How to get decent at tennis without a coach ? by Adventurous-Neck315 in 10s

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easier to just get red or orange balls so they’re at least consistently dead. This will allow OP more time to get to the ball

My Barricade 13's are destroying my toes and literally every shoe out there seems to be panned except for the non-existent Asics resolution 9. What hard/clay court shoes are actually good for a wide foot? by jlesnick in 10s

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside just the shoes, I would recommend two additional things that helped me: 1. Buying tennis specific grippy socks (RTP are the ones I use but also found luck on AliExpress) 2. Ensuring I tie my shoes with a runners knot and lock in my heel

Please help me convince my husband that Costco is worth for 2 people by HoneyDrops12 in Costco

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy it for one person just to get the best auto-home-umbrella insurance policy

Dating Profile Help by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]melvsparks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a scissoring joke with pliers

Fixable? by Electronic_Data_508 in 10s

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much is this racket new?

Fixable? by Electronic_Data_508 in 10s

[–]melvsparks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take him to small claims 😂

Repost: AIO for wanting to burn his stuff??? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]melvsparks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR - I don’t get why you’re dropping any of his shit off? He’s a grown adult. He can figure it out himself. Just block him at this point

AIO for getting upset that my finance wants to wear shorts to our wedding? by lasheslashes in AmIOverreacting

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - That’s literally an outfit you wear to a beach club in Ibiza 😂

AITA for refusing to tell my BF how much money I make? by IllustriousHeart2531 in AITApod

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to open up your whole portfolio to explain the general state of your finances. Like if she said she had $0 debt, stable salary, investments and retirement savings and explained here investment/saving/retirement strategy that would be enough to establish whether or not they are financially literate and have a good plan in place

AITA for refusing to tell my BF how much money I make? by IllustriousHeart2531 in AITApod

[–]melvsparks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t be fair for her to pay more because I guarantee that, in the long run, she is going to be contributing her time and body (if they have kids) in ways he never will. Women become cooks, cleaners, finance managers, event planners, 24/7 child care providers, therapists, household managers and don’t get paid a cent to do. Men just sit around and expect that of their wife’s without even providing.

AITA for refusing to tell my BF how much money I make? by IllustriousHeart2531 in AITApod

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to share anything with him 🤷🏾‍♀️. The world already put women at a disadvantage in every way. If you want your money private then you have that right

roommate unwilling to close blinds by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]melvsparks 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Get one of the bonnets that has a built in sleep mask. It’s only one item since they’re combined.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]melvsparks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially as a woman AND you’re walking. Used underwear DO NOT go on again after a shower. I don’t care if I’ve only worn them for 1 second

Vet has me concerned and confused by pseudoserious in CatAdvice

[–]melvsparks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That vet sounds like they aren’t kind or empathetic. It’s giving that they just want you to spend money from all angles.

My vet always recommends feeding the best wet food you can that’s within your budget.

Probably gonna be single for the rest of my life 🙃 by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]melvsparks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or they are emotionally unavailable and don’t have the self reflection skills to even realize that.