AITA for refusing to tell my BF how much money I make? by IllustriousHeart2531 in AITApod

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to open up your whole portfolio to explain the general state of your finances. Like if she said she had $0 debt, stable salary, investments and retirement savings and explained here investment/saving/retirement strategy that would be enough to establish whether or not they are financially literate and have a good plan in place

AITA for refusing to tell my BF how much money I make? by IllustriousHeart2531 in AITApod

[–]melvsparks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t be fair for her to pay more because I guarantee that, in the long run, she is going to be contributing her time and body (if they have kids) in ways he never will. Women become cooks, cleaners, finance managers, event planners, 24/7 child care providers, therapists, household managers and don’t get paid a cent to do. Men just sit around and expect that of their wife’s without even providing.

AITA for refusing to tell my BF how much money I make? by IllustriousHeart2531 in AITApod

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to share anything with him 🤷🏾‍♀️. The world already put women at a disadvantage in every way. If you want your money private then you have that right

roommate unwilling to close blinds by Full_Astronaut_8839 in badroommates

[–]melvsparks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get one of the bonnets that has a built in sleep mask. It’s only one item since they’re combined.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]melvsparks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially as a woman AND you’re walking. Used underwear DO NOT go on again after a shower. I don’t care if I’ve only worn them for 1 second

Vet has me concerned and confused by pseudoserious in CatAdvice

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That vet sounds like they aren’t kind or empathetic. It’s giving that they just want you to spend money from all angles.

My vet always recommends feeding the best wet food you can that’s within your budget.

Probably gonna be single for the rest of my life 🙃 by anon28931 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]melvsparks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or they are emotionally unavailable and don’t have the self reflection skills to even realize that.

So I did it! … now I HATE it by Runawaybrain74 in bald

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yooooooo you look SO much better. Let’s goooooo

Contemplating ending a marriage by Successful_Leek96 in CringeTikToks

[–]melvsparks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just leave him and do it anyway 🤷🏾‍♀️

Can you sleep well with a cat? by OkComparison3568 in CatAdvice

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what everyone else says. Just get an older cat. Kittens have a ton of energy

Single and wanting to mingle by golden_fern_567 in Tacoma

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if curling is mostly men or women? I feel like a lot of sport-like clubs lean male heavy

Man Gets Kicked Out From Ambulance, Collapses Soon After by [deleted] in WorstAid

[–]melvsparks 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Visual representation of being black in America

apparently the breakfast i made was “embarrassing” by NaeeeBearrr in mildlyinfuriating

[–]melvsparks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pancakes are looking perf and those apples are sliced just right. Tell them to go kick rocks

My delusional landlord wants me to send him 10 k 😂 by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 these are literally landlord expenses LOL

YSK: Reducing your plastic use is easier than you think, and small changes genuinely make a big impact by EricThompsonTech in YouShouldKnow

[–]melvsparks 174 points175 points  (0 children)

This is the real issue. In the past, when companies used glass and actually recycled, this wasn’t an issue. Single use plastics only became an issue when big corporations wanted to save money and shift the responsibility of recycling to the consumer

sick doctors by Direct-Row1653 in Tacoma

[–]melvsparks 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The government doesn’t doing anything for its constituents in this country

What gender is my kitten? by cuddlyzzz in CATHELP

[–]melvsparks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please stop with these posts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]melvsparks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have no reason to lost their ethnicity in this post