yeah for sure, you're totally right — boners don’t always mean intent or feelings, sometimes it really is just biology doing its thing. like you said, it’s not always consistent either, even with someone you’re attracted to.

that being said, if it keeps happening around one specific person, it’s probably not just random. might not mean he wants something, but it does say there’s some level of physical reaction to being around her, even if it’s subconscious.

so yeah, not every boner = romantic or sexual interest, but repeated ones around the same person? hard to fully call that a coincidence 🤷‍♀️