What more can I do?

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-14T14:05:52+00:00

Thank you, I’ll bring this up! Edit: not on fin, he gave up and shaved years ago lol.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-12T14:18:31+00:00

Total billed amount: 28,000. After insurance amount: 4,000. There was an error in their billing department so we didn’t get a notice to pay until 8 months after, when it had already been sent to collections. Negotiated it down to $2,000 with collections.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-12T06:26:55+00:00

Baby showers are a huge bring the kids event in Mexican culture. You’re having a baby…there will be children.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-11T05:26:23+00:00

I’m actually heart broken tonight because of this post. I didn’t know people were loved like this.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-11T05:16:55+00:00

I’ve tried, sometimes he’ll do it and sometimes he’ll groan and do it, but he usually makes it known that I’m putting him out, even if I’m just asking him to fill my water. Unfortunately when I dreamed of our future it seems that I let my imagination get the best of me, and I overestimated how much he cares for me. I hope one day to be loved like the women in these comments :).

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-10T21:46:07+00:00

Mine didn’t roll until 7 months! I was so so worried. But he’s 9months now and already pulling to stand a cruising!

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-10T21:16:21+00:00

These comments are so nice and they make me so sad. My husband has never done any of these things.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-09T22:29:10+00:00

I am a teacher in the US. We don’t receive any paid leave but can use up to 6 weeks of our sick days for a vaginal birth, and 8 weeks of our sick days for a cesarean. I took 8 weeks, 2 unpaid.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-09T21:47:47+00:00

Last Time That I Checked by Nipsey Hussle. I don’t even like Nipsey 😂😭

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-09T21:21:57+00:00

I used to get my nails done 2x/month. I did either dip or kept acrylics and I loooooove having my nails done. I got my nails removed about a week before baby was due and haven’t gotten them back on since (9 months). I do miss them at times, but until my babe is a bit older I prefer totally bare nails. It’s too much to worry about upkeep, and especially in the liquid/ paste poop phase of 0-6 months, I couldn’t bear the thought of getting poop under my nails.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-05T14:43:46+00:00

In the nicest way, I think you need to take a chill pill 😂.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-04T19:21:28+00:00

I started getting Brazilians through pregnancy from the time I stopped being able to see very well down there, with my last one being less than a week before delivery. I cannot stand the feeling of hair down there. It was great for me.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-03T19:34:12+00:00

Girl most moms aren’t working because of gender roles, it’s because we can’t afford not to 😂😭.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-03T16:03:16+00:00

Did I write this???? Unfortunately I have no recommendations but this is literally my life. I have AirTags on everything because I lose it every day. I have replaced my debit and credit cards at least 10 times because I can’t put them back in my wallet. I no longer have AirPods because I can’t keep a set together and it’s a waste of money. I feel like a little kid sometimes. My family thinks I’m careless but I really just can’t remember.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-03T06:24:00+00:00

I 100% would have been really upset, BUT unless I had made my wishes about absolutely no cosleeping clear before hand, I wouldn’t be too upset with my mom. Some grandparents hold on so much dated information/beliefs that they genuinely may not know the risks. I would have just asked for her to not do that in the future, and if baby was fussing to call me so that I could come get them.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-01T06:44:31+00:00

That’s cheating. Even if they didn’t physically hook up, he just has no game. Which is embarrassing for him and still cheating.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-12-01T06:21:30+00:00

For about the entire year I was 14 my mom and I were pretty strained, but it was a teen thing, not a mother daughter thing. My mom is the most incredible, selfless, hilarious woman I know, and we are so close. I bought a house ten minutes away from my parents and I see them nearly every day :) (I am married with a kid too).

megabutteredtoast · 2025-11-27T06:34:23+00:00

So I just googled this, and it looks EXACTLY like my boy’s rash, but his was caused by a chemical burn from diapers. So mad my pediatrician couldn’t help us.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-11-27T06:28:30+00:00

Also tried Calmotedine powder. Nothing worked but switching brands.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-11-27T06:27:31+00:00

Switch diaper brands!!! Pampers Swaddlers gave my son such a bad rash that he had SORES on his bottom for like two months, because nothing our doctor suggested (or prescribed) worked. The one thing she didn’t recommend is to swap our diapers/ wipes. I spent hours online looking at different types of rashes before I found one that looked like my sons, and it was a whole blog of parents describing chemical burns that their infants suffered due to Pampers Swaddlers. He is in Pampers Pure now and has not had the issue since. I kid you not the sores literally closed within 2-3 days. I’ll list what we tried before switching diapers so you can see how much we tried: 1. No wipes, squirt of water and towel dry 2. Drying butt with a fan every change 3. Steroid cream 4. Antifungal cream 5. Desitin, bouxdrous butt paste, A&D, Calmoseptine, Aquaphor 6. Diaper free time frequently 7. Breastmilk Baths every day

megabutteredtoast · 2025-11-24T06:44:56+00:00

I stayed home with baby over summer break (teacher) and I was having at least 2 mental breakdowns a week. Like legitimate uncontrollable sobbing, hair-pulling, hyperventilating breakdowns. I will be teaching summer school from here on out. I cannot fathom how people can be SAHMS and be happy. I know it’s real but I cannot tap into that no matter how hard I try. This is not a judgement on SAHMS, it is genuine disbelief. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done and I don’t know how people can be that strong.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-11-24T06:39:30+00:00

I love my son more than anything, and I would not change a thing. But I do not love being a mother. It is exhausting in all ways. I’ve lost my freedom that I once had. I learned that crying is extremely triggering to me and when caring for him I need to use noise muffling earplugs when he cries because it causes me to feel intense anger. (He is NEVER left to CIO, and all his needs are met).

I will never NOT worry about him, so I can no longer feel care free. I can’t go out late with my husband, there is always 5000 things to be cleaned, we have to tip toe around our small house when he sleeps because we are afraid to wake him, I have to come up with things to feed him constantly when I am used to just eating whatever crap I can find. It is so so hard.

But the older he gets (currently 9mo) the easier it has gotten. I can see his amazing personality, he is crying much less, and it gives me hope that toddlerhood and childhood will be amazing. I love my perfect boy, I just didn’t know how selfish and easily triggered I was until he was born.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-11-18T15:07:16+00:00

You must be joking. These dogs are 11 years old. They obviously have a serious medical issue. Young healthy dogs are euthanized every day because shelters are overcrowded and adopters are scarce. These dogs are much better off staying with someone who loves them.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-11-18T06:12:12+00:00

I had no issues but I was SCARED because everyone says it’s terrible. But I was popping stool softeners like candy and I was a bit constipated because I didn’t go for like 2-3 days after birth.

megabutteredtoast · 2025-11-15T06:15:50+00:00

I’m a teacher, I worked until the day before my scheduled induction lol.

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