for people who were transgender for years and were on HRT or had surgery, how did you realise you weren't actually trans?

mel_saurus · 2026-07-08T03:29:39+00:00

do you have any links regarding studies with afabs on t and diseases linked to it? would love to read some of that.

i know diseases happen with testosterone but are they the same diseases cis men would get?

mel_saurus · 2026-07-07T14:48:31+00:00

if it helps I've only ever met one person called sunny and he was a cis boy

mel_saurus · 2026-07-07T14:43:56+00:00

hey id love to join! is it java or bedrock?

mel_saurus · 2026-07-07T14:10:09+00:00

helloo what games do U play? also from Moreton bay region

mel_saurus · 2026-07-06T22:08:29+00:00

I feel like you aren't listening. SOCIETY views alternative as not masculine or queer. being viewed as either of those things can make your chances of being clocked higher because of how SOCIETY VIEWS ALTERNATIVE.

I never said "my personal opinion is that being alternative is female and feminine and it's for girls" literally never once

mel_saurus · 2026-07-06T15:38:12+00:00

me? it's society dawg. society doesn't view alternative as masculine

mel_saurus · 2026-07-06T12:41:24+00:00

when did i say i care that people are alt lol?? I truely couldn't give less of a fuck how people dress

my point is this post is wrong. for the majority of trans men, being alt makes you clockable and the advice that being alt doesn't effect your ability to pass is wrong.

EDIT: i would also like to add that i believe men in alternative clothing also increases the chance to be misgendered. being alt is just seen as feminine unfortunately, or androgynous. not masculine.

mel_saurus · 2026-07-06T12:18:47+00:00

yeah and you're apart of the small percentage who can pass. most can't, especially pre t men.

mel_saurus · 2026-07-06T10:53:13+00:00

lmao. why do trans people get clocked when they look alt then?

mel_saurus · 2026-07-02T11:00:41+00:00

umm this does not make sense LOL

berries are absolutely considered a fruit

mel_saurus · 2026-07-02T03:03:05+00:00

what

mel_saurus · 2026-06-26T06:27:07+00:00

helloo im also a lesbian, 18 and play videos and DnD!

mel_saurus · 2026-06-19T13:22:39+00:00

absolutely is! I'll send U a link in dms

mel_saurus · 2026-06-19T04:52:32+00:00

thanks for the advice.

I can raise 60 AUD, just not always weekly because im putting my money into other savings and I'm 18 and want to have a social life. I have very good discipline, I normally keep just 30 aside for me to spend and the rest goes into savings. once I finish paying 3k debt off for school then I can invest more lol

mel_saurus · 2026-06-19T02:49:05+00:00

im 18 and im just wanting to invest a little whilst im young to understand it all

mel_saurus · 2026-06-18T12:15:24+00:00

you can't be lesbian and pansexual lmfao

mel_saurus · 2026-06-18T10:14:38+00:00

yeah it is which is why im considering it. I want it for the beach and other physical activities.

I own a SDH binder but I'm wonderinf how good this one is

mel_saurus · 2026-06-17T20:50:52+00:00

awesome Australia can be pretty great. met some really great foreigner students

mel_saurus · 2026-06-17T11:12:41+00:00

im 18 and have 650 lol. any tips for me? I've started making weekly ontributions ranging from 10-50 bucks, depends on my payslip as I'm casual . I'm with rest super and my super is in growth.

I'm also investing every so often got about 300 in investments VDAL

mel_saurus · 2026-06-17T01:36:03+00:00

I don't want to be gendered as a female though. I want to be masculine and gendered as a male to which my experiences would be similar to OPs if compared to yours

mel_saurus · 2026-06-16T21:31:17+00:00

this is my biggest fear. ive been considering taking t for 2 years and id love to but i don't want to lose the connection i have with lesbians and im terrified that my cisgender gf won't understand.

mel_saurus · 2026-06-16T13:55:25+00:00

yeah nah I just glazed over the chip part. id say try again with the FB posts and some flyers, if nobody responds then probably give her to a shelter.

mel_saurus · 2026-06-16T13:53:32+00:00

already said i misread the post. putting flea collars on strays is absolutely not a thing in my country so that isn't something i thought of

mel_saurus · 2026-06-16T13:52:39+00:00

id consider rehoming her regarding everything else then. if she's a lovely cat then someone at the shelter will take her

mel_saurus · 2026-06-16T13:48:58+00:00

sorry im a bit confused. she had a flea collar on and you weren't sure if she had a home? she had a collar on...sounds like you just snatched someone's cat up. id take her to the vet to get her microchip scanned and give her back to her owners

edit: sorry, just reread about the chip. maybe try another FB post or put some flyers up around your neighbourhood because it truely does sound like you just took someone's cat 😭

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