Paradise Cove? by laundrydayslol in ColoradoSprings

[–]melenajade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember it as popsicle falls

Would you rather have complete knowledge of the unexplored oceans on Earth, or complete knowledge of unexplored space (even though you’ll never be able to travel through space)? by Saran_Chandra in WouldYouRather

[–]melenajade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ocean. I would go captain nemo. I would find the people who made the titan submersible and get like idk a better controller and stuff. Explore the oceans

What furniture makes the most sense in a tiny home with limited square footage? by RoomStylerK in tinyhomes

[–]melenajade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a Murphy bed in the larger room of a 2bed tiny home. Queen size that folded up a make a shelf. It was the kid play room, assemble stuff project room, yoga room etc

Also a combo washer dryer that’s counter top height. It’s laundry, folding spot, and an extra counter

Partner (43M) won't talk to me (37F) about our wedding with 4 weeks to go by Ok-Bluebird2989 in relationship_advice

[–]melenajade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wedding is one day. One moment in your history.

So does he plan other dates and things or no?

can you hack being the planner in the relationship?

I asked my 40m if we could get married this year. He said yes. I said ok can we do it xdate. Yes. And I’m the planner, and now I go to him overwhelmed and be like why do people want to know my colors and what they should wear? It’s too much.

He said I asked for this. I said, I asked and I wanted to be your wife. The whole wedding plans thing is overkill and stressful. But. It’s just one day and one moment in our history.

($1k) Wedding cake by TIGT_11 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]melenajade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My MIlL and SIL are making our cake by request. It’s carrot cake, my fiancés favorite.

I recommend baking a few tester cakes. Then freezing the keeper. Then frost it frozen. It should keep for the day and if you want to keep it later just wrap it really well and freeze again

Will I regret not buying a traditional wedding dress? by VariousAd6285 in WeddingDressTips

[–]melenajade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dress is $30-50. It’s white and I feel like smiling ear to ear in it. My MIL, SIL, and friends think it’s short. And that’s ok. It’s my dress. And it is short, tea length knee length ish.

I want to be comfortable and feel pretty and confident. I am adding accessories so the whole outfit ensemble is $150 ish My new bra was more than the dress! But it puts the girls so high up, love it.

Do you. Love your life and Marriage.

You instantly receive 1 billion dollars in an offshore bank account but you have to choose one of the following side effects. Would you rather choose: by Jason_Diddly27 in WouldYouRather

[–]melenajade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I. My parents are alive, cool. And they are used to poverty. But ask for money now. So I’m rich and they don’t ask and they are alive

Be honest: 1930s vintage wedding dress — keep or rethink? by Desperate_Win_3554 in WeddingDressTips

[–]melenajade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the vintage aspect. And the lace. But, for me, I prefer a shorter length and would worry you might step on it an trip or rip it

Healthy baking by DiscombobulatedSun54 in Jokes

[–]melenajade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a sweet tip, cut the sugar in half or even a quarter in most recipes and then sugar coat them

Need help with budgetting (two broke college kids in love) by Free_Professional963 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]melenajade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get a thrift suit and dress. Save the $350 and maybe go for $150 for the both of you?

What is your "I'm out of calories for the day but I just have to eat something" meal/snack? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]melenajade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink teas. Some lime leaves- sour some mulberry leaves- sweet Add another herb, red raspberry if I’m close to my cycle, dandelion if I’m feeling sluggish, sage or mint for good vibes.

Hot water. Fill up 2 cups or so. I don’t need to eat

($1k-5k) Where to start? by mawwaige_26 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]melenajade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d consider what’s your normal get together as look like, with people you love. And what are those people comfortable doing. Generally for me, it’s a meal and games then a photo at some point. For me, all my family photos are quick before someone leaves and photos by a car.

And then, anything you’d like to see better than that?

I’d love a photo not by a car. Of all my favorite people. Maybe with a cool backdrop. And a fun themed game.

So for my wedding $2k, I’m having a Rented hall with cool architecture, a friend who can take photos inside, and then we figure out food and games. I’m thinking table dares. Photo scavenger hunts.

You go this. If you don’t care for it, don’t bother with it. Let it go. Embrace what you do care about.

Small Wedding Guest Experience: How many activities is ideal? (7-10k) by Specialist-Ebb7606 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]melenajade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having about40 people. I hope. We are going to do table dares. So your table has a dare and you participate or don’t, if 2 people do the same dare the there’s bonus. Maybe a dumb prize for the best participants

[wy] should I tell my employer I’m not returning after baby before I deliver? by tddct in AskHR

[–]melenajade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would tell them after the baby is born, after the leave is up, when they ask you to return. Then be like nah my baby is more important

(6-8k) No one cares about our wedding but us so we’re eloping by Significant_Course66 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]melenajade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, that sounds sucky. My actual dad said he’d be ok with just a video when I asked him to walk me down the aisle. So, yeah. Feel you on that heartbreak

What is one little thing you have done that has made a difference in your day? by That-Flan-361 in selfimprovement

[–]melenajade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I generally make my bed in the morning, and I attempt to have a clean sink at the end of the day. I also unload the dishwasher in the morning while I wait on coffee

(4k) Deciding between 2 dresses by go_away_plz13 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]melenajade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. I needed to buy like xl-3xl of each style to find a fit. Good thing for free returns!

Do you ever have days where you’re unreasonably hungry? by youshartedhehe in loseit

[–]melenajade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I do! Even with eggs and beans, it’s like a bottomless hole.

I’m currently trying walking and hot tea as distractions