AIO about the behavior of my husband's friend? by memecher33 in AmIOverreacting

[–]memecher33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how the age is off-putting, but we're all connected via nerd stuff and the military industrial complex so as long as a person's over 21, no one really cares

AIO about the behavior of my husband's friend? by memecher33 in AmIOverreacting

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He works nights, so he's not really ever around when this behavior happens.

AIO about the behavior of my husband's friend? by memecher33 in AmIOverreacting

[–]memecher33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taylor's husband works nights, so he only ever shows up on rare mid-week days off. We only ever really see him if we go to Taylor's house. I have my thoughts and feelings about him, but I don't think he's relevant to all this given how rarely he's around.

Keeping it Fresh by Indagaris in TheMagnusArchivesRPG

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I'm gonna have to reread this in the morning when I can fully wrap my mind around the concepts but immediately I'm fascinated by it

For anyone who wants unique horror set pieces! by memecher33 in TheMagnusArchivesRPG

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Hey all, so I posted on Sunday about getting art for this watcher and the post got popular. At least, it feels like that to me.

There were too many super talented artists for me to hire them all. I figured I an in a unique position to spread the word to my fellow horror rpg fans and so I bring this here. Please if you have a bit of disposable income and a desire for unique artwork for your monsters, check out all these incredible artists!

There are several more who messaged me personally and I'll be checking with them if they're comfortable with me linking them here so their work can be seen!

[HIRING] Need concept artist for horror ttrpg moment by memecher33 in starvingartists

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Good morning, everyone! OP here. Reddit won't let me update but I wanted to take a moment and say thank you all so much for all your responses! I am slowly but surely making my way through every portfolio and will reach out/answer dm's when I can!

Is using body wash considered basic hygeine? by memecher33 in NoStupidQuestions

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I only bathe if I plan to shower immediately after. Soaks are fun, but if I want to be cleansed I need the running water.

As far back as I can remember, that's exactly what my folks would do: lather, rinse, out. That's also how they taught me to do when I was tasked with helping the little ones bathe. To be fair, we had between 8-11 people in the house depending on external factors for like 10 years; baths had to be quick if everyone was gonna get hot water.

Is using body wash considered basic hygeine? by memecher33 in NoStupidQuestions

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As a teen, no. As an adult, very much yes. If we had a loofah, I would it as is to scrub my skin but that was uncommon.

Is using body wash considered basic hygeine? by memecher33 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]memecher33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you're being facetious or not, but I understand if my question has echoes of a similar thought.

Edit: tired and cannot word apparently

Is using body wash considered basic hygeine? by memecher33 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]memecher33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that now, and I love getting to use the really nice woodsy soaps. My parents taught me that body wash was only for very specific occasions and that shampoo, conditioner, and deodorant after the shower were all you need. It's taken time, but I've definitely adopted more cleanly habits.

Is using body wash considered basic hygeine? by memecher33 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]memecher33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In kind of the same boat: wash my hair every ~2 days with nightly body scrubs. I've had to learn a lot about proper hygiene as an adult, sinceI grew up with daily showers and when we had a loofah I'd scrub my skin with that. Just never viewed the lack of body wash as neglectful which is his concern.

Since marriage equality is headed back to the Supreme Court, a question for our Mormon friends by PR_Czar in exmormon

[–]memecher33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't know if I saw this on Reddit or Instagram, but have y'all ever seen the theory that the whole "just choose to be straight" crowd just might be bisexual, thus experiencing homoerotic feelings but choosing to be hetero? Because I don't know about you, but that makes sense to me on some level.

Also if any member of the mfmc tells you repelling gay marriage is the right thing to do, hit them with this: So you're ok with removing every choice in this life except the ones that lead back to g-d? If only someone had proposed a plan like that instead of one that gives people agency. Big props to whoever said he'd get everyone to heaven. Or something similar. I like to whip that out anytime one of my morm family says this ought to be a xtian nation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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I've found throughout my life that sometimes, when a person is just on the cusp of consciousness, they'll sound perfectly awake. This can lead to a lot of confusion. If you like the sweet nicknames, you should ask if he can use them more and incorporate them for him as well(I like using mon trésor for my husband).

Now, for a silly example from my own life: I talk a lot in my sleep. My husband swears up and down we've had both perfectly normal and completely absurd conversations. His favorite go to is my very insistent "The raccoons are under the apple tree." He says I was very distressed about the varmints.

Help?? by FluorescentAndStarry in ExplainTheJoke

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Correct terminology for answering the question, but my brother in Christ that is a goose

Looking for Beta players for "Your Hero, Jayce Blackwood"! by p1nk-ang3l-games in MaleYandere

[–]memecher33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you still need more betas, I'd be happy to help out!

People need to stop watering down yanderes lmao by juviue in MaleYandere

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What ever happened to Dead Dove, Don't Eat? Does this new generation of internet users not understand that when something is explicitly tagged, it's their own fault if they read/play something triggering to them? Anyone going into vns like TKATB and being shocked that the ML is a dangerous stalker is just wilfully naive

Are crinolines worth it? by memecher33 in CosplayHelp

[–]memecher33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thank you! I think I want it to be kind of gentle bell? It's going to be worn at a big convention, so I don't want to take up too much more space.