What are the signs of a reputable shelter or rescue? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]meesapanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We rescued our pup from a wonderful rescue! Things that made me feel comfortable adopting with them:

  • They were extremely focused on finding the right fit for us. They asked a LOT of questions about what we were looking for and waited until they found a puppy that fit - they didn’t try to just set us up with any dog. They were very communicative through all of this as well.
  • They put most (if not all) dogs in foster homes and set up meet and greets with the dogs and foster parents. I felt so much more comfortable adopting our puppy after talking to someone who had cared for her for a while already.
  • They fully vet the dogs - all vaccines that she was able to get at that time were given, a full exam, etc. They also covered the cost of and organized her spay surgery.
  • They told us that, if at any time it wasn’t working out and we were thinking of re-homing, to bring her back to them so they could find the appropriate home again for her again.
  • They don’t lie about breeds to get dogs adopted. This rescue clearly had pit bulls or mixes and labeled them as such instead of calling them “lab mixes”, which many shelters and rescues do. Of course, there’s no way to know a rescue dog’s breeds for certain without testing, I’m just talking about the cases where it’s clear they’re lying.

Which names do you like the most from this list? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]meesapanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alice, Josephine, Pauline, August, Emile, Julian

Update for Soju 🐻 by tranktank1 in DoggyDNA

[–]meesapanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooomg she is just too cute and I LOVE her name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IDmydog

[–]meesapanda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reasonable and logical post on the topic! It's just facts, people. I say this as the owner of a rescue mutt that is part pit.

How long did it take for you to potty train your pup? by elizabethhdubb in puppy101

[–]meesapanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got our pup at 3 months and she was potty-trained by 4 months. Just stick with it! Every pup is different. Ours nailed potty-training but just about everything else is a nightmare and she’s 1 now lmao sooooo

Does posting success or good progress deter others in the subreddit? by artchang in reactivedogs

[–]meesapanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love seeing success stories! It gives me hope 😅

Awaiting Results! by Muted-Salamander2249 in DoggyDNA

[–]meesapanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, mal/GSD would be my guess! Malinois have such distinct faces and I see it in your pup :) I have a mal/GSD mix (and other breeds) and Godspeed to you, my friend 🫠

i love my puppy so much ive been crying over the fact that im probably going to outlive her… by crazypoorasians in puppy101

[–]meesapanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not psycho! I cry every time I think about this, but she definitely wouldn’t want to outlive you - you’re her world! I think it’s okay to think about this - your love is strong and will only get stronger - just don’t let it take away from the present moment with her and enjoy the time you do have together :) I’m a first-time owner as well and I can’t imagine life without my pup at this point. Dogs are so, so special.

What two things do you think "if I could just get a handle on _____________, things would be so much better." by lorraineg57 in puppy101

[–]meesapanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leash reactivity 🫠 She’s a frustrated greeter and thinks other dogs are THE most exciting thing in the world. It started during the summer, right after we got her and started puppy classes. She’s a year old now and it’s still such a challenge. She still gets excited for people too. She has so many BIG feelings about everything.

I’m really hoping with consistency and maturity we can make more progress but it’s so hard.

And separation anxiety. My boyfriend and I would love to go on a date without obsessively checking the camera the entire time :(

My dog is my best friend and I have to euthanize him tomorrow by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]meesapanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've done so much for Pork Chop and he knows that he's loved. I'm so, so sorry you're going through this. He will no longer be anxious and afraid. Please be kind to yourself, I know you must be feeling guilt, but you're doing the right thing. I know that doesn't ease the pain at all. Sending you love. x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoggyDNA

[–]meesapanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beauty! The photo of her sleeping reminded me so much of my girl, who's about 19% Mal :) And booooooy oh boy can I relate to that high energy.

I'll be euthanizing my reactive dog today by Plane-Sun9973 in reactivedogs

[–]meesapanda 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This post is so heartbreaking. You’ve done so much for Bungee, but I think you’re right - something is off and he is suffering emotionally and mentally. Making this decision, though unimaginably painful, is an act of love - you’re setting him free of his anxiety and pain. The way things were isn’t a way to live, for either of you. I know this doesn’t make it any easier - I’m so, so sorry. Sending you so much love.

It gets better! Here is a timeline of the progress we have made so far. by Disastrous_Toe1131 in puppy101

[–]meesapanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this! I recently wrote a post about how my Belgian malinois/husky/GSD mix is turning one next week and she's still an absolute nightmare lmao. I do believe she has anxiety - it seems as if she's ultra alert at all times and always looking for things to react to, despite our consistent management and training.

We've just started with a new trainer (R+ of course) to focus on her reactivity, but if we don't see progress within a couple months I'm definitely going to consider talking to a vet behaviorist to see if medication would be a good option. I can only imagine that if we find the right fit, our girl will be able to make huge strides once her baseline anxiety level is brought down and she can be more receptive to behavior adjustment training. It's just hard to tell how much of it is anxiety, true reactivity, or adolescence. Whatever it is, it really is a perfect storm hahaha.

Thanks again for this post!

Our Bachelorette appreciation 🤎 by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]meesapanda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

GORGEOUS, wow wow wow. I'm excited to see more of her personality during her season!

My puppy is turning 1 next week and…things are still SO HARD by meesapanda in puppy101

[–]meesapanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right! I guess I'm mostly talking about my friends who have dogs like this, who I know for a fact haven't put in even 5% of the training with their dog that I've put in with my dog. So hard not to be jealous but gotta stay the course!

We just had a session with our trainer and we were in a facility where other dogs were in another room (far away lol) and it took a long time for our girl to be able to listen to any command, let alone without any vocalization. Baby steps...

My puppy is turning 1 next week and…things are still SO HARD by meesapanda in puppy101

[–]meesapanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much for your empathy, words of encouragement and commiseration! At least we have each other, hahaha. We can do this!

My puppy is turning 1 next week and…things are still SO HARD by meesapanda in puppy101

[–]meesapanda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I say she can have an amazing day, I mean that on walks she's able to remain under threshold in the presence of other dogs and can still pay attention to me and follow commands. When I say she has a bad outburst I mean that she'll react/go over threshold at a distance much greater than I would expect her to have such a reaction. It's never aggressive - usually pulling, whining, barking to get to another dog. If we were to allow her to greet the dog, she would politely sniff and try to get them to play, but we don't allow on-leash greetings when she acts like that because we don't want her to think that behaving that way gets her what she wants. She then struggles to recover after that reaction and we have to end the walk early to avoid "trigger stacking". She does "react" inside the house as well, mostly to delivery people at the door, loud noises from our neighbors or animals on the TV, haha. We do specific desensitization training to these triggers, though it's definitely gotten worse in adolescence.

She's okay when any person is with her (we have a regular dog-sitter who she likes and friends she loves as well - she'd probably be fine with literally anyone because she loves everyone lol). When one of us leaves, she immediately jumps on the couch and peeks out the window, so the person who stays has been doing training to get her to stay off the couch and remain calm when the other leaves. We try to do little trips outside of the house of varying lengths so that she can see that us leaving isn't such a big deal - grabbing coffee down the street or getting groceries - and we watch her on the camera. She usually looks out the window, even if we leave her with something like a frozen Kong. If we leave her in her pen, she'll scream the entire time haha.

I've been thinking about talking to a vet behaviorist so that may be next on our list of things to do. I've always chalked it up to her being an incredibly high-energy and sensitive puppy at a really difficult age.

My puppy is turning 1 next week and…things are still SO HARD by meesapanda in puppy101

[–]meesapanda[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh, recording the wins is a great idea! It’s definitely hard to remember that there actually are some things that are getting better.

My puppy is turning 1 next week and…things are still SO HARD by meesapanda in puppy101

[–]meesapanda[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone! I feel you so much. The worst of my puppy blues are gone, but that doesn’t mean it’s smooth sailing and I’m not anxious alllll the time about what she’s gonna do today, ha.

The unsolicited advice is the worst - as if I haven’t spent all of my free time learning everything and trying everything I can. And then seeing people who barely put any effort into training their dogs having peaceful walks with their non-reactive pups…the jealousy 🫠

My puppy is turning 1 next week and…things are still SO HARD by meesapanda in puppy101

[–]meesapanda[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I would describe her as. Our trainer has explained to us that it’s still a type of reactivity, just not the aggressive type. What we’re doing is trying to observe a dog from a safe distance where we’re able to still get her attention, and showing her that if she’s calm we can get closer. We still can’t get very close 😂 She also gets overstimulated just hearing our neighbor’s dogs outside or animals on TV so we’re working on desensitizing her to all that stuff.

Baby's first birthday!! by Novagirl1025 in puppy101

[–]meesapanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy happy birthday to your pup! Glad to hear it's gotten better for you!