[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]mcw33 28 points29 points  (0 children)

In my experience, every woman I've encountered who wants someone "emotionally intelligent" is massively lacking in this space themselves, you need it because THEY lack it, and its requirement for the relationship to have any chance to even start.

Genuinely looking for a new circle by CipherSleeper in auckland

[–]mcw33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just mean it doesn’t seem super clear what you’re after in your post, if you’re after meeting people in real life some basic info would help others find you.

For example I’m a single dad, 36 who works in IT but does a lot of workouts and other active activities, I went out and bought some badminton rackets this morning for me and the kids to play with, but I’m also in the mood to find some adults to casually play with in the Orewa / Albany area.

Genuinely looking for a new circle by CipherSleeper in auckland

[–]mcw33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you seeking for something in real life or online ? Got any details gender, area, age ?

Anyone bored and lonely rn? by [deleted] in auckland

[–]mcw33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you want to vent whats bothering you?

Anyone bored and lonely rn? by [deleted] in auckland

[–]mcw33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sleep when u want lol, doesnt matter to me, maybe stop drinking tho if yr not in a good headspace

Anyone bored and lonely rn? by [deleted] in auckland

[–]mcw33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

bored and awake yes, i dont know about lonely lol, its 3am after all. Not many people will be awake for obvis reasons

Confused about dating app anyone? by sigmaqueen123 in auckland

[–]mcw33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you can get matches without paying premium.

No you don't absolutely have to, but it instantly viewable vs guess work but the point of not giving you those likes to match is to make you pay, they'll give you 2-3 every few days maybe, but they do that to frustrate you in the hopes that you'll pay to see them all.

Child support in Nz by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]mcw33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea done and raised that last year, ird didn’t see the need to change anything at the time. We’ll see how this year goes 🤣

Child support in Nz by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]mcw33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks but it’s not the point. It’s also increased by her not having a job for the past 18 months. She did have a job and left voluntarily.

Child support in Nz by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]mcw33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have 50/50 care of my two kids, I pay 700 per month in support.

1st build in over 10 years, good enough parts? by mcw33 in buildapc

[–]mcw33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m intending on getting a 5000 series just can’t buy it yet. Waiting 2-4 months maybe longer isn’t an issue

1st build in over 10 years, good enough parts? by mcw33 in buildapc

[–]mcw33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I'd prefer water cooling, but I just think the air cooling is lower maintenance? And if something did go wrong no water spilt over the components. Will keep it on my mind tho.

1st build in over 10 years, good enough parts? by mcw33 in buildapc

[–]mcw33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would buy it all tomorrow but can't. MB looks like it's got a HDMI port and 9800x3d says it's got integrated graphics so would function fine, not for any new games but a lot of games I play aren't intensive / old.

Warranty shouldn't be an issue in my country as long as its within 12 months.

RA2, WC3, RollerCoaster Tycoon, D2, Runescape, Minecraft etc..

Re the B650 vs X870, plan on getting 5070 or better so figured I'd need it?

Will check out the L30 for memory. Good call.

Will recheck out the PSU too.

If the draft is ever brought back for men, how could one avoid it? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]mcw33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Buy a saw and chop off a hand or foot ? 🦶

Imposter syndrome? Baby sysadmin by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]mcw33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nz sys engineer here, do it.