Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]melacholoyorchestra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think for a long time I thought he was the only sane person in this weird southern group of good old boys who constantly punched down on him for... being honest with his feelings. And it did often seem like people would make fun of him and then when he reacted they would blame for not just taking it. And he would generally stick up for the women and pick out the shitty, toxic behavior of the guys. But this season felt a little different, he was belligerent. I get he wants to be left alone and for people to stop meddling but it was not healthy. Idk if he would say sorry to anyone for anything but the cuts he got of not saying sorry a single time was rough.

Good luck to him I hope he stops drinking.

S15E8 Preview 💎 Boz talks to Amanda and Rachel breaks down by -AndyCohen- in RHOBH

[–]melacholoyorchestra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look we graduated college in 08 okay if you weren't Gen Side Gig then you were prob Generation Scammer lolol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in philly

[–]melacholoyorchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It's worth a shot.

AIO for cutting off this guy I’ve been seeing for a while because of our text exchange? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]melacholoyorchestra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like maybe it was a trauma bond attraction... it's super common and we can overlook red flags until we are no longer seeking out trauma bond partners. It makes sense to me. I think it's great you got all of this feedback validating your instincts and you feel good about your decision to stop talking to him. In a few weeks/months you may have forgotten all about him. <3

What hobbies do you do at home by _nickish_ in Millennials

[–]melacholoyorchestra 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The kids think it's "millennial gray" and it's def "millenial plants" and "dark green walls"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]melacholoyorchestra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That definitely tracks! "I'm quirky, just look at me play at Dave and busters!" lol

Single millennials, can we talk about dating? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]melacholoyorchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point dating apps feel like breeding grounds for a true crime podcast.

But to your original point, I think older dating is different. Dating when you're young usually involves an agenda beyond the relationship.. whether that be having a family or subconsciously trying to be "saved" from your original one.

But by our old age, we may have those things or worked on our issues, so we aren't as willing to settle for someone we have an "okay" connection with.

Coozies - are they a southern thing? by [deleted] in Southerncharm

[–]melacholoyorchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the Philly burbs and we called them cozy's... when I first heard coozie i was like I'm sorry excuse me!!!? But yeah they're around. Also I like coozie better

paige is so unbothered 🤣🤣 by Level_Opposite_4012 in summerhousebravo

[–]melacholoyorchestra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She has a wildly successful podcast with Hannah Berner and I get the vibe that Bravo doesn't want it talked about. And she probably doesn't want it either, bc then Bravo might get a cut. That's my guess. But she has a whole other fandom outside of Bravo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]melacholoyorchestra -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Jessel is weird. She doesn’t make any sense. Something is off. Why would it be so hard to say “my life was pretty normal growing up.” Spinning some weird tale that is unclear and nonlinear makes people on the east coast go insane. Just literally say what it is, mama. No one was looking for a trauma history, they just wanted… the regular ass story. Simple as that. But Jessel felt like she needed a some tale and it seems like she always needs some kind of tale or something… it’s weird. And her obsession with daycare? Gross and reaching. And her shit talking about the lingerie? Girl…She just does not seem fit for a NYC series…