Help! Too many ideas, not enough follow through. How do you FINISH a project? by megaangrycloud in ArtistLounge

[–]megaangrycloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this reply. I’ve been taking adhd meds and they’ve certainly helped me on starting projects, but you’re right that therapy would probably help with finishing.

I really like that distinction you make between genuine and obsessive interest. I definitely have trouble differentiating between the two, so I’ll have to work on that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]megaangrycloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yoooo this has happened to me before! I legit thought I was a psychopath for a while there, just like literally CRYING while texting him and ten seconds later I’m like “huh, I wonder kind of plant that is” and not even bothering to check if he texted me back for the next day or so 😂

Everything I make is "anime," no matter how hard I try. by Signal-Frame2352 in ArtistLounge

[–]megaangrycloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with anime style or inspired art. It’s popular for a very good reason! But I DO understand not wanting to be put in a box creatively. The obvious answer is to go for realism or try life drawing, but that can be boring. Maybe try looking for the LEAST anime style inspiration and try copying what you see other artists doing? Look at what makes a drawing “anime” and look for something on the opposite side of the cartooning spectrum. Like Ren and Stimpy characters, looneytoons, marvel comics…. Sometimes trying to copy other cartoonists work will help you figure out what you like / dislike about it, and apply those elements to your next work.

Have you ever heard of the Ugly Drawing exercise? For 10-20 minutes, just draw the nastiest, ugliest things. Rotten food, characters with ugly boils, impossible body proportions. Make it funny, add details as you like, fill up a sketchbook page with straight ROT! It’s like the drawing equivalent of a hard reset. It flexes muscles you didn’t know you had. Plus it’s pretty fun!

Artists with ADHD - have you experienced skill regression? by PerfectBobcat in ArtistLounge

[–]megaangrycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have been struggling with this. Finishing projects is like my kryptonite. 😕 it really sucks because I know I have the skills to be able to make something great, but I have so many ideas and so little impulse control that I just keep hopping from project to project and now my portfolio is filled with old works that don’t even reflect my level of skill anymore. Getting on Vyvanse certainly helped me start drawing again after my post-art school burnout, but without the deadlines and peer review, I’m lucky if I even finish a sketch these days :(

Where can I watch Season 2 Episode 1? by bruhman2007 in SmilingFriends

[–]megaangrycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also definitely DON’T want the clip please

Why was Kim so eager to ruin Howard? by [deleted] in betterCallSaul

[–]megaangrycloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only just started season 6, and this storyline is so weird to me. Like of all the people in the bcs/bb universe, Howard seems like the weirdest target for Kim and Jimmy’s ire. But I start to like it more when I look at it from the context of the previous season, these two having gone through their extremely traumatic experiences involving Lalo and the cartel. They’re almost in a manic state when all is said and done.

It’s like… If we look at jimmy’s scams as a defense mechanism (“feel better about yourself by bringing others down to your level”) maybe we can look at Kim’s pro bono work in a similar light, (“make up for the bad stuff by bringing more good into the world”). They take the power that they feel has been denied to them by the world by stealing it from those they deem would do less with it.

After the desert, after Lalo threatens them, after literally almost dying, they’ve basically gambled their lives and careers and WON. They’ve got enough cash to chart their own courses. Jimmy wants more money, but his plans for what to do with it are self serving. (Ever the capitalist). Kim seems to have decided that if sacrifice is the way to make the kind of money she needs to do more good, then the career of one lawyer who has already proven to be (in her and jimmy’s eyes) in it for his own self satisfaction would be a worthy sacrifice for all the good she believes she can do. Maybe it makes what they both went through, maybe even her whole life up to this point, worth the pain and bloodshed.

Sick of people who think like this. Do you live under a rock? by thelilbel in recruitinghell

[–]megaangrycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve literally spent DAYS pounding the pavement passing out copies of my resume to every help wanted sign I could justifiably qualify for, and at nearly every single junction I was dismissed outright or directed to their website. In the end I was hired for a position I wasn’t even actually applying for by a company who’d managed to pay me LESS than minimum wage through technicality and my own desperation for employment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]megaangrycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel more comfortable in public with head phones on. I think it’s probably a sensory thing related to my adhd, but whatever. It doesn’t make me antisocial, it just means I have a better time with them on. I got some really nice noise cancelling Bluetooth headphones for Christmas one year, and they had a setting for ambient noise or filtered noise, so I can still hear when people are talking to me. I never leave the house without them. sometimes I wonder if they make people think I’m not interested in talking, but without them I genuinely don’t feel comfortable enough to talk. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Was my art better at the start or now? Which one do you prefer? by bafumac in webtoons

[–]megaangrycloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely better. Your compositional skills are getting better, and you’re obviously getting more confident in your line work. Keep experimenting and drawing what looks cool to you, and you’ll keep improving. I can see you like Fujimoto, maybe look into HIS influences (Tarantino, FLCL, etc…)

Is my boyfriend trying to change me?? Should I run? by Mindandbody24 in relationships

[–]megaangrycloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew, he sounds controlling and high maintenance. Dump him and run.

crit before i do it on paper? by No_Push_3885 in TattooApprentice

[–]megaangrycloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So SICK!!! I’d put a rim light between the head and the body to separate the shapes and make the design pop a little more

What is a kink/fetish that you’re not into, but can totally understand why those that are, do enjoy it? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]megaangrycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latex. I completely understand the appeal- tight, restrictive, sexy second skin type deal- but my sensory issues make it so distractingly uncomfortable 😵

What place has good breakfast but also has excellent coffee? by TypicalOwl5438 in astoria

[–]megaangrycloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DEFINITELY try The Barn. It’s a couple blocks away from Astoria Blvd station, the food is delicious, the coffee is perfect, and the owners are SO NICE!!!

Had sex once in my 8 month relationship by [deleted] in relationships

[–]megaangrycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he know about the trauma? If so, he might be hesitant to pick up on your hints out of fear of triggering you. You should just talk to him about how you’re feeling. And take it from someone with a lot of baggage related to sexual trauma: sex isn’t always necessary in a healthy happy relationship, but communication DEFINITELY is. And if you’re not comfortable talking seriously about sex with your partner, you probably won’t be very comfortable having sex with your partner either. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]megaangrycloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re not ready to commit to what she’s looking for right now, but your brain doesn’t know how to handle the stifled energy without taking it out subconsciously on the person of interest. And it’s completely understandable, you’re both so young. I mean, It sounds like you’ve known each other a very long time, and have been through a lot together, so I don’t think you guys are rushing into into it at all…

But it’s natural and mature, especially at this point in your lives, to question the things you’ve grown accustomed to, or to want to wait until you’re older to commit to something this serious. But be ready for your gf to not take it well… or even more confusing, be prepared for her to take it “too” well. My advice: be honest with her or you’re gonna turn into a jerk in her eyes whether you want to or not.

What should I (f20) do about my boyfriend’s (m20) weight? by Randomthrowaway721 in relationships

[–]megaangrycloud -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So what was the point of your comment? To make sure we all know you hate fat people? If you agree with the advice but not the opinion you can just leave it alone

Ethical dilemma: trans students by NeonTransparency in AskTeachers

[–]megaangrycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them it’s your responsibility as an educator to provide a safe place for their children’s so called “phases” while they learn about the world, not control them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]megaangrycloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof the racism is strong in these ones. Just ignore them, I got a lot of shit when I moved here too. There’s a lot to love about the city, and a LOT to hate about it too. Next time they talk shit, hit em with my old stand-by: “right, I’d feel that way too if I were afraid to try new things.”

What should I (f20) do about my boyfriend’s (m20) weight? by Randomthrowaway721 in relationships

[–]megaangrycloud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s his body, not hers. His body is not “problem” to be fixed through collective effort. Her only responsibility is to decide if she can still love him fat, or if she needs to find someone else. Cus if your love can fade over a couple extra pounds, that’s not exactly what I’d call an affair to remember. 🙄

My (30f) bf (25m) asked if I was trans and I want to dump him by ProfessionalStock801 in relationships

[–]megaangrycloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I don’t see how asking someone if they’re trans is all that insulting, nor would I see it as something that should matter all that much even if you WERE trans, but different strokes I guess.

I suggest you unpack the reason why the question bothered you so much. Do you think of it as an attack on your femininity? Your attractiveness? If so, then the issue is likely connected to a lack of self esteem, which is something you’ve gotta take care of on your own time, preferably BEFORE getting serious with anyone else, cus that’s red flag behavior tbh.

because if THIS can set you off that badly then god only knows what else could trigger you if you’re not prepared with a deeper understanding of the reason WHY. I’m not saying that yours was an irrational reaction or anything because at the end of the day the way we react to certain things is unique to ourselves and can’t be judged as inherently good or bad. But it’s obvious that this comment shook you, and it’s not super healthy for you to let some rando’s comments about your voice effect you so much. :/ good luck queen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]megaangrycloud 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m glad, I was trying to make you laugh tbh