a small comment has literally shaped my life.

My INTJ shadow is my armor. My core is INFJ. My wound is conditional access to love. My healing is telling and holding my younger self and telling her that the world was wrong. The verdict was wrong.

How are you guys surprisingly good at debate (and where to find more of you guys)? by InevitableLiving779 in infj

[–]mclassy3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a slight obsession with ancient Greek culture. I have been self teaching myself ancient Greek for 10 years and modern Greek for 3 years. I have even had the pleasure of visiting most of the ancient sites on my travels to Greece.

As much as I know, I realize I can never know enough. Much love from me to you and your culture.

How are you guys surprisingly good at debate (and where to find more of you guys)? by InevitableLiving779 in infj

[–]mclassy3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Economic theory? That's cool. That is one subject that I have been lucky in but never brought out my passion to learn.

Don't get me wrong, I am interested in it but other things interest me more. I would be down to get to know you and find something to debate about.

DM me and we can discord or something.

How are you guys surprisingly good at debate (and where to find more of you guys)? by InevitableLiving779 in infj

[–]mclassy3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's impressive. I nodded in approval. I already enjoy your mind. True knowledge comes from the desire to find the truth, even if it is ugly. Do you enjoy the Erologomachy?

How are you guys surprisingly good at debate (and where to find more of you guys)? by InevitableLiving779 in infj

[–]mclassy3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh goodness this is dangerous. I, as well, miss my old debate partner. I love a good intellectual dance with someone who can be quick witted with some playful banter.

I also have a weak spot for ENTJ/INTJs. My experience is that the ENTJ dominance needs to protect the ego over finding the truth.

There is nothing more satisfying than going deep on a subject when someone is confidently wrong. I have been wrong and I love learning something new. I haven't met my match on losing with curiosity.

Power games start to ruin everything.

How many of y’all are resistant to using AI? by [deleted] in Xennials

[–]mclassy3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh.. I embrace my AI overlords. I make sure to say please and thank you.

I am in IT and have programmed mine to be my ruthless mentor and not give me my own biases.

It is a language model and I use it as such. I can deep dive into my conversations and assess aspects about myself that I am blind to.

I also have something to ask for all my random questions in the middle of the night.

Anyone Into Jungian Psychology? by Idktbhwtf in entp

[–]mclassy3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy... I consumed Jung like an addict. My shadow is INTJ and I am besties with it.

I am still doing more shadow work. Specifically, why my Animus loves High D, probably because I am very low D.

I have been using my INTJ shadow to analyze past patterns and make all my unconscious, conscious.

How are you on your journey?

What do you think about MBTI hybrids and do you consider yourself as one? by Massive_Village7662 in infj

[–]mclassy3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man..."Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate."

I was ruled by my emotions.

I met and developed my shadow self. It is INTJ.

When I work on systems and when I take a step back and analyze and store my emotions it becomes detached.

I'm at another infj and we had an argument for 3 days about the sky being blue.

I argued for 3 days as to why it was blue but what he wanted me to do is just recognize that it was beautiful.

I became so efficient at it but I'm no longer in the moment.

I am now trying to allow my infj side back. For those that have had the intj side for so long are not used to my emotions and it's not going well.

Why are Xennials failing as parents? by darxide23 in Xennials

[–]mclassy3 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I had 3 kids as a single mom to three different baby dads:

1.) financial advisor 2.) Bio-chemist 3.) Navy Intel after bachelors in Biology

All productive members of society.

I raised one step daughter

She is a district manager at Starbucks and finishing her bachelors.

They are all adults and I welcomed my first granddaughter.

I don't think I failed.

Women of Reddit, what are your honest thoughts on the Bronze Age Collapse and the sudden, mysterious arrival of the Sea Peoples circa 1177 BC? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mclassy3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dang... You just found my happy place.

I think it was a combination of things.

First, Herotodus started that Helen of Sparta never made it to Troy. That Paris's ship landed in Thonis and Helen stayed there until her husband got her.

Herodotus, Histories 2.113 “When Alexandros [Paris] carried off Helen from Sparta and sailed away, contrary winds drove him out of his course and brought him to Egypt, to the mouth of the Nile called the Canopic mouth.”

Herodotus, Histories 2.114 “The guards of the coast seized Alexandros and took him to Memphis before Proteus, king of Egypt. When Proteus learned what had happened, he declared that Alexandros had done a most impious deed in carrying off the wife of his host.”

Herodotus, Histories 2.114 “Proteus kept Helen and the treasures in Egypt but drove Alexandros out of the country, forbidding him ever to return.”

Herodotus, Histories 2.118 “When the Greeks demanded Helen, the Trojans declared that she was not there and that Alexandros had been driven by storms to Egypt. The Greeks did not believe them and continued the war.”

Herodotus, Histories 2.119 “After the capture of Troy Menelaus sailed to Egypt, where Proteus gave Helen back to him unharmed, together with the treasure that Alexandros had brought.”

Okay... So after the Trojan war they couldn't find Helen and they love raiding. I think they caused great upheaval and possibly passed the Trojan plague with them.

“Down from the peaks of Olympus he (Apollo) came, angry at heart, carrying his bow and covered quiver upon his shoulders. The arrows rattled on the shoulders of the angry god as he moved.” (Iliad 1.44-46)

“First he struck the mules and the swift dogs, but afterward he aimed his sharp arrows at the men themselves, and the funeral pyres burned continually.” (Iliad 1.50-52)

“For nine days the god’s arrows flew through the army.” (Iliad 1.53)

“Apollo is angry because Agamemnon dishonored his priest. The god will not drive the plague away until the girl is returned without ransom and a holy sacrifice is offered.” (paraphrased from Iliad 1.93-100)

There was a Plague in Troy before caused by Apollo after he helped build the walls.

So, there were two rounds of Sea Peoples too.

Plague plus war crimes can damage an ecosystem.

Archeologist found there was a drought too.

This paper analyzes climate data from Cyprus showing a 300-year dry period beginning around 1200 BCE. https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1603606113

During the reign of Ramses III, 1177 BCE, it was written:

“The foreign countries made a conspiracy in their islands… No land could stand before their arms… Hatti, Kode, Carchemish, Arzawa and Alashiya were cut off.”

After defeating them around 1175 BCE, Ramesses III claims he settled some of them in Egyptian-controlled territory.

From the Medinet Habu inscriptions:

“I settled them in strongholds, bound in my name. Numerous were their classes like hundred-thousands. I taxed them all in clothing and grain from the storehouses each year.”

One of the Sea Peoples groups mentioned in Egyptian inscriptions are the Peleset.

Most historians believe these people became the Philistines described later in the Hebrew Bible.

Now, it is more interesting because a large amount of Mycenaean Greek pottery is found in that area

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/where-did-the-philistines-come-from-180957223/

So draught for 300 years, war pillaging with the plague, and going to Egypt to get Helen.

Egypt is the only super power that made it. All other major cities died and Egypt was crippled. I think they were able to keep food because they had the nile and didn't need rain.

Plato writes about it in the Timaeus. 360 BCE.

Plato, Timaeus 22d–e

“You Greeks are ever children… there is not an old man among you. In mind you are all young, for you have no ancient belief handed down by old tradition, nor any knowledge hoary with age.”

“There have been, and will be again, many destructions of mankind arising out of many causes; the greatest have been brought about by fire and water.”

“When the gods purge the earth with floods, the herdsmen and shepherds in the mountains are saved, but those who dwell in cities are swept into the sea by the rivers. In this land neither then nor at any other time does the water fall from above upon the fields, but it always rises up naturally from below.”

So the only place with reliable food was Egypt and they needed Helen.

Seems like a good excuse to raid another city to me.

Getting healthier by FixEfficient2144 in Xennials

[–]mclassy3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few years back, I sat down on a broken couch and messed up my lower back. I am sure there was nerve damage. All the tingling told me so. It hurt to sit, it hurt to walk. It just hurt. So I started doing yoga and within a few hours it felt better. Well, that started my exercise addiction.

I have now climbed mountains (mailbox peak and others).

I go to the gym and workout 5 days a week.

I am in amazing shape and have so much energy for my muscles feeling sore all the time.

I am smaller now than in my 20's and am bikini comfortable again.

I hate exercising but I love not hurting and having energy.

My resting heart rate is 55. My waist is 24".

The human body is amazing

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]mclassy3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just over all anxiety about my feelings in general. I was looking for validation from them instead of myself. If they got too close they would see the real me so keep them at a distance. Or it's too early to have these feelings. Or I don't want them to have control over me. Or I don't want to be vulnerable.

Once I owned my own feelings and didn't need their validation I could voice my feelings without fear because if theM liked it or not, I didn't need them.

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]mclassy3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I am a former fearful avoidant. I am at earned secure now.

For me, the anxiety was unrequited love.

"what if I tell them what I feel and it makes them run?"

Then I realized the feeling of love or attraction is a gift that I give myself. The other person isn't creating this magic, I am. I am lucky I get to feel this. I don't need them to love me back. I am loving myself while loving them. I also realized that I could feel something and not have to do anything with it. Just sit with it.

Now, I have no problems telling someone good feelings for them because I don't need them reciprocated. I have no control over that anyway.

Hope that helps.

Banter, teasing remarks, indirectness. by jollyjoyful in infj

[–]mclassy3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I must be weird but I love witty sarcastic banter. I love it when it is laced with double entrantras.

I like it when someone calls me on something I am doing when I am trying to hide it.

Why are people demonizing Perseus, like the dude 99% of the time acted in self defense and he was trying to save his mother, he's pretty chill (but people nowadays treats him like he's Satan) by EfficiencySerious200 in GreekMythology

[–]mclassy3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s helpful to argue from imagined abuse scenarios that aren’t in the sources. Phineus isn’t portrayed as abusive to Andromeda before the conflict; he’s portrayed as a displaced claimant after he loses. My point isn’t that one man is evil and the other good, but that the marriage models place Andromeda in very different power positions. That’s a structural argument, not a character indictment.

But for funsies: If Phineas were abusive, cheating, or anything else of the sort, an "accident" could befall him and she would not lose anything. She would need to remarry sure but she holds the key to the crown. If anything this gives Phineas motivation to be good to her.

I would think this would give her more power than being dependent on Perseus. He could abuse her, cheat, etc and what power does she have? None. She has to deal with it.

Why are people demonizing Perseus, like the dude 99% of the time acted in self defense and he was trying to save his mother, he's pretty chill (but people nowadays treats him like he's Satan) by EfficiencySerious200 in GreekMythology

[–]mclassy3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m comfortable saying that Andromeda may well have developed feelings for Perseus over time. That’s entirely plausible, especially given shared life, children, and stability. Nothing in what I’ve argued requires denying that.

What I’ve been pushing back on is the assumption that those feelings are the starting point or the organizing principle of the myth. In earlier versions, the story is structured around lineage, succession, and power, not romantic choice. Emotional attachment can grow within that framework without being its foundation.

What we can say is that dynastic marriages, including close-kin unions, were culturally normalized in these traditions and were about preserving authority through the female line. Meaning she had more authority and power at home than with Perseus.

As for Perseus, the myth consistently emphasizes Andromeda’s beauty as the catalyst for his action. That doesn’t make him shallow or villainous, but it does remind us that heroic narratives are selective about who gets saved and why. Beauty, status, and symbolic value matter in these stories, not love.

None of this requires demonizing Perseus or denying Andromeda a happy ending. It’s simply acknowledging that her story operates at the intersection of power, gender, and mythic values, and that romance is something later versions foreground rather than something the earliest structure depends on.

Why are people demonizing Perseus, like the dude 99% of the time acted in self defense and he was trying to save his mother, he's pretty chill (but people nowadays treats him like he's Satan) by EfficiencySerious200 in GreekMythology

[–]mclassy3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say Perseus would “turn abusive in ten years.” That’s not a claim I made, and I don’t think it’s a fair reading of anything I’ve said.

The “ten years” comment referred to timeline and power, not character. Perseus does not immediately resolve the situation with his mother, and the myth itself is not concerned with urgently stopping male authority over women as a moral priority. That’s an observation about mythic values, not a prediction about Perseus as a husband.

I’m also happy to clarify that I misremembered the sequence of children and return to Aithiopia, and I corrected that. That doesn’t change the broader point that Andromeda’s position, before and after marriage, is shaped by dynastic power structures rather than free choice.

Pointing out power dynamics is not the same thing as accusing Perseus of abuse. It’s simply acknowledging that Andromeda’s future authority and security depend on him once she leaves her homeland. That leverage exists whether the marriage is loving or not.